Been a hobbyist for 3 years and i find literally 95% of escorts are very un-attractive..especially on backpage- the remaining 5% are not attractive neither, just average. I came in this hobby thinking women who sell sex are suppose to be good-looking. Is it just me?

That post likely put you on most ladies' DNS lists. Problem solved!

Scanned your reviews..do you really expect to get super hot women, in NY of all places, off BP for $100 - $150?  The economics of this (or any) business just don't work that way.

it's probably a broad generalization you are making. My (hopefully) fiancee-to-be is an ex-provider (as I posted below). When she was trying to work UTR about 6 years ago, she only posted ads on BP in NY and LA. She is a 10 to me but at least a solid 8-9 in looks to everyone else. As support for this, she was on the covers of Playboy and Penthouse only a couple of years before her BP ads when she was 20-21 years old. Another time, about 4 years ago, when I was a regular hobbyist, I found a few solid 8/8's for 3$/H. It is hard to believe the times have changed that much. There are attractive women on BP. You have to find them and you have to pay more than 1.5-2$/H. My SO used to charge 10$-13$/H. There are also a lot of ugly people. They tend to cluster more at the low rates. C'est la vie?

Been watching them for (a lot more than) 3 yrs, and I find literally 95% of hobby guys are very un-attractive..especially on fuckboards- the remaining 5% are not attractive neither, just average. I came in this hobby [?...not so much] thinking men who buy sex are supposed to be less asshole-ish. Is it just me?

Y'know, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results

...if she put ads on BP she was not UTR. UTR(under the radar) means no ads, no web presence of any kind.
It's back channel/word of mouth only.

Granted, many of the BP postings have stolen or fake pictures.  But I see where there are a fair number of ladies here that utilize BP just because that is where the eyes are located.  But to your OP, if you think 95% of the ladies here are unattractive, maybe you need to rethink your view of reality.  The view might be better if you remove your head from your anal passageway

I guess that makes sense. I've gone the 4-$500 route more than once, usually on eros- they're better looking there on average but nothing too special unless it's a porn star, they visit periodically so i don't always get in touch easily. This is a business where you make money from your looks, so regardless of the price you have to look like something- i wouldn't make a thread about it if it was once in a blue but browsing page after page, these backpage girls are just...UUGH!

Thanks. whether the price is 200, or $2,000- i came in the hobby thinking providers were suppose to look a certain way, and that not just "any woman" can sell sex, since this is a business based on the visual. Guess i was wrong.

That's silly. Putting aside all of the practical skills that one has to have to be successful in sex work....

Well first don't trust Eros without other verification, more fakes on there than BP.  Secondly, this is a business where providers make money for providing a service....their looks, in part, determine what they can charge, but nobody's paying to just look at them.  A Ferrari and a Hyundai both fundamentally provide the same "service," i.e. transportation.  Should they cost the same?  If you drive a Hyundai and complain that it won't go 0 to 60 in 2 seconds, well...

Yes, i am one. I'm sure many guys enjoy that part of the service, and that's great: but i'm more visual and i  came in the hobby to avoid all the talking and emotional stuff that i deal with other women before i sleep with them. But thanks for explaining.

Maybe he should try some different places to shop. There are plenty of ice looking ladies where's he's based and gosh so many ladys visit there.

xoxo,

Steph

Yes it is you.

Learn how to filter out the bait and switch better.  You'll find that there are maby gorgeous girls in this business.  Do you read reviews at all?  That's what this site is for....

We might have us another village idiot in the making here...

You've come to the hobby to avoid all the talking and emotional stuff you have to deal with before sleeping with women. But you find 95% of all escorts unattractive and the remaining 5% just average.  

Even if he uses his TER handle for verification, >95% of the hookers will agree to see him if his references check out.  

This is one of those times. When is the last time you booked a magician, over a hot piece of ass?

All of these have given us heightened, and unrealistic, expectations of what a hooker will look like as she opens the door.

Has it ever occurred to you that hot women have figured out that fucking old fat ugly guys is worth a hell of a lot more than $150 hr?

Now yes you can find hot women at that price point, but not in NY of all places. I would try Latin America or Asia if I were you, you know somewhere that people average less than a grand a month working at a "real" job. Do you really think a "model" is going to come fuck you for less than the price of a cab ride from the airport?

I have some real advice for you if you are willing to take it. Stop bottom feeding on BP and use TER for what it was designed for. Don't rely on what other guys think is hot, but when you find a woman whose pics are attractive, check her reviews to see if her pics are current, real, and are truly representative of how she looks in person.

Tomorrow we can teach you how to find women who perform like you want, but lets start with baby steps so you don't have to waste your time with ugly women. I will agree with you that there are a lot of unattractive women in this business, but I've checked out your reviews, you don't really seem that hard to please in the looks department, your ten is barely my eight, and there are a lot of legitimate eights out there. Just not too many doing 15 blow and gos on BP.

One nine, and six eights in appearance. That means well over 40% of the women he has reviewed he has scored an eight or above in appearance.

So even though he is a bottom feeding troll without a clue as to what he is doing, he still is doing a lot better than 95% Fuglies. Yes, I do believe we have a new village idiot in training.

This is a direct quote from one of his reviews-

Reminds me of AF. Been around a while yet haven't quite figured it out. Even the recent new guys seem to have figured things out more than the op.  

Really annoyed to read a hobbyist complaining about providers looks or services. If you want to bang a supermodel, porn star, a 10/10 type,  then you need to deepen your pockets. Hot women like that dont spread their legs for $100, 250, 350,.(unless they are crackheads) Average girls charge 350-400 (7/8's), Hot girls usually 500-700 (9/10), but remember what you consider HOT maybe a NOT to another.

The BP girls TEND to be more entry level.  Independents TEND to be more experienced ladies who offer a wider variety of attractions.  For some it is incredible looks, for some it is extensive menus, for some it is a much classier environment, for some a GFE experience.  You pay for those amenities.  I'm seeing a lady in a few hours who is nothing short of stunning visually, intellectually fully my equal and I'm no dummy, full of life, character and enthusiasm, but she is not $150 per hour or even double that.  And they're worth it.

Ok i hear alot of people mention the pricing factor, which would make sense, but when i first got in the hobby it was relatively easy to find attractive women in the 150-200 dollar range. As a matter of fact, some looked better than some who charged 400-500$.  I had regulars who were very attractive but these were usually women  who were in the business temporarily. Guess they finished paying their tuition, credit card debt or whatever. The 700-1000$ dollar escorts some of you suggested is a little redundant, i've gone that route before but its not something i'm inclined to do regularly, just the fact of paying for this is enough. I'm exposed to attractive women in everyday life, i've never had a problem- i only got in the hobby to avoid  the talking and emotional stuff that comes  prior to sex with them, I just thought i'd see them in this business also.

If you are claiming this is the type of lady that you find attractive, and FWIW I agree she is simply attractive, not stunning. I would consider her a TER 8, but if this is what you want, do what TER was designed to do for you, use it to find ladies of this caliber.

What you are asking for is unrealistic, at least in NYC. You are not going to find a plethora of hot young women lining up to come see you for a $150, even in the south where pricing at much cheaper, you have to figure $200 hr as a minimum when looking for a provider. The only places I can think of where you can get hotties for that rate are not in this country, but in places where the average income is less than a grand a month, certainly not NYC.

It looks like you have a choice, either dig a little further into your pocket, or settle for the caliber of women you've been getting.

For the record, this is an example of what i consider attractive

Half you rate 7 or above in looks.

Even the lowest you state in your review that you liked her looks, so what gives?  Are you just itchy to post a troll post for some reason?

In any case, remember that beauty is only skin deep and it is more satisfying to see someone who can rock your world than to offer a fleeting flash of glamour.

it is you. The market always plays the same. You can find nice shirts at the thrift store, but it takes lots of work and a little luck. If you think the girls I have seen are ugly, then insert white hot irons in your eyes and solve the problem.

Exactly  

skills.  Did you know with VIP you can enter info in as many fields as you want to find the perfect provider for you?  It is called advanced search.

Both Glamor and rock your world Just WOW! Right?

the Badunkadunk's could be a family with strong lineage - a mix of Moroccan and Indian influences, and good asses

That does it, I'm changing my name to Athena Junkindatrunk.

I have limited means, and those providers who are truly a 10 in looks charge very high end rates, so my dealings with them have been limited.

But on the few occasions I have seen such a provider and she was also a 10 for performance, those were truly memorable.

On the other hand, I paid big bucks to see a gal whose looks appeared to be a ten in her photos (The reality was a couple of notches below 10.) and her performance was ho-hum at best.  Even if she had the great looks, I would not have repeated with her and would have avoided the interaction in the first place.

Live and learn.

(This was a few years before I joined TER, so there is no review, but if you want to PM me, I'm fine with that.)

If you look at his reviews, he mostly gives low scores to his BP gals.  You'd think he'd figure out he needs to see gals at a higher price point and from a better source.  He might be forced to play less frequently but he'd probably have a better time.

Because you aren't going to get a hottie for cheap.

I too have very limited means but I see by your reviews there is some commonality. I hope to have my world rocked again soon. It is worth it to me, and I suspect it would be to the OP to see the ladies with a rock your world reputation.

I wouldn't say the percentage is that high, but I suppose I'm one of those people who finds something attractive about everybody.  I once dated a guy in college that was the spitting image of Screech on saved by the bell, and the guy broke my heart

Looking at your past reviews, there is a definite trend.  Fat chicks.  With pretty crappy reviews.  Or no reviews out of BP.  
Spend more than $150 in NY or something better than a 15 minute hooker and see what you get.  
I have seen where you've done some nice reviews on decent providers, but they are few and far between.  

$400 seems high for her actually,  unless she has very solid reviews from known hobbyists.

I would most likely give her a seven on my personal scale, but fair is fair and she certainly rates a TER 8 in looks.

I am with you at $400 I wouldn't book her, but we aren't the guys complaining that there are no hot women to fuck.

I agree that the a lot of TER 10's are no more than 6's to me, but to claim that 95% of the women here are fuglies and that the other 5% are just average is a bullshit statement and we both know it's simply not true.

I looked at his reviews. He would complain about you having dark hair. Get the idea. Wants a new Benz for a Yugo price. Smile and forget him . Have fun and keep on smiling, makes them wonder what you are up to.

How did I reply to a post almost an hour before it was made??

You want a diamond for a rhinestone price, dumbass. Though there are hot chicks in every price range and on every site, you are rarely going to find a damn supermodel for cheap, and there is a reason for that. Women who are truly hot, seem to know it and price accordingly. Then, you have the super hot women who are horrible in bed, have a list of 'do nots' and don't give two shits about you, so hot does not always correlate with being a good provider.