Today I did BBFS for the first time ever in 7 years of p4p. It was a very young Sugar Baby, we each had recent test results, and somehow we decided to trust each other. So, let's get some data on this topic.

...and you really don't know what I've done, so why chance it?
Now, that's not to say I don't have unprotected sex.  I've been dating a married couple for just over a year, and we don't use condoms. But, when we all first started seeing each other, we did.
They trust me in the fact that I would never want to bring any of my work home to them, and I don't want to lose that trust.
Now, have there been times when I've wanted to give a client BBFS?
Sure. I won't deny it.  But I haven't, yet.
If I do, I better be damn sure about what I'm doing.

Client.
I'm seeing two providers BBFSCIP.
Both in their early 30's.
Once every week or two. Depending on her availability.
100% total trust with both of us. And they're both gorgeous.  
Sorry I can't reveal who they are.  

Both times I was on my back and  expecting CG.  Not sure what the girls were thinking but both just inserted me BB and started riding without saying anything.  Both girls have retired from hobbyland, but one I still know in real life.  She lives one town over from where I work.  Both events were about 5 years ago and my dick hasn't fallen off yet.

Uncovered pu$$ie$ and daty and rimming cleaner and safer than uncovered d!ck?  It's your dime on time.Client just one or twice because we had an unusual level of trust

Do the ladies know about each other?

The one that started this post just wanted what others experienced with BBFS. So those that are against BBFS should shut the Hell Up! You're not going to stop those that like BBFS from going BBFS.

I would have to say "rarely".  Most of the BBFS I have had with hookers has not been as a client, but as a BF.  I think most people here know my "number" is rather high. If I was getting BBFS from random hookers that I just met, I am pretty sure my dick would have rotted off years ago. lol

Client:
Often -  
With few regular provides with whom it seems right

Applies to me EXACTLY, word for word.  Once I have transitioned from customer to boyfriend, then its okay.  However, if she is not like-minded, it may not last very long.  

I guess the risk for you to feel skin on skin is worth it. Porn stars are always tested and it doesnt seem to stop outbreaks from happening in that industry. I doubt you're going to get a life threatening disease in this case since you took the time to get tested, but jesus man, STD test results can show up negative, even though the person is infected. Some STDs take time to develop and may not register on a test, because some STD tests are less effective at detecting positive results for a newly acquired infections. Some people can carry the aids virus but not contract it and not show any symptoms at all. No test is 100% accurate at detecting a disease, so IMO, beyond testing, the person's lifestyle and sexual history are the other tests to see if sex with that individual is going to be safe. In this case, working girls that are currently active are not women who have a recent history (or any real history) of monogamous sexual relationships, so I just wear a jimmy for my own protection.  

Thrice.  Once intentionally and twice unexpectedly.  I don't recommend it, but I emerged unscathed.  

Awww, whatsa matta?  You no have your yoga class, this morning?

Client
Offered or indicated it was available about half dozen times, usually with a provider I had seen multiple times
Offers not accepted!

But I assume you're asking about BBFS in P4P, not civvie sex e.g. with spouse/SO.  

Client
often (about 20%/25% of the time)
Note that this in the legal club scene in Europe: always if it is in a place were it isn't supposed to happen (not that I think I'm the only one she does it with, I'm not that naive) and 80%/90% of the time in places where it is common knowledge that BBFS is available.

I guess we know it's out there and most ladies deny offering it, even if they clearly must do!
I have never in 15 years as a SW done it with a client, nor would I ever for any amount of money or bookings.
Using a condom is like wearing a hard hat for hookers. Just would never risk it, nor have I ever wanted to.

Client

you're fucking two different (attractive by your standards) women raw... how many other men are these two women fucking raw? That's a lot of raw sex and bodily fluids...

I've never paid for it, nor have I done it with a sex worker.

Provider:

The risks for oral are substantially lower for everything outside of HSV which is moderately lower and only if one of you has an outbreak (and I'd doubt that most providers worth seeing would give BBBJ to a dick with a sore on it, some might give it when they had a cold sore however).

Same here.  Never ever

Never in almost 20 years. Only 'offered' once and that was after I pushed her off when she tried to slip it in during a stripper slide.  A few other times I had a feeling it might be available but wasn't offered.

why would anyone willingly suck a dick with a sore on it? and yeah it's low until you add CIM and Swallowing, people out here swapping spit back and forth after DATY and BBBJCIMNQNS but you wanna tell me about the risks of BBFS? and herpes is out here spreading with a condom and closed mouth kissing. Any sex ed teacher or nurse or doctor will tell you it's not as risky but is still risky.

As for CIP or not:

I hope your spouses catches something & divorce your asses & takes everything !!!  Or if you're single I hope you get them prego and have to pay an outrageous amount in child support or get stuck paying for someone else's baby!!!!  

> why would anyone willingly suck a dick with a sore on it?  

It's a bad idea, everyone knows that.

Is it poor character?   I'm stating consequences that follows with stupidity!!! I never said I wish upon... I stated I hope!!!!

Unless they are borrowing your dick, none of your business!

I reported my first BBFS experience in hundreds of p4p encounters. I SPECIFICALLY asked for no editorializing. Please.  

any post under a real handle will be some dignified answer. questions like these are pointless and just a reason for some people to make themselves sound holier than thou.

. . . andd whatever two people agree on in the bedroom is *their* business.  

Client, never, unless you count the time we found the condom in her pussy after the act! That said, I should also note that the only time I think I was being offered -- in CG, after P2P, she went almost all the way (took my dick by her hand and raised her hip) , but stopped with the tip of my dick touching her pussy -- I did nothing to stop it, but I was so surprised that I think she saw it in my face and stopped.

We know the consequences of raw sex. We don't need a lecture. Have fun or what fun you can get from this thread.
You're not going to change the attitudes in this P4P world...so just keep on keeping on with your own thing.

A BBFS provider, its better to be the first customer of the day.  By the fourth appointment, it's usually just about full, so when insertion comes, the combined contribution from the first three guys squirts  out on your balls.  Its kind of messy and unappetizing.  When that happens, I never follow up with DATY.  

Really? Rimming, tossing salad or eating ass as you put it is much safer then going raw!!!  Idk how others eat ass but for me I make sure the ass is sterilized ... Are the dicks steepled for BBFS!  Lmfao!!  

Don't you think it's a bit hypocritical to be violently forcing your morals and values about BBFS onto others when you already suck bare dick for a living?   This hobby is about mutually consenting adults. So if both people mutually agree, who the fuck are you to criticize?  

Some of you think a girlfriend is safer to go BBFSCIP than a Provider? Seriously? You think you're the first one to have sex with your current girlfriend? Who's to say that your girlfriend isn't hooking on the side?

It always blows my mind how little these dudes think. If she's doing my BB with one person, she's also doing it with others. That's just disaster waiting to happen.

Client.
Rarely.
Was offered BBFS by two different providers as an upsell during a first appointment. I did it, because I was younger and more reckless at the time. I also got BBFS from another provider after we got into a relationship, and I wasn't worried because she was a safety girl at work: everything wrapped, no kissing, etc.

never

when HIV/AIDS was new and a death sentence, the motto was "if you are having unsafe sex with someone, you are having sex with everyone they've had unsafe sex with".  My ex was the STD nurse for the state health department for 5 counties.  It was a scary scary time.  The story I remember most (of course she didn't share names) was that she had to tell a 20 something young girl that she had tested positive, her 2 year old daughter tested positive, and her unborn baby would likely be positive.  Tragic...

I BBFS my wife quite often. We both test often. I test every three months or four partners whichever comes first. My wife tests weekly when working as required by law as a legal Nevada brothel prostitute, or every four partners or three months like me when she isn't.

Please note I am not condemning it but eating ass has its own risks. Yes it is at DATY level risks for STD's and much lower that BBFS in that regards but it carries its own unique risks that few other sex acts possess. The biggest is E Coli. Every man, woman, and child is carrying the deadly bacteria in their colon. It is actually useful there. No matter how well washed there is no way to eliminate that risk completely. Every time you toss someones salad you are taking the same risks as eating known contaminated salad greens. Most of the time a healthy adult will be OK most of the time but that is not saying the risks aren't real. E Coli is hardly the only unique risk of DATO. Don't kid yourself DATO is at least as risky as BBFS. The risks are just different.  After all not ever sex partner is carrying a STD to spread during BBFS, But everyone is packing E Coli and it can and does kill.

I am a client who has never requested or received BBFS.

What I will do however is to point out that you are hardly "sterilizing" the asses you eat. You might be cleaning them to the best of your ability, but even a freshly washed ass is hardly sterile.

GaGa you crack me up but I get the point!!  

I still offer uncovered services that prose a risk to myself and others such as BBBJ, DATY, SS and DATO. I've been told by a couple of gentlemen that they wouldn't see a lady who offers all of that and I've also been declined a doubles by a lady as well.  

>I hope your spouses catches something & divorce your asses & takes everything !!!

Including one Nuru gal that I suspect was BBFS but honestly I don't know... wasn't discussed.. another that kind of slipped it in.. I got tested right away.. I was fine.. makes me nervous though.. never by request.. it happens..

a vaginal moisturizer, then it won't be raw, it will be soft and smooth.  Providers and johns should know this.

This seems to a hot topic in other discussion groups as well.
I'm almost 70 and have lived my life by don't judge lest thee be judged.
I am saddened that I've seen 3 Mojo ads for bbfs recently. I'll stay with TER.

It is one thing to put ones own health and happiness on the line and quite another to risk the happiness of a yet to be conceived child. Point well taken.

Why do you want the "data" and why is it that important to you??  You obviously are going to keep on with your unsafe practices regardless so who cares what others are doing?

Client  
Never with a provider, almost always with girlfriends.  
I recently was offered BBFS-greek-by a provider that I see regularly, for an upcharge. Because I am older and have diabetes, I often lose my erection while putting on a condom, so her offer was an attempt to eliminate that problem. I doubt that I will take her up on that offer.

Happens all the time.  Currently, I'm BBFS with a massage provider who I have been seeing for two years.  First time she popped me in raw and it was incredible.  Other is with a regular who I started seeing in 2011.  We hook up weekly and the sex is great but long.  She was getting rubbed raw with the condom and on her suggestion we started going bare in 2014.  No issues with either of these ladies as far as STDs.  

I have a playtime session set up this week with my young BBFSCIP provider. She called me because she wants to play. All she wants is for me to take her out to dinner after we play. I feel like a Powerball Lottery Winner since I met this girl.

As a client---never ever with a provider, under any circumstances!! And never will!!

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Agreed.  CIP is as good as it gets., IMO. As deep as I can manage to get it, too, lol.  Never understood the girls who greenlight bareback but want you to squirt somewhere else when the moment arrives.

That's exactly how my two year long "relationship" with my sensual massage girl started.  Me on my back, her massacring my legs and working her way up. Then, before I could even react, I'm balls deep in her.  Didn't stop her from going to town on my knob.  Felt too damn good.  

Why, I never! *Southern accent*

to clean up your own mess after you cum inside, she might let you.  Most girls I have asked about this say its the extra work to clean up what the guy left is why they want you to cum somewhere else.  I know you can hire cleaning services, but not sure if they also clean jizz out of pussies.  You'd have to ask, but usually, everything has a price.

A lady once hooked me with her legs, and tried to force me in, but I easily stopped her. I just smiled at her, and said, 'where's the cover'? No harm, no foul.

Keep telling yourself that.. all it takes is one you dumbfuk... smh

I ALWAYS use my real handle because I want all of my responses to be viewed as dignified.  Its all I've got since everyone is holier than me.  

Sweetie, if discussions about bodily fluids grosses you out, maybe you're in wrong line of work.  Unless you offer your services wrapped in latex, you're exposed to something.  

Never have

NM

client
once - 20yrs ago @AMP in Philly

I have never done BBFS with an escort.  If I was considering a lady and saw that she did BBFS with a client in one of her reviews, then I would no longer be considering that lady.  

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Many times though I have recently stopped.
Never had an STD but the worry afterwards is stressful and rarely worth the few minutes of fun.

Client
Two BBFS experiences, about two years ago.
The providers were 18 and 24 years old.
Both had ads on BP and were TER listed. The 18yo had 5 reviews. The 24yo had about a dozen or so.
I'd chosen them because of their slim body type, attractiveness, and that they offered a Greek option.
Both experiences began with CBJs, then covered intercourse. When I asked to try anal, both women told me they preferred 'no condom' for Greek. I thought I was dreaming. I hadn't had BBFS offered in my 10 or so years hobbying.
I wasn't in a relationship, and the memory of skin-on-skin sensation was overwhelming. I threw caution to the wind and had a couple of the most intense orgasms of my life. Months later I had a full battery of STD tests and all came back negative.

Never.  I've used condoms with every person I've slept with even before sexwork. By the offers I've received I can unfortunately see why some providers do but I've taken way too many health/science classes to be interested.

So I understand we're all adults, so everyone will do as they please. But I simply can't understand why someome would want to take that risk? I have gotten so many offers and requests, and personally I have too much to risk. What if my birth control failed, and I got pregnant? Contracted an STD? I dont understand what the "thrill" is. Yes, it feels amazing and I have considered it with a handful of clients...but at the same time the risk was just too great. I dont know how many providers youve been with, that allow it. I dont know how many drunken encounters you've had or people you've slept with outside of hobbying. A hobbyist doesnt know where a provider has been,either. What amazes me is married or business men who want BBFS...how are you supposed to explain that to your wife or S/O? By all means, do as you please, but I can't wrap my head around it.

1. Gents, and PLEASE, ladies as well, weigh in, USING YOUR ALIAS. (Unless, like GaG, you just don't give a fuck.) This should allow everyone to respond candidly.  No need for an Alias

Repping you for that one, Gemma.  That's why a provider I knew is not a provider anymore.  She got knocked up and now he's paying child support.  lol

I'd recommend a cover for a civvie girl much less than a prostitute who sees like how many guys a week.  

oh, c'mon.  that's the best part.  lol  Why not go for the gold of grossness.  Follow it up with her popping in your mouth.  Where does it end?  lmao

poop-in-your-mouth story, but it involves an 85 year old hobbyist who lost control during a rimming and let it go into the provider's mouth.  She took a month off, presumably to brush her teeth 24/7.  True story (except for the teethbrushing, that's my speculation).

I was getting a backroom lap dance from a visiting porn star. She mounted me and I went with it. As she was a popular studio porn actress, I figured she got tested regularly but there was still the nagging question in my head of, "how many other BBFS lap dances did she give?"

That Night! EOM