OK ladies.......when I visit with a provider.........it is just like a "date" to me and I effortlessly try to be as polite and gentlemanly as I would on a "regular" date.  Not only do I believe providers deserve it...........but it enhances our rapport and the overall experience.

All hobbyist that I see are usually, always polite & carry themselves like a gentleman...

I think some people in general just have more open and warming personalities then others. I personally would not see anyone that gave me the impression of being anything less then a gentleman. But for me, I go by the "you treat me good, I'll treat you better" approach.

I would say 80% of my dates are just that. They are dates. Some how do shorter dates don't have the luxury of time on their side so they treat it a bit differently. I have had many who started out with a shorter date extend it so we can have more time together to get to know one another and enjoy each others company.

a gentleman.... if they request GFE, that is

A date is so much more fun that way. Besides, I am so grateful to these wonderful ladies for not making me have to beg.

100%....just through my screening process and chats i know they will act accordingly...usually from the first contact...they start with introduction and pleasantries then i will respond in kind and that tells me more about them...if i get a text "hey are you available?" and i do not know who you are, i will not see you...have some manners...i am a person and not just a service

Nobody is as beautiful as you..........or as worthy of courtesy/respect.

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Good for you Kim!

Had an experience with a provider today who will go unnamed as I am writing a review........she was beautiful, perfectly desirable in every way (perfect body), intelligent, articulate, and somehow........even though she was way, way out of my class/league.........she was equally beautiful on the inside.  Her style and grace not only made me feel comfortable.........but left me appreciating everything about her.

. . . to be rude?  If nothing else, consider this:
  1.  The activity may be considered illegal, and there's a lot to lose if the lady decides she isn't safe, and the client "presses his case"; and
  2.  This is a profoundly intimate moment for both parties, the client is a stranger, and anyone can be a nut case.  Why put a provider (or any person) ill at ease under such circumstances.

it should be........but unless you live in a bubble.........isolated from the world...........you should realize people are people.........and believe me I have met all kinds.

and say, "start sucking sweetheart." As long as the envelope is there, well it happens. That's the nature of the business.  

We don't even need to unzip.  She does that, as courtesy begets courtesy.  

Yes, I too saw someone today who treated me with kindness, honor and respect. We had a wonderful time discussing our lives. She was an amazing lover and a just as amazing person to talk with.  

Is sadly higher in the hobbling world than in real life dating...that's why I don't even bother with dating.

I guess we all get out of it what we want...........otherwise we wouldn't pay for it, now would we?  But we can still do so in a respectful fashion.

Perfect post!

The answer to your question.................stickythong..............see, it takes all types.

Even though my sample size is small, I have never been treated with anything but courtesy and respect from the ladies I have met. If you were to ask them I'm sure they would say the same about me. Some who have retired are still my friends and we stay in contact.
However they have told me that not all of their clients have been gentlemanly.