If a provider is always waiting for a dream client to contact her, I assure you she won't be in this business very long.

Why don't you include some links, oh great and wise one who seeks Legends.

Also, share with us the secret of cloaking one's self so that others cannot see that one's self is a troll!


HH

Am wondering whether some of the new providers in the 20 to 25 year age range would prefer to spend time with  young studs in ther 20s and 30s who are very good looking, have a large endowment, and have sumstantial stamina. Or, do they prefer to spend time with men in their 50s, 60s, and even 70s whose bodies aren't what they used to be, their looks aren't the same, and their endowment is just average or below average.

Some young providers posted that they look for clients who are built well, really attractive, and have a large to extra large endowment. Are these providers telling older clients to stay away since they don't have these characteristics?


Do providers have better sex with guys to whom they're sexually attracted and would date if they weren't in the business, and are old men in a losing proposition with these women who always state a preference for young men who can knock their eyes out? I realize there are a lot of quetions here, but I have heard that some older clients stay away from the younger providers, thinking they will be compared to the stud of the day and that they will never measure up.

wow, where do I start....

Nothing is sexier with a man than respect, caresses, good conversation,skill in the bedroom, and a fat envelope.
We don't do this work to only see the stud muffins or largely endowed. I don't know WHAT provider you talked to but she must be living in a box eating ramen noodles...Most young,sexy,fit,attractive,well endowed young men aren't having to pay escorts.(typically)

I don't care if you are young, old, big or small. I like to be able to 'click' with you during our conversation and during our physical part as well. If you are cold emtionally and very mechanical in the bedroom then I won't be seeing you again.

Some providers do have age range restrictions for their own personal reasons. As for a client "meassuring up" to another....that is just silly. It is not a contest of endowment or stanima. It's me pleasing you in that moment in time. If you are worried about "meassuring up" to other clients then this hobby is not for you.

I will add some providers will not see obese clients or clients over a certain age or clients of a certain race. The first two are personal choices and the last one I think is a silly choice....if a provider won't see you for these reason I bet you can find many who WILL.

Older guys know how to treat a lady, and are usually extremely respectful, are great conversationalists & have years of experience in what really pleases a woman. I'll take a guy over 50 any day over a guy under 30... but then again, I'm 30 not "25 or under", so it may be different for them??

The fact of the matter is the ladies see who screens well and have an envelope. Age has nothing to do with it.  

I don't know what posts you've been reading, but from the one's I see, the main thing is as long as the ladies are treated with respect, paid properly, the gent is clean, and not a fucking wise-ass, they're all good.

They actually prefer a more experienced gentleman. Just for the respect factor, as well as they're not as cocky and idiotic as a newbie sort of guy.

And don't you read previous posts? They're here for us. They know this. And it's admirable that some guys are into pleasing them as well. I'm one of them. But who's paying who?

I did the 18 yro deal. And a lady my age(43) and all in between.

Think about it, dude. When you were 18, did you really know how to fuck? I mean, REALLY know how to fuck?

I'll bet you a hundred dollars you didn't.

So, when you got older, you learned more. Appreciated more. You learned girls weren't just a plaything. They have thoughts and feelings just like you and I. Yeah, they might spread their legs for you, but they'll tell you how they want it. And you better listen to them before, during, and after. Know what I'm sayin'?  

Young dudes don't know dick. The only thing they have going for them is an almost constant hard-on, and no idea how to make it work for them.

I say age is just a number because I have had the pleasure of being in the company of gentleman in their 50s and 60s that will give a younger gentleman a run for his money as far as stamina,conversation,and body.I do enjoy the company of younger gentleman as well as older gentleman there is no preference for me.While,I am mostly in the company of older gentleman I do not think they try to compare themselves as you say "to the stud of the day" there is no comparison.Older gentleman have more wisdom,life and sexual experience than a younger gentleman so why even compare?Many younger ladies prefer the company of older gentleman anyway.

I have enjoyed the company of younger gentleman and had a blast but there are some younger gentleman that have the nice hot body but not such a great attitude.I would rather have the older gentleman that knows how to treat a lady at dinner as well as in the bedroom,has great conversation skills,and a genuine nice guy.Either way it goes whichever preference you have is your choice.

so I see no reason that the converse (or is it the inverse?) would not also be true.

It's not the numbers that matter, it's how you love.

WELL SAID lol EXCEPT I have to give some young guys love.....i've had as many under 30 who knew what they were doing pretty darn well  compared to guys i've seen over 30. So....can't say age has nothing to do with it then "young guys don't know dick" .

I were going off of looks I prefer a good looking man regardless of age. One of the sexiest I ever saw was 49. Women are visual just like men we like eye cndy too but ..... down to the "nitty gritty" his looks mean NADA as long as the proper donation is given, he doesn't act like a tool and can thoroughly was his own a**.

I have my moments where I prefer to be held down and pounded and  moments where all I want is kissing, a light rubbing and massaging and touching.

Usually I hear from those who stay away from younger ladies usually feel they don't know intimacy well, don't hold back as much during sex so on  and not so much they are worried about the last young guy she saw.  

I'm not looking for a boyfriend in this business so his looks are as unimporant as his race, penis size and stamina.  For most providers the older the better ACTUALLY.

like minds don't you understand there algina?
You know what gives me a big hardy laugh? When you older weaklings take exception to the younger stronger types. Without getting into the psychobabble aspect, not every MAN agrees with some of the effeminate ways of thinking around here.

Being a young provider myself I must say I always prefer older men in and out of the business. I do not have anything in common with the young stud types  and nothing to talk about. Older gentlemen have so much more to offer and these days they do take good care of themselves and also know how to please a woman instead of needing a GPS to find the location of my clitoris.

The OP might not be an asshole, but.........


and you've actually been turned away for being too old at sixty? Do you look as old and feeble as you post? I can't remember any sixty year olds every being turned away for being too old.

nor does it meant that they are secretly fucking the pool boy on the side. lol

and of course that was exactly my intention. lol

Not that anyone has ever called me an asshole before.

... that I am too old to play with a particular age level I will bring along a blindfold for them to wear.

You cant hate what you cant see !

**If you are cold emotionally and very mechanical in the bedroom then I won't be seeing you again**

Do you really expect people to believe that if someone contacted you, you easily screened him, he showed up on time with the full payment, wasn't threatening or scary, left when the session was up,  but was emotionally distant and just wanted to fuck in a clinical manner that you wouldn't see him again?

I have a hard time believing that any woman who escorts would refuse to see such a client.  Based on the movie Client# 9 that seems like a description of Elliott Spitzer.  

Now its certainly possible and I think likely that your performance is better when there is an emotional connection, but I could never imagine a woman refusing to see a cold emotionally distant client who followed the other 'rules' of the hobby.

Well, I love older men over 40...once and a while a good 30 something can make me eat my words amongst other things!
As said above, it all depends on the man your with. Their are those who aim to please and those who are wham bam thank you mams and all about them!

to a 60-70 year old man  just so I can call her a LIAR lol

well get ready because not sure how old he is now but I used to have a slight crush on Morgan Freeman *shrugs* and definitely got made fun of for it ... maybe it's the narrator voice.

Some very successful mid-20s high end providers who could be with most anyone they want are live-in GFs to men in their 60s+.  A coworker who's 72 has a SO who's 32 and they've been an item as long as I've been with the company (8 yrs).  My ATF quit the business when she was 30 to be with her favorite client who was 76.

Sounds like the kind of age based fighting he'd try to start.

Lots of different individuals out there among both sexes, but I see lots more young providers say "35 year olds and up", "older gentlemen preferred", and similar comments.  I see few if any say "under 30 only", or "young stud preferred".  In all my time I've been turned away once because of being too old but have been with many 20 somethings who asked if I was over 40 before they'd see me.  I'd tell them I'm 60 and they'd immediately agree, and a great time would be had by all involved.

i would not repeat with such a client either...furthermore my method of screening makes it quite difficult for such a person to ever make it to the point of meeting me in the first place. i seek to develop long-term and purposeful relationships with clients, which means that chemistry and compatibility are extremely important. someone who was cold and mechanical in or outside of sex certainly would not qualify.

when I first started that older men tended to be better lovers because they were more focused on ME and less focused on THEM. It's not always true one way or another but have found it to be often true.

Two of the hottest providers I know are married to former clients in their 60s.

I will start with a qualifying statement...

I think that a lot of older or perhaps just experienced people both men and women inside and outside of the hobby equate youth with drama.

So I can accept a provider saying she prefers an older man "on the clock" but those that say they prefer a man 40 years older than them in her personal life are either users, have daddy issues, or most likely know the demographic of MOST hobbysists probably contains more mature gentlemen than younger ones and by posting HEY I LOVE OLD MEN are simply politicing.

I am not a woman nor while I ever be one or a SP but I would think that by the nature of the services she sells a woman may feel better appreciated by an older gentleman claiming to not have been with a woman in X amount of years, or one that says you remind me of wife, etc. then a young stud that may make her feel just like a piece of meat.

Some younger ones do have daddy complexes. I agree that a grandpa fix is odd but to each their own.  30 or 40 year age difference where they are both happy, I see nothing wrong with that but I won't believe that a women can be that good of an actress, to fool someone for any real length of time. If she is only there for the money I believe it would come out very quickly.

Neither of them can spell for fuck!

Not to mention being presumptuous as to refer to itself in the third person. But I lay that blame on you and Little Phil because for some fucked up reason you think it's shit doesn't stink.

Oh well. You drink to excess like I do. Little Phil has a little more control as far as his intake. Still doesn't take away what I'm referring to.

In any case, you know as well as I do, some stick, some don't.

Sorry, scoed, for lumping you in with certain company... lol!

or did you have your nurse type all of that for you?

Here is a little trick for you.
You go to the post counter and see how many posts I have. Then do a handle search for the same number of days. What you will get is a matching number. That means no aliases. I know it may be a little much for you to comprehend, but maybe your nurse will help you so you don't throw a nursing home tantrum.

In with diapers, out with diapers, old man.

As MP says, I can "see behind the curtain" and I can say that he doesn't use them.  I didn't say it, but I could.  Now I suppose it's up to you as to whether I said it, implied it, or just made you think that I did.

IMO hard-core, high-volume young professional providers are indifferent about the age/looks of their customers.  This hobby is just a business to these ladies.  However, many soft-core low-volume semiprofessional providers (i.e., part-timers, temporaries, sugar babies, mistresses, etc.) do get more satisfaction from being with a young stud.  These ladies fantasize (perhaps subconsciously) about a Pretty Woman outcome.

I would love to post a response to this under the alias "RichardGeresGerbil" but I can't.  Any takers?

I've talked to a lot of girls about this cuz I was really curious. General replies I get lead me to these conclusions.

A young girl wants many things and most of them dont always make sense, but thats why she's a young girl. She still has much to learn of the world and herself.
A young escort generally wants lots of money and nothing more. She doesnt give a damn one way or another about your noodle so stop worrying. And the kind of hot studs she prefers for her personal sex life dont have to see escorts, so there is no point in comparing yourself to them. If you are extra generous she will love you no matter what.

Its usually the women 30 and up who are looking to get something deeper and more personal from the escorting business, in addition to paying the rent. And for them you just have to ask. It could be sexual empowerment, a deeper understand of men as a whole, a deeper understand of themselves, insight into past relationships, perspective on current relationships. You never know. Dont speculate, find out.

Next time you see a girl, ask her. If she's over 30. If she's under 30 dont bother cuz she doenst know and will probably lie about it anyway. No point in even asking the question. Just have fun and remember its a client/professional relationship. Its not an affair and it damn sure isnt romance.

Call Hugh Hefner's fiance a liar. Feel better?

It has often been called the greatest unfairness between men and women: As men age, they become seasoned and more attractive. As women age, they lose their appeal.

Don't bother to flame, nor nitpick the idea apart with obvious exceptions or flaws in the idea that any junior high student could point out.

Overall, it's true. Greatly, because of the massive difference between men and women. Some women find attraction is stronger in factors other than physical, making the physical attraction comparisons between men and women skewed.

20 attracted to 60-70? I'm guessing very rare. 25 attracted to 50? Not so rare in women. Rare in men. (no matter what the buzz about milfs is)

I've noticed that some women resent it, especially around age 40. I can see why, I guess. But on the other hand, I've noticed that a men get a little older, they find the beauty and attraction in a wider age range of women.

All I can tell you is this (and I speak accurately for every one of my friend at that age too):

When I was around 20, you could not have paid me to have sex with a 60 yo woman. [THAT IS NOT AN INSULT TO WOMEN OF THAT AGE.] Didn't matter what my money or life situation was. However, you could get me (or my other young guy) to have sex with an unattractive girl on a dare.

I don't need to point out any of the facts about age hookups in the hobby to show the other side of the coin.

It's just the way it is. And it is what it is.


HH

BTW - I LOVE mature providers

HH

Asw an older guy, (older than you, MP67), I can second all that you have said hre.  We get old too soon and smart too late.  If at the age of 20 or so I known what I do now, I would have had to beat the laties off with a steck.  (Not that I ever would. LOL)  But what I wouldn't give now for that perpetual hardon I had then but didn'tknow how to properly use.
But I enjoy sex now than I ever did because after my one pop I can relax and really enjoy how great these girls are, just talking and cuddling.
So if some of the ladies appreciate us old farts, I think that we appreciate you more in return.

I know that you are not a 20 year old now, so does what you say here apply to you ?