Now ladies how many of you contact a regular if you have not heard from him in a while?  

for pre-meeting stuff. Never had one text or email me after a session to thank me or anything like that.

But I do enjoy her company either way. So I am ok with giving her money as long as she keep up the performance when she is with me.

I have no problem with a provider calling or texting me to see if I'd like to see her on that day. I know she's just trying to get some business. I totally understand.

I'd say they're even. I think that'd be what's called a mind fuck.

I've had ladies check in with me who know circumstances will never allow us to hook up again.
I've had ongoing communique with ladies who I'll never meet but share a mutual respect and appreciation for the life

Yes, I like it when a provider checks in on me!  Yes, I do understand that she possibly might be doing this because she needs to generate more cash flow but at least I'm on her call list lol.

if it gets out of hand - that's what filters are for

or hobby phone...    
She should get approval for putting on a list.  Sure, she's in town & needs to book appointments...  if you are into traveling girls, then knowing her schedeule is a win/win.

I am a pretty spontaneous person who's plans change a great deal, so I wish providers that I like would email more often when they have time.

I have a couple of ladies I've been seeing a couple of times a year going back four, five years now.  I occasionally will send them a joke or cartoon that I think they would find humorous.  Usually they will respond with a personal note.  Makes my day to hear from them.

If she's traveling and has some sort of mailing list to let you know she's around. Then I guess that's ok.