Sometimes I want to cuddle and sometimes I just wanna fuqk. It also depends on the persona of the ladies I pursue. Some are selling sex and some are selling the 'experience'.

The only real difference is anal, which if it's painful for her is no turn on for me. The other difference is continous fucking and there are not too many providers I'm guessing are going to really keep up that pace for 3 hours or more.

I prefer the sensuality of a GFE better. You still get a good fuck and suck (hopefully), with a little drink break and snack in between, plus I like the conversation as I'm staring at the silhoutte of a great body right next to me. Yea that's the one I prefer.

MM

depending on the lady, it can be like having a true lover - even if its just and hour or so

but IMO the hobbyist is often deluding himself.

  At $$$ or more a whack I'm looking for a full blown "gonzo" porn experience rather than a manufactured illusion of genuine connection, caring and commitment

Definitely GFE - but with a slight touch of PSE thrown in

I love the sensuality and initmacy with a GFE provider;  
the touching, kissing, Daty, foreplay in general.
However, I do prefer a touch of "PSE" when it comes to f*cking because I find
that some GFE ladies can't take too much of that; after a few minutes
their "p*ssy hurts" or they just can't keep up with me and "tire out" etc

In my experience nothing compares to a mature GFE--experience counts.

GFE who doesn't rely on a routine

but rather is open to learning more about the potential of her own body. Disappointing to meet up with self-limiting women, especially those in the 30+ age group, who think that whatever they have already experienced is all that their body has to offer them. There is a bigger banquet available but they have to come to the table.

(Not talking about 1,001 positions in a session or lotions/potions or things that require batteries. Rather, the experiences of having a deep orgasm via light breast stimulation alone, or an orgasm that comes from caresses to the back and face, or shared hand stimulation while listening to music that encourages a whole body release.)

Providers that open-minded are very rare indeed.

however, it's been awhile since I've done a PSE session. I've only given three "10s" for performance, all were PSE sessions, even though the providers didn't advertise their sessions as PSE.  

PSE, especially with the blow job. I like my bbbj's nasty, sloppy and vigorous. I'm not too much of a greek guy though and often I think people make the assumption that PSE means greek. I also like a woman that can talk dirty, very dirty.

I like both, but I tend to see more GFE than PSE providers.  A couple of the providers that i've seen are also do both, since they are/were former porn stars.  A lot depends on my mood and sometimes I just like something different than the usual GFE.