There's this provider who gives me at least 1 or 2 hours extra time during our session and then asks me if I want to go out for drinks, or to grab something to eat (off the clock).

She started touring my area this week even though she never came here before. She has given me additional hours at some ridiculously low rate and a full menu, including something she doesn't normally do and isn't written in any of her reviews.

She has told me that she likes my character, likes me for being 'mature for my age', and being intelligent.
On the surface, if she was a civvy girl I'd have taken a wild guess and thought that she might be interested in me as more than a client, but that thought gets very hazy because she has a boyfriend.  Now, I also know that this can entirely be possible if she considers me as a good friend, or at least have the potential to be one.

Ladies, if you're giving virtually many hours of freebie time as well as extra time off the clock for outings, what would be your main reason especially when you already have a boyfriend?  just normal shit among 'friends' or does this give off signs that there's a possibility of something more to it?

Never assume any more than that. Making an assumption can only ruin things.   But the best person to ask isnt a board, it would be her.

On a net board?  I'll tell you why.  It's because you're making shit up so that you can post yet again.

Many men are like schools of fish

Keep the chum buckets flowing , they'll stay close .

superior intelligent beings coming to Earth and finding us earthlings so clueless that they decide it's better to destroy us rather than let us continue in our stupid ways.

Stop looking this wonderful gift horse in the mouth and just enjoy it!

Soon, like all good things, it will be gone; and then you'll regret not savoring it when you had the chance.

All good, as long as the BF doesn't kick his ass!!   lol

or sneek up on him and f-ck him in the ass during a session-lol

there could be various explanations to why she is giving you off the clock time.

One could just be she has nothig else to do. sorry, I know that sounds bad. If you are a regular that she has been seeing for a very long time then that could be your answer right there. We do socialize off the clock sometimes with our regulars, or I do as an added bonus.

What's in your wallet
and I am horny or both!

She is bored, has a little time on her hands and your fun..
sounds like a win/win to me!

Dude......she is in th business to MAKE MONEY....not find a relationship or boyfriend.  COME out of your fantasy land.....she is making money off of you for sex.  Bottom line....don't look past that and don't look for more with a provider.  There are MANY women out there you can pick up and date....don't GET mixed up with a provider and knowing she has a Boy friend....WTF are you thinking.  Now do you feel stupid?  No harm...no foul.....Just words of advice...

she simply likes spending time with you. I do this in every area I tour with OTC time, but not with sex...I don't give the booty away for anyone. I was used most of my life for sex, so I will be damned if I ever give it up for free without a ring on my finger again lol.

Dinner and drinks...absolutely. I travel a lot and who wants to eat alone in their hotel room? As a woman I rarely will go to a bar/restaurant alone like guys can do...very awkward for me. I find there are usually a couple of gents in every area I travel to whom I love just hanging out with, and if I am not booked I always extend the dinner/drink offer.

If you're married, then you have nothing to worry about as you are probably not looking to date a hooker ha ha. If you're single and she knows it, well you never know what is going on in her mind. Many women in this business will date their clients...I won't.

Provider/client relationships offer an arena to "play safe" and "pretend" or both clients and providers.

Anyone who thinks any woman only and always cares about money alone is a fool.

She can like you, be attracted to you, and enjoy the sex even though she has a boyfriend without feeling guilty because you are a client. As long as you are "just a client" in her mind, there is no issue.

Trying to get her to admit she likes you or seeing if there is "something more," will likely make her feel very uncomfortable giving you all that extra attention because you are starting to read too much into it.

The same is true when a provider is really into a married man. As long as she is a provider and he's paying for it, he will feel comfortable with her affections and his enjoyment of the connection. But, if she asks him to be lovers or have an affair, the whole thing can become something that he doesn't want.

I don't do OTC sessions either, even for guys I really like (oh, yes, I have had them... don't kid yourself into thinking we never feel anything just because that's never happened to you), because then it can get confusing and you can end up losing a regular you really like because he is uncomfortable with "where things are going."

"The envelope" is more of a clear boundary in these situations rather than the main motivation.

I like some of the ladies I pay and I feel they like me but the envelope keeps things there without it getting uncomfortable, unsafe, and not cheating. Second the envelope goes away any sexual part must go away or I want nothing to do with it.