It is a way of LE of nailing a case against you when you show up.

I suppose it's done and most times there's no harm (except if you go overboard which you seem to have done.)

In general, wait till the envelope is handed over and you are BCD before you start in with the juicy details.

i recently met with a new provider..she asked me before the session started what i would like for her to do to satisfy me..i then told her in rather vivid terms exactly what i would like..she then said "well..you dont have to be so graphic"..i said.."well you asked"..question then is..do we guys sometimes forget we are with a lady? do you ladies like a guy to tell it exactly like it is and not have the guy 'pussyfoot' [pun intended} around? i just figured she was a 'not ready for prime time player..because i have heard some pretty nasty stuff coming out of some of our ladies mouths..

Your 9" MONSTER  

The question may have been her awkward attempt at pillow talk.  You might have replied, "Let  me show you" and started there.  But you were under the pressure of the moment, & it's easy for me to be a Monday Morning QB.  

I try to avoid discussing sex--it's usually a mood killer.  There are guys who like to talk dirty, but I prefer to 'put up or shut up.'  Anyway, I think you may have taken her question too literally.  --z

For example...you like sploshing.  I like other forms of BDSM.  

I have NO issues on telling a hooker BEFORE I see her (and in many cases even before she's screened me) what types of activities I am seeking.

Hasn't been a problem thus far for me.  I'd prefer not to waste time if she isn't interested in doing the shit I want to do.

But to each their own.

Oh...and it won't mean shit if you show up and LE was waiting for you.  You're fucked...and NOT in a good way  

Save that stuff for meeting in person.

That is what reviews are for. For you to do your research and see a provider based on what she does or does not offer. I will NOT reply or go forward if someone is explicit with me via our setup communication. If it is a BDSM call they can tell me what "act" they are looking for, but still does not have to be explicit.

Posted By: beenaround2553

For example...you like sploshing.  I like other forms of BDSM.  

I have NO issues on telling a hooker BEFORE I see her (and in many cases even before she's screened me) what types of activities I am seeking.

Hasn't been a problem thus far for me.  I'd prefer not to waste time if she isn't interested in doing the shit I want to do.

But to each their own.

Oh...and it won't mean shit if you show up and LE was waiting for you.  You're fucked...and NOT in a good way  

Posted By: mrfisher

It is a way of LE of nailing a case against you when you show up.

I suppose it's done and most times there's no harm (except if you go overboard which you seem to have done.)

In general, wait till the envelope is handed over and you are BCD before you start in with the juicy details.

Was that he met a new provider and in person before the session started she asked what is it that will satisfy him?I don't see anything wrong with that if it is in person before the session starts so she knows his likes and dislikes.If we are together and before we get started I like a guy to let me know what he likes no pussyfooting around lol.But,if it is the way others have interpreted his post to mean he expressed what he wants to do before meeting then I agree I would not be discussing anything graphic like that.
If someone has had luck with a provider talking graphic before being screened and before meeting more power to him but a lot of providers are not going to go there.

The entire point of making an appointment with a provider is to temporarily "suspend reality".  To have the freedom to express yourself sexually.

If I went to a car dealer and they asked me exactly what I was looking for in a car and then balked at me when I told them I would walk off the lot.

It takes a unique ability to compartmentalize "what you are doing" from "who you are".  In this industry both hobbyist and provider alike should have that skill down pat by now.

Just my two cents.

This trick I learned in the war...(WWI) it involves 3 nails, a rooster, and evaporated milk...

She threw me out

Especially those that are of the "kinky" variety.

And I for one have no interest in wasting a nickel on a session that isn't one that I want.

So no problem....we never have to meet.  FWIW it's not easy to not be somewhat explicit when describing a scene.  Now...I don't discuss any sex acts...that I can see in a review.  But a specific scene...I'll stick to what's worked for me for years.

Posted By: Sidney Starr

That is what reviews are for. For you to do your research and see a provider based on what she does or does not offer. I will NOT reply or go forward if someone is explicit with me via our setup communication. If it is a BDSM call they can tell me what "act" they are looking for, but still does not have to be explicit.

Posted By: beenaround2553

For example...you like sploshing.  I like other forms of BDSM.  

I have NO issues on telling a hooker BEFORE I see her (and in many cases even before she's screened me) what types of activities I am seeking.

Hasn't been a problem thus far for me.  I'd prefer not to waste time if she isn't interested in doing the shit I want to do.

But to each their own.

Oh...and it won't mean shit if you show up and LE was waiting for you.  You're fucked...and NOT in a good way  

Posted By: mrfisher

It is a way of LE of nailing a case against you when you show up.

I suppose it's done and most times there's no harm (except if you go overboard which you seem to have done.)

In general, wait till the envelope is handed over and you are BCD before you start in with the juicy details.

However, you put yourself at risk, and it's important for those not that experienced to understand that discussing sex act for pay, especially with a gal you haven't met already, is dangerous and will lead to you being rejected by many gals as well.

and understand that there are other ways to play this game...I have no issue on sharing what has worked...and quite well mind you, for others out there.

No question that if a guy is just learning how to play...he should stick to the Newbie rules.  But you're NOT a newbie, as many here are not either.

And to drop coin for something that doesn't need be...why?

And nope...rarely rejected.  And I've been doing this for some time now.  And honestly, if a gal doesn't reply to me...that is my answer.  And I will quickly and decisively move on to the next.  And I saved myself time and money.  

But...as you said...not for everyone  LOL

LOL. I said I WILL NOT DISCUSS ANYTHING EXPLICIT. In the BDSM world it is standard practice for the client to ask for what they want. That can be done. So looks like we agree. You just said what I said. Happy days

Posted By: beenaround2553

Especially those that are of the "kinky" variety.

And I for one have no interest in wasting a nickel on a session that isn't one that I want.

So no problem....we never have to meet.  FWIW it's not easy to not be somewhat explicit when describing a scene.  Now...I don't discuss any sex acts...that I can see in a review.  But a specific scene...I'll stick to what's worked for me for years.

Posted By: Sidney Starr

That is what reviews are for. For you to do your research and see a provider based on what she does or does not offer. I will NOT reply or go forward if someone is explicit with me via our setup communication. If it is a BDSM call they can tell me what "act" they are looking for, but still does not have to be explicit.

Posted By: beenaround2553

For example...you like sploshing.  I like other forms of BDSM.  

I have NO issues on telling a hooker BEFORE I see her (and in many cases even before she's screened me) what types of activities I am seeking.

Hasn't been a problem thus far for me.  I'd prefer not to waste time if she isn't interested in doing the shit I want to do.

But to each their own.

Oh...and it won't mean shit if you show up and LE was waiting for you.  You're fucked...and NOT in a good way  

Posted By: mrfisher

It is a way of LE of nailing a case against you when you show up.

I suppose it's done and most times there's no harm (except if you go overboard which you seem to have done.)

In general, wait till the envelope is handed over and you are BCD before you start in with the juicy details.