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Nailit 2156 reads
posted
1 / 22

I would like to set up a double date with a provider and her friend. Provider #1 price does not change for a two hour date. Lets say $1,000 for two hours but provider #2 price goes up from $600 for two hours alone but doubles is $1,000 for two hours.  
Is there something wrong with that or is it me?

mrfisher 115 Reviews 49 reads
posted
2 / 22

to select the two gals yourself instead of selecting a gal who offers doubles with someone they are sympatico with already, whereby the cost is often no more than each gal alone, and often less.

 
It may seem contrary to what you would expect, but if done right, a gal handling a guy and another gal can be more effort than just being with the one guy, and even more so if she is not familiar with the other gal, thus the higher cost.

micktoz 43 Reviews 55 reads
posted
3 / 22

But, if one of the ladies donation is lower than the other's, I always raise the lower priced lady to the same as the higher priced one.  I pay the same rate because I would never value either woman differently . Had that exact case a few weeks ago.  
 Once I've decided to play, I rarely consider the finances, if  playing is putting me at financial risk, i shouldn't be playing.

The other thing is, if the ladies regularly play together they usually have a total rate which makes it so I don't have to think about it.

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 67 reads
posted
4 / 22

When you see that lower-priced lady, do you always raise her donation to the same rate as the higher priced one?

If not, then according to your logic you value the lower-priced lady differently than the higher-priced one.

When I do doubles, I pay each provider the rate each one sets.  If one of them sets her rate lower than that of the other provider, well, that's up to her to set her rates as she sees fit.  If they have agreed on a doubles rate when they play together, then that's what I pay.

micktoz 43 Reviews 56 reads
posted
5 / 22

If they are asking for two envelopes I always raise the lower to the higher. But , the lower price  is usually my regular lady who is organizing.  
If they want one envelope (a bulk price) I pay that.  

A few times, like when I've done 4somes, the lady that organizes sets the total rate and I know that the other  ladies actually lowered their rates to fit the group rate.  
But, they all have worked together for a long time.

I'm not judging anyone else, it's just the right thing for me to do.

-- Modified on 10/28/2017 2:10:39 PM

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 49 reads
posted
8 / 22

I'll try to be more clear.  

Whenever you see that "regular lady", i.e. by herself, do you raise her donation to what you pay the higher-priced ladies you see?

If not, then by your logic, you value your regular lady less than the other ladies.

If you haven't guessed, I'm having trouble following your logic. Not judging, just not following it.

micktoz 43 Reviews 48 reads
posted
9 / 22

To  answer your question. When doing a 3some, I treat  the two ladies equally in that scenario , to be fair to them. It really has little relevance to what I  pay separately. Because I don't do a value cost analysis of the ladies I see. I pay the ladies that I like to see if I can afford their requested donation.  

When i see "that  regular lady", I sometimes tip her a fair bit more than her asking rate.  Though she actually said that it wasn't necessary. Her rate is competitive in her market. But, I think  what she charges , which is lower than she would get in my home market, is too little. And I can afford to contribute more.  I also only get to see her 6 to 9 times a year and we spend a lot of OTC time when I am in her city. We get along really well . We go out for dinner/lunch, not associated with a sex session, and sometimes a strip club. i also know her family, so it's not a normal monger/hooker relationship. She also does this as an extra income, she is a professional in the medical industry. And she likes fucking different guys on a regular basis.

I set up a great 3some with a much younger provider and her, because she said that she would love to play with the younger one. They both had been too shy to say that they wanted to play together. So, I was the beneficiary of two wonderful ladies with the hots for each other. Hehehe.

Now back to fucking, this analysis stuff makes my brain hurt.

-- Modified on 10/28/2017 7:38:03 PM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 53 reads
posted
10 / 22

with two providers who have not worked together before is often a recipe for disaster.  You should always let one of the two pick the doubles partner, unless you know for a fact they have done doubles in the past.  That way, you can request that she pick a partner who will do the session at he same rate as hers.  When one is higher than the other, there is bound to be some resentment on the part of the girl getting the lesser amount for what she will perceive as half the work.

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 73 reads
posted
11 / 22

Resentment that you've paid the donations that each provider set for herself for the duration and type of service rendered?  Or is it resentment that in addition to paying each provider the rates they set, you made it possible for each of them to enjoy playtime with a hot, sexy woman in addition to the paid playtime with you?  

I've done many doubles. In no case did both providers receive the same donation.  I asked each of them what their rate was for such a date (I knew them before the doubles session) and they told me, and that's what I paid, including in some travel fees for the provider who came to the other's incall.  If they'd told me they would each like the same fee for doubles, or one fee to be split by both of them, that's what I would have paid.  But they didn't.  

Great time was had by all in every case.  No resentment by the provider who set her fee lower than that of the other provider.  

Also, it's not an absolute that one provider pick the doubles partner.  One provider has never picked the other provider in any of my doubles sessions.  Each time, I've decided which duo I wanted to get together.  In most cases, I already knew the two ladies loved playing together.  When I didn't know, I asked each of them whether they'd like to do doubles together and got an enthusiastic "Yes!".  

And BTW, in doubles, each provider doesn't do "half the work"--at least not in my doubles sessions.  The "work"--and fun--are shared by all 3 participants.  :)
Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: Trying to set up a double . . . .
with two providers who have not worked together before is often a recipe for disaster.  You should always let one of the two pick the doubles partner, unless you know for a fact they have done doubles in the past.  That way, you can request that she pick a partner who will do the session at he same rate as hers.  When one is higher than the other, there is bound to be some resentment on the part of the girl getting the lesser amount for what she will perceive as half the work.


-- Modified on 10/28/2017 10:31:31 PM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 51 reads
posted
12 / 22

Speculation.  You don't know if there was resentment or not. If they're pro's they're certainly not going to have their drama in front of you.   Unless the have two dicks and two tongues,  how can each provider be doing more than half of what they would do with you during a singles session of the same duration?  I will concede that them having two tongues can provide some additional fun, but you're not going to get four tits or two pussies in YOUR mouth at one time.  I will also agree that having one girl ride your dick and one ride your face is a great novelty the first couple of times, but eventually, "been there, done that" kicks in.  

-- Modified on 10/28/2017 10:32:02 PM

Sheila Starr See my TER Reviews 59 reads
posted
13 / 22

Not all doubles are alike, 👄👄

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 47 reads
posted
14 / 22

... when I see a provider explain to others in a public forum that she believes that in doubles, each provider should receive the donation she publishes--even when it's less than that of the other provider.  

BTW, it was the lower-priced provider making the statement to others.

But I think it IS wild-ass speculation to assert that there is bound to be resentment in such cases, or that doubles should always be arranged in only one way if the providers have never played with each other before.  :)

Bluecourtney See my TER Reviews 52 reads
posted
15 / 22

You are the kind of gentleman we should all be lucky enough to spend time with!

micktoz 43 Reviews 53 reads
posted
16 / 22

There are as many variations as there are personalities. You are correct, there are no absolutes.

We all can have different experiences.  

Have fun.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 48 reads
posted
17 / 22

On the 600+ providers I have seen and many in doubles.  Many girls will not be open with guys who are strictly johns to them, but OTC after a few drinks they are very forthcoming about inside the business. When you're just a paying customer, you're always going to hear the sugar-coated Kumbaya between "sisters."

 
With you, having no reviews and using an alias, you don't have much experience cred  to back up your speculation.  Just my opinion, but no basis for anyone to disagree since we don't know if you have seen even one provider yet.

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 55 reads
posted
18 / 22

... unless he has reviews. Isn't that right, GaG?  ;)

I have many reviews under my TER handle, including reviews of doubles, over many more years than you've been writing reviews here.  You have no reviews of doubles.  Based on your reasoning above, we shouldn't take anything you have to say about this subject of doubles seriously.  

Have a great Sunday!
Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: I can only give my opinion based . . .  
On the 600+ providers I have seen and many in doubles.  Many girls will not be open with guys who are strictly johns to them, but OTC after a few drinks they are very forthcoming about inside the business. When you're just a paying customer, you're always going to hear the sugar-coated Kumbaya between "sisters."  
   
   
 With you, having no reviews and using an alias, you don't have much experience cred  to back up your speculation.  Just my opinion, but no basis for anyone to disagree since we don't know if you have seen even one provider yet.

GaGambler 72 reads
posted
19 / 22

but every once in a while you get one right. This is one of those times. As others have pointed out before CDL tends to be a "hobby snob" at times.  

 
and yes you did a pretty good job of hoisting CDL by his own petard, or is it "retard" lol

 
Where it comes to booking doubles, i don't believe that there is any one single way of "doing it correctly"

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 59 reads
posted
20 / 22

And his way is the only way to hobby?

Here's CDL:

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 48 reads
posted
21 / 22

find one higher than this if you tried.  I'm insulted that you think so "little" of me.  Lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 68 reads
posted
22 / 22

250+ reviews were on another site, including many doubles,  that went out of business in August 2015, about the time I started reviewing here.  Ask OTM, he knew me from the other site.  Same handle I have now.  It easy to say you have reviews when you're using an alias.  We see it all the time.  There was a guy in LA that talked big, and then one day he accidentally posted with his real handle after starting the thread with his alias.  He had three reviews, one a year for three years, after talking smack for a couple of years about being a high-volume hobbyist, so we just don't know, do we?

 
GaG is a bad example to use with me.  We have had many private conversations and I know he is legit from having had many similar experiences to mine.  I think he will also agree with me that regular Johns aren't always privy to what goes on behind the scenes with providers.  Much of his knowledge also comes from outside RL relationships with hookers.  

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