I know $ is $, but is it more appropriate to try to use big bills in the envelope versus stuffing it with all 20's.  Particularly for a high $ hottie or multi-hour appt?  I'd imagine most providers would rather not have too big a wad of 20's to deposit or carry.  What's the consensus?

I am happy with the gift either way.
Of course large denominations help. It also gives you an air of class and shows that you were being thoughtful about your visit. Like you said though
$ is $! Sometimes it is difficult to get to the bank before a visit and ATM machines usually only spit out 20s. The most important thing is to come with a smile and ready for a good time. To guarantee your good time lay your gift on the dresser or night table when you arrive and then you can just get to the nitty gritty and not have to think about the rest!
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If I get BBBJTCIM I pay in hundreds.
If I get just BBBJ I pay in twenties.
If I get CBJ I pay in singles.
And if I get upsold I pay in pennies.

I've had a range of requests. There is a lady in San Jose that will not accept hundreds. She thinks it draws too much attention to her when she shops. I had a B&D submissive gal refuse a tip of $50 in one dollar bills that was part of a submission game. That was about a 50% tip. I do agree if you have a overnight or weekend experience with a upscale lady. A bag full of $20 dollar bills isn't cool.

. . . that $50 bills are best. Sometimes I use $100 bills.

Large bills are better to pass than looking like you busted the ATM. I have never had a lady tell me that she didn't like them.

I always use the largest denomination I can. Less bulk for me to carry around, and it makes it easy for her to see the right amount on the table. Never had a complaint.

I remember I wrote incredulous: Fifty-five one-hundred dollars bills?  

I do know of an ex-provider (thankfully she got out of the business) who stayed week after week at a first class hotel seeing clients and week after week, she'd pay for her room-- in cash.  

It didn't help that she was model material (she was a legit model, too) who looked so good believably she could win a state beauty contest.  

Needless to say, she was busted.

In a way.  I guess I'd be the one to get singles considering I only offer CBJ.  But then again I may never see you so what do I care.  

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ATM's in many cities (mine included) only churn out 20's so that's all she's getting. I'm not stopping at a bank to change them just for etiquette purposes (I would though if the appt is  3 hours or longer). Never had a provider mention it being an issue.  If she did bitch about it I'd probably tell her to go pound sand anyway.

Why on earth would anybody refuse any form of it? And it's not like we can leave the room after doing our business to get you change!

I will usually stop by a bank ahead of time to get larger bills simply because they take up less space. But if I'm in a hurry and sportin' a major boner, she's getting a wad of twenties from the ATM. Just be glad I can count correctly in my condition =)

Someday I hope too meet you so you can pull mine *WINK* !!

I generally give hundreds, but have never had a lady refuse anything!

I pay in 50's or 20's.  Depends on what is most plentiful in my 'hobby' stash.  I don't go to ATM to pay for hobby.  I stash extra cash that I get from various sources in my 'hobby' fund.  I have never, in my limited hobbying experience, had a lady question the nature of the bills in the envelope.

Like has been said, $ is $.

Swim

Who the heck is going to carry 30,000 pennys?

Also most providers want the gift upfront so are you paying her in low bills knowing you are going to get a CBJ?

In my opinion hundreds and fiftiess work best.  It might look impressive to hand over a big wad of bills, but I think its better to keep the number of bills to a minimum.  I have used twenties when thats the only bills I could get, but the envolope was a little thick.

I have always assumed that it is inappropriate to ask for change.  So, if I have only $100s, then potentially someone is getting a big tip.  I just wanted to know what others think.

Obviously no lady is going to give you a hard time about the denomination of the bills you give her. Still, no one ever died from being considerate. Real men don't ask for change.

You should know what the rates are and take the time to have correct amount you wish to give.  Most ladies do not carry any change with them.

But I'm sure that is because I never "jingle" when I leave...lol

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I offer change back in my ad.
It isn't fair not to at least be willing to provide change.
I don't always have change for outcalls.
Sometimes I have given it all out at my incall.