Just wondering if you gals engage in SD/SB types of relationships with sites like seekingarrangement where there is more of a one on one, exclusive agreement?  I am in the early stages of exploring that approach.

I travel all over the world and would prefer one "partner" to come with me.

Muchos Gracious

I didn't meet my former SD through the site listed. I met him through the hobby. Long story short, we got along great and he gave me a hefty monthly allowance. I left the business for a year and devoted myself to him full time. The arrangement ended no thanks to his wife finding out about us. We're still friends and get together here and there when our schedules align.

To get the ball rolling, I would recommend selecting two providers that appeal to you and go from there. Most providers are open to the idea if they don't have children or a SO to consider.

Good luck!

I have never done just the "one on one" because that is too much like a marriage, but I do spend more time with my SD, than anyone else. It takes some work getting started, but if you can weed through the bs, you should be just fine.

I didn't meet my former SD through the site listed. I met him through the hobby. Long story short, we got along great and he gave me a hefty monthly allowance. I left the business for a year and devoted myself to him full time. The arrangement ended no thanks to his wife finding out about us. We're still friends and get together here and there when our schedules align.

To get the ball rolling, I would recommend selecting two providers that appeal to you and go from there. Most providers are open to the idea if they don't have children or a SO to consider.

Good luck!

So the answer is no from a one on one.  I am definitely not talking about a marriage or relationship, I am married.  More along the lines of exclusive provider.

Also, sorry WE missed you in NOLA during Mardi Gras.  Think and you will know who this is.

I have before and may in the future. It can be very nice to have someone you're able to really get to know and have deep chemistry with. I love having the time to learn how to really push someone's buttons, in a good way. I don't participate on seeking-arrangement or those sites though, that doesn't seem like it would work, and I'm not actually actively looking for one. If it happens, it happens, but coming from experience - it's not an always an easy road and both parties have to be careful and very clear about what they expect. I would suggest trying someone who has had that type of relationship before, going through it together for the first time will probably just end up in a lot of headaches for you.

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Thx Krista.  Killer body art by the way.

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What I mean by no one on one, is there has never been ONE guy willing to pay me what it would take to pull my website, and stop providing. Most guys think 2 or 3k a month is going to cut it, but that's not the case. If I were to totally quit, he would have to supply my every need...for myself, and my family.

The other issue...I can't just up and leave unless it is Monday-Thursday, and most guys want weekends, which I will not do. My child comes first, and that's the only time I see her. During the week, no problem because you see where I am at lol.


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Krista we should talk then, sounds interesting!

While I have been in that kind of relationship and I love the amount of closeness and intimacy that it creates I agree with London that gentlemen tend to offer a much smaller sum of money as an allowance than I can make escorting and in the end I have to think not just about my needs this month, but my needs in twenty years.  I can save much more when I work as a professional.

just to check it out, and many of the "sugar babies" available were popular escorts using different names but the same pictures from their escort ads and websites.


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I guess there are trade offs.  Pure cash register and all the headaches that come along with that or a monthly commitment from someone that you could build a more in depth arrangement with.

If it is only about cash, then I agree, keep the taxi meter going.

Stop paying either one (SB or provider) a dime, and see how much she wants to see you.

We are not here looking for a relationship, but to make money. I don't see the confusion lol. And no, some headaches are not worth any amount of money. Most women choose this route to be independent and NOT have a guy up our ass making demands for our time 24/7. We work when we want, and for some of us that might only be 4 hours a week.

The right sugar daddy will do just what I said, or not be so entitled. If he can't afford to pay all of her bills, he really has no right to expect her to only be with him...as if.

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I am not disagreeing London.  There is always an element of the financial arrangement and it is not about having a girlfriend or dictating someone's day.  If you had a guy up your ass making demands, I assume no amount of cash makes that any more acceptable.  Real life or professional life.

Those were only the obvious ones using their same pics. I bet the rest of the sbs I didn't recognize are providers who are using different pics on the sb site, and utr providers!

I agree 200% & prefer 1 smart gent!

It was nice catering to one gentleman. I didn't have to advertise, screen or see multiple men during my Sugar Baby days. It was a relief knowing what to expect (financially) every month. There were extra goodies too such as shopping sprees, day spa visits, elegant dinners, international travel and a credit card. I know this type of arrangement doesn't happen every day, but I sure do miss it.

The biggest mistake on my end was accepting the credit card. The credit card company sent the monthly statement to his house instead of the office. OUCH!

For any gentleman who's considering this type of arrangement, cover all of your tracks and make sure you are willing to take care of the extra details for your new found SB.

Today, I'm back at work full time catering to the men who've helped me excel in this industry since 2005. I am beyond grateful that my clients welcomed me back with open arms.

And has a long-term lease.