Please help me out ladies. For a variety of reasons I enjoy 69. Naturally with the right lady, but when she is "right," phew!
Have heard a couple of ladies comment they do not enjoy 69. Those who do not, claim it distracts them and they are unable to concentrate on more than one thing at a time.
Of course I enjoy being serviced but also that balance where my companion is also enjoying herself. Ladies care to share your opinions on this very important topic?
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As long I am getting licked too I am okay
69 doesn't throw off my concentration but every lady is different on what she enjoys.
I also love both lobster and tequila, but that doesn't mean I am going to have the two together. lol
I find 69 more of a distraction than anything else. I can't concentrate on trying to find her upside down "man in the boat" while my trying to keep my nose from becoming buried in her asshole, and I can't even enjoy the blowjob I am getting while I am trying to do a decent job of eating her pussy. I am simply much better at eating pussy that is right side up, and since I do DATY mainly for "her" enjoyment, there is no sense in doing a half assed job at it.
Just like lobster and tequila, I am more than happy to take my tequila AFTER I am done enjoying my lobster dinner, or I can even enjoy a shot or two of tequila BEFORE I start chowing down on my lobster, but not even a drunk like me enjoys drinking tequila WHILE eating my lobster. I feel the exact same way about oral sex. lol
Which still leaves the rest of the bottle for drinking, I think I like this recipe.
I still think I'll save the rest of tequila for after dinner, this recipe sounds like it would taste much better washed down with a nice crisp bottle of white wine, maybe something like a good Puligny Montrachet?
I get too easily distracted.
69 can be nice, if the lady likes it. But I find upright positions more pleasant both for BJ and DatY. Plus I really dig watching her eyes while she works on me, and wish I could watch her eyes as I lick her.
Kidding, I could take it or leave it, the conventional 69. But I have a unique style that most seem to enjoy. so I'll stick with that...Gracias
My favorite part is watching her get in position, and I love it best when she initiates it herself. The view is lovely and I can get rock hard just remembering it.
I can understand why a woman might not like it though as I don't think I've ever brought a woman to orgasm in that position. You are working upside down from what you would normally do so it gets a little confusing knowing what you are supposed to do.
Also, said view is so overwhelming magnificent I don't usually last very long.
It's a great position for DATO with just enough of a hand job to keep you interested for a long time however.
That's funny. Really. OK, well, here's a hint: when she's in 69 and she's on top, her clit is on the bottom. Take it from there.
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You are working upside down from what you would normally do so it gets a little confusing knowing what you are supposed to do.
For some people, it just comes naturally.
There was a poll on Heaux Twitter on this subject and the results were soundly negative - about 9 to 1 against by the ladies. For some reason, it's just not very popular. I could take it or leave it, but I also think it's hotter to watch 2 girls do it than to actually do it myself with a lady.
but not for the main course.
For one thing, the BJ is somewhat substandard because the tongue doesn't get to the underside of the penis which is where the action is.
If the Gent's accoutrement is on the smaller-size, then 69 is easier.
However, when his "member" is above-average, then it makes it
difficult for the woman either atop or on the bottom.
It becomes either a "gag-session", or an "impaling-session",
both of which for some is fun, however, I don't care for either.
Sometimes the "porno moves" only reenact sexily if all parties are of
normal length and do not have accoutrements that of the
Gent "Dirk Diggler" 
Both parties are somewhat distracted..... I have tried it going for round number 2, as a variable of foreplay. But, not only is the pussy “upside down”, my nose is pretty close to her asshole! And as I have just “fucked the shit out if her”, I could think of a few other places I’d like my nose
like several others have said .. while it sounds like fun in practical terms it just doesnt work ... combination of being too distracted to enjoy what your partner is doing plus your own mouth is just positioned wrong to truly please a woman .......... having said that there was this one time in Atlanta .... but otherwise yeah its fun for about 30 seconds and then you should move on.
I usually like to start off with 69 it’s really get me going just the thought of some sexy young lady having my dick in her mouth while I am licking her pussy really turns me on
so convincing as a thing well done.
Just a fan, convincing ladies one by one as time goes by.
With the right partner I love love love 69. With a partner that’s just as interested in pleasing as being pleased then it just flows and it’s so enjoyable for me.
I've heard tell that for many chicks if you distract them with some other stimulation while stimulating the clit, they can lose the buildup to the orgasm. I think 69 would be a lot of distraction and therefore not result in an O as often as just concentrating on her one area.
and I know for a fact that I have never cum during 69 myself, so I am inclined to agree with your statement. I also hate the angle during 69, if that angle was so good, why doesn't anyone eat pussy "from behind", it's pretty much the same angle as 69? OTOH, I do enjoy giving "mustache rides" even though I haven't had an actual mustache for decades. lol
BTW has anyone here EVER cum during 69?
I hate admit it, by I have.
I was supper horny, and I like to let give a little "coaching" during a BBBj so it can last a bit.
In this case, the provider just flipped around and stared. It was my first time with her. I knew she swallowed, and I could not get my face out her pussy fast enough to ask her to slow down. So came the eruption.
That was the one, only, and last time I came doing a 69, and the last time I did a 69.
Story has a happy ending. We continued to connect and have had several pleasurable and lengthy sessions since.
Hey! I wanna meet a girl who’s interested in Mozart, James Joyce and sodomy, too!
I thoroughly enjoy it. It's another way to access the Y and to caress the woman's ass at the same time. The skin-to-skin contact feels great. Just a little variety. If a lady is not interested, I always give her the opportunity to pass and we do something else.
...but for me, it's an appetizer, a little something to get us warmed up for more fun to be had.
I've never had an orgasm from it but one of my current faves has one pretty reliably when we have at it.
But it's usually her first of the evening, and the intro to two hours of fun.
While I love having my face between her loins and mouth and tongue exploring the holy of holies, there is nothing quite like the unique pleasure of letting my hands roam up and down her body during the 69 --appreciating her ass, stroking her back, kneading the shoulders. Usually 69 a just a foreplay thing, before moving on to other activities, but I've had a couple of intense finishes ending in convulsions, back in the day. Takes a special lady with good chemistry and a nice body.
