Can some provider really explain in detail why the huge discrimination stereotyping all black clients as some guilty criminal

Blacks are seen as a whole not as an individual. They let one bad apple spoil the bunch. Not to mention size is a factor for some but idk why when the see more than one guy in a day anyway. Personally I think it's silly but different strokes for different folks.

I have seen this alot on girls profiles/sites. Occasionally, rarely, I'll find out willing to see black men. I feel bad for those guys, discrimination blows. Some of the nicest and most professional dudes I've met were black.

Fat hookers, old hookers, tattooed hookers, legless hookers, bald hookers, hookers with 3 boobs don't get seen. Prejudice or a bad experience or personal preference

and the answers are always the same.

um excuse me, can you send me a link to the hooker with three boobs. Thanks in advance, lol

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I've been told by a few girls that the main reason they don't see black clients is that some black guys tend to play games, trying to lower the price after a deal has been agreed to. Girls have also said that black guys sometimes try to hustle or con them, trying to get a hold of a girl to pimp her out. I'm sure most black clients are really cool and don't do this stuff but many girls have had bad encounters with black clients. So they choose not to see them.  

 

So I don't see fat hookers, hookers with big asses or legs, or ugly and old hookers, etc etc etc. Why? Because I don't have to and neither do providers who have their preferences.  

You have been around long enough to know what time it is, but here's an idea. Ask them directly.

Black men in my experience are usually courteous, smell clean and and have a lower rate of fuck up than any other race I've seen.  If you screen well and your rate is high enough you should be able to avoid most bad apples, no sense giving in to discrimination.

It is a double edged sword. You say you don't see black men and you get harassed....you say you do, and you lose a lot of white an asian clientele.  

To answer your question though...because this is a personal business, and the provider decides what she will do. Move on...
 

Can't shake their asses , like the girls in those videos ? Unreal expectations ! Hell the finally admitted they can't even get their legs up for white guys .

Size is really a factor? I thought that was just a stereotype.

Not sure but I did view on a forum that some black guys are very rough and cause unwanted swelling making it unpleasant for the next client. Even as not to be directly related to size but just trying to man handle a lady if that helps.

I'll bet she can jiggle like a bowl of jello.

For the 100th time--as a hobbyist of color I completely accept the fact that when a woman is making the most personal choice possible (with the possible exception of whether to bear a child) there is no right or wrong criterion.  She can and should be allowed to use any distinction she fancies from age to health to dick size and yes to ethnicity and race.  These women are not denying anyone the right to own a home get health insurance or pursue a career.  They are instead deciding who will and will not enger their bodies. When that is at stake she has 100% unfettered unqualified and unquestionable authority ovef the final decision.  Even if she's making her decisions based on faulty data unjustified stereotypes or just plain bias so what. It's her body. If she doesn't want to see me that's her call and I don't need to se her.

And at the risk of sounding like some Joe Hicks wannabe apologist I think you're making shit up. I have been hobbying for decades and I've been turned down by a provider due to my ethnicity about 6 times.  That's not what I would call a tidal wave.

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This phrasing, seen most often in Backpage provider ads, is used by girls under the "management" of a black pimp (who wants to fend off competeing pimps) FAR more often than it is used by girls who genuinely refuse to see ALL black men, with-out reservation.  

The idea of pimps makes most members of this site so uncomfortable that many of you keep bleating "racism" even when presented with irrefutable evidence to the contrary!

Haha! Just kidding  

You are correct though. His post is definitely logical and made sense.

Any thoughts?

And then get a bad review because the lady refused certain acts. You really have very little idea how this works from a hooker POV

I have had this experience! Guy wanted his $ back because he didn't get the services he wanted however after babying the client he calmed down. This one one of my pre-Indi experiences where I did not get to screen the client for myself.

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As long as you respect me, and treat me well, I will see you. I don't believe in discrimination.

Some girls only want to see certain types of clients, I don't do that. I don't think it is fair.

Ironically their average age ! The song is now a cult classic with the village people crowd , do you have a photo and link to their song ?  

are not always set into stone. It just gets rid of the ones who we don't want to see based on typical behavior of that group. Such as I won't see under 35, however I will if the guy has a good head on his shoulders and doesn't act like a young dumbass.  

I bet quite a few will be happy to see a respectful, clean gentleman no matter what color.  

And if they won't see you? Who cares, find someone who will. Guys pick what they like, as can we.

Guess you are seeing the wrong black men then!  By the way love the alias

There are guys who like fat woman.. then you have some guys who discriminate against fat broads and won't see them

Some guys love mature old woman.. then you have some guys who discriminate against old woman and won't see them.

I've even had some guys tell me they won't see woman of a certain ethnicity's.

Welcome to America Jack, there will always be discrimination of some kind.. so stop bitching these woman don't owe you any explanation

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Nice try...but it's been used before.

But I'll give you a few more tries to see if you get close  

PS...I don't use social media.  You'll need to get a whole lot more creative.  Good luck and report back when you actually have something to report.

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If you say you don't see black men it's either because you have a black pimp who's scared some other black pimp will steal his women or you are just prejudiced.  I'm all for being able to say and choose who you want to see but don't pretend that you aren't rascist if you say you don't want to see black men.  There are bad apples and smelly apples in every race.

Considering you are nothing but a sad troll here.  

I'm getting the impression that you're not really a hooker at all....but a sad lonely little man who is using an alias to see if he can get reactions from the board as a nasty hooker.

Yep...seen that a few times here over the years.

Google it...this time read what you google.  You do know how to use google...right?  Just want to make sure as your prior inference was not a good guess.  Maybe if you spend some time finishing up that GED and learn to read and write you'll have more success.  Give it a shot...and maybe ask TER to allow you to change your alias again.  This one is history!

Is your memory that short?  Maybe your pecker is that short?  

So you're not fat or an old man.  OK...tall..ugly and a woman?  Getting closer by a process of elimination.

Let's keep on playing  LOL

Try and keep your posts straight...it lends much more credibility to an online persona.

Awww, she said black guys are stinky? You obviously haven't seen what gets said to the women on here on a daily basis if you think that's where the offensive stuff starts. It's been started, lol!

The girls that do this, generally, see enough people that they can pretty well stereotype all they want. Yes, the majority of Indians smell like curry and kiss like lawn mowers. Yes the majority of black guys smell like a black guy and have big honkin dicks (or at least after fuckin my way all around the world I've never seen a small one), and yes white guys can be divided into young dumbass/smelly old fart categories. Different cities are known for a certain type of client even! All people can be categorized some way, good bad and in between. And some have decided that its not worth it for them to run into young/old/black/Indian/overweight/big dick/gym teachers/weekend warriors/high volume punters/whatever.  

But some people don't mind that, and some people aren't like that, and that's the beauty of it all. If she doesn't wanna risk it, awesome! You just saved $300 on a cranky hooker. If she still sees individuals, after going through all that mess, then congratulations! Y'all are good to go!

Bottom line, you don't see everybody, and neither does she. Don't be mad that they get to make the same choices you do

Nope...I'm getting those vibes again.

Man...old...short...ugly.

Keep your stories straight.  It's pathetic to read your continued contradictions of yourself

That's what a johnnie boy who is hoping to fool someone here with their alias that's a woman.

It's not working too well as it seems all the real hookers are calling YOU out.

Time to ask TER for another alias...this time stick with what you may actually know.

You just pretty much implied that you won't see black men because their junk smells.  Not only are you over generalizing, you are also being prejudiced as well, two traits commonly seen in "slow" people.  Unless you've seen a sizable amount of black men you cannot possibly have the right to make that assumption.

Nicely said, Breanna. I love that you stand your ground.

I can easily see and respect someone's preference, but not the prejudice (whether race, sexual orientation, whatever).  

If there is a concern about a particular race, religion, or whatever group being threatening, rough or something else undesirable based upon scattered incidents (rather than the vastly greater number of occasions where things were just fine)... then let's just admit that we have a stereotype and a prejudice. Is there any sense trying to justify calling it anything else

superSLOW is a man...pretending to be a hooker.  He has no fucking clue what he's babbling about...unless of course he was hooking for gay men?

This tool can't keep a story straight and has changed his multiple times in only a few threads....feel free to read the prior posts this "alias" is posting.

We've had some of these guys want to shake it up on the boards before using this technique...but when it gets to really knowing how hookers operate..the truth fails them.
 

superHOHO is a guy...and a sad lonely one at that.

He's not the first to pull this shit...and I doubt will be the last one.

But we all get our jollies somehow...this is his way of masturbating.

superHog my come off as an opinionated old ho, but how can you not respect her words when she is speaking from personal experience? Would you rather she lie, or not say anything at all to please you? Get over it.

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Years ago I met a provider from the South who advertised that didn't see black men.  Long story short, I came to learn that her boyfriend or fiance' (can't remember) was black and the one prerequisite he had for her providing was to not see other black men.

Clearly the exception and not the rule but I figured why not throw it out into the discussion...

Then again, he just might. I can't begin to try and discern what goes on in a guy's brain lol.

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Many backpage providers use the phrase "No AA men" because it convinces a number of dumb asses, that they are not cops. Afterall, would a cop NOT bust all races?

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I have actually seen this many times, and 2 were good provider friends of mine. They both had black boyfriends, and refused to see them in the hobby. I also have a best friend who is black, and will not see black men here or in the real world. How can she be racist against herself, because that is what everyone is basically saying.

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This is it! I understand that there is a reason behind it but its really just being racist no matter how you sugarcoat it. I have never seen a provider post no whites/no Asians/ no Latinas etc. When you exclude a whole race based on actions of others it is what it is. Btw lets not forget how this country started from the labor intensive cotton crop that certain ancestors were too lazy to farm for themselves! Sure they left GB but when they came they were still broke and had to borrow money from where they left to support the movement. Now this is not a history lesson but it does ruffle my feathers and I find it to be 100% racist. If you don't date blacks it is what it is but when you advertise it your racist plain and simple. And that goes for black providers too which I think is even worst because you hate your own race.smh

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restaurants and stay in the best hotels...most of our time together is truly companionship...movies...out to eat...cirqu du sol....long walks.....that's my experience so I can only speak for me...whatever works for other women, works for them.

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Stay with one story.

Sheesh!

Switching up your story in the same thread.  Don't you know any 5th graders?

Ask some 5th graders to read your convoluted contradictions.

Ask them what those words mean.

Although I haven't seen a black man in a while, I've never had that problem even starting out...

You contradicted someone's compliment toward black men. That's why it came across that way
 

I think you are taking pages from Taylor's fairy tale books. She's going to be pissed off.

To eliminate smelly dudes, which it's the smell that's the problem, not the race, tell them to take a shower before they come or to take one when they get there.

CPA... have to say I'm liking your ability to put these stories together and make clever phrases. This is great!

Nothing wrong with any race, I just haven't had the opportunity lately.

I am sure most of us are beyond the point where we see color first and now we see the person and judge him on his characteristics, not his skin color.  And that goes for age and just about everything else.  So the stereotypes have to go!

That rules me out.  Whew!  One less thing to worry about!

I'll have one. Not everyone here submits reviews or problem reports for a membership. Some of us are totally fine with paying TER for our membership, we just prefer to do so anonymously.

As far as trying to convince you or any other person on this board about my finances, I simply don't need to.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=9733&boardID=4&page=1#9733

Nope never. Read away.

Fairy tales do come true.....sometimes.

Truth be told, black guys are larger and tend to take longer getting their rocks off. Thus causing a girl to swell. And this swelling does not go down in a couple of hours! It i's also a fact that black men are larger than other nationalities. Why we are dancing around the truth is beyond me! You all like to google facts... Do a simple search and you will find it to be true. What I have learned very quickly is if you tell a guy to be a lil more gentle with you. He will. Simple as that because he wants you to enjoy him as much as he is enjoying you.

Black men also receive a bad rap for negotiating and violence. But I find this pretty funny considering the worst crimes as of lately have involved an Asian guy in the DC area robbing providers with a hand gun, the red head white guy who works for the federal government robbing- will this stop providers from seeing these nationalities? Of course not- why, because these are the biggest spenders.

Another factor, I have white friends with black boyfriends. And as someone else mentioned have made agreements with their boyfriends not to see black men- it makes them seem more selective to the outside world. Just good marketing- I don't knock it!

Also, there are some guys who are bias/ racist and do not want to see a provider who sees black clients. I know this for a fact because its happened to me! I have no clue what made him think I didn't see chocolate men, but when he found out- he wasn't interested in seeing me. Whatever!
The last time I checked in the mirror I saw a black woman! With that said I have no issues with seeing black men. They understand the stigma associated with their color and tend to be the most respectful I encounter. How could I not enjoy a reflection of myself? Impossible!

And as far as the rap about black clients being bad clients its whatever you attract. I tend to be a good judge, you can tell a lot about a person from their voice, I've had more weird dates with white guys throwing out stereotypes towards me when it didn't fit my personality. Not to mention trying to bargain down my rate. As if I should charge less because I'm black. What? Please!!  
Bad clients come in all colors, the great part is their easy to banish!
Just my 4 cents!

It's a scientific fact black men on a whole are larger than other nationalities.
Not every single man! But statistically- yes.  
And depending on a girls schedule for the day will cause her soreness!
And I speak from experience

This is the exact explanation I received from my ATF when I asked her why she does not see black men.

The topic has been discussed many times after that thread.  But the one interesting thing about that thread is seeing how many more providers participated in discussions back then as opposed to today.

I can't speak for all Providers, but I don't care what race you are. The only thing that matters to me is Respect, The Green Stuff (THE CASH)