I was having a session with a young lady and we started talking about the state of the hobby and she was saying that some of her girlfriends had stolen her best clients and how she had started doing the same thing.  She said that she actually gets off by taking her competition's clients away from them.  I guess it is away for her to keep score.  I just chalked this up to her being young.  Is this something that is common in the industry?

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Its not like we are under contract. Since most of us have a limited budget we do have to decide one over another. And a lot of guys want variety. I have had a few times where a lady had seen a review abd sent me a PM asking why I saw such n such and not her.

Sometimes it gets downright dangerous.  I know of one case where a provider put something in another provider drink to make her go to sleep.  

We make up our own minds, thank you.

I hate thinking like that it's soooo not a good use of my time!  It probably does happen but if the client is susceptible to that then so be it.  What am I going to do about it???  Sit back and let Karma do her job.

If she is engaging in deceitful tactics to make the clients stop seeing her friends then she shouldn't even call them "friends". Ultimately the client likes what he likes. But from him making a conscientious decision to see someone else over his regular girl, to go to her because this person is actively lying or making stories about the other girls then... that's awful.  

Or he did mean "stilling" as in "youse is swimmin' wit da fishies now...."

He calls it stilling.

Thanks for the correction Mr. Fisher. I meant Stealing. Just a brain fart on my behalf.😀  I have had ladies refuse to introduce me to friends of theirs when that was the only way I could get in touch with them.  I guess they didn't want me seeing the friend.

Closest I come to this situation is when a provider introduces me to her friend and then trashes her a bit if I start seeing the first one less.

I guess if they're Casino Girls or both working a hotel bar or they're roommates. Otherwise, just how does this work?

Using drugs such as cocaine.

First of all, stealing clients is BS. The ladies know that guys are going to see other ladies (it's not a committed relationship.  Maybe a business relationship with more benefits). It's going to happen, any lady who thinks otherwise is fooling herself. Any guy who thinks they curry favor with a lady or thinks she gives him top priority is also fooling himself.

As easy as single grapes in a supermarket .
Most of the ladies I regularly see are chill enough to actually recommend other Providers they think I might like

clients imply those hobbyists would choose only to see one provider on a regular basis, rather than many?  In my experience, that is just not the case.  More than a few hobbyists have made it known, that variety is one of the primary benefits of this hobby.

What is the difference between a regular client who sees one your friends and a regular client being stolen by your friend?

I think it was an ego thing with this particular girl.  I don't think she gave a fuck about the guys.lol. If one of her girlfriends took business from her, she would go after their clients.  She would lower her prices to attract clients away from girlfriends or rivals and then white list and have them do an excellent review to rub it in to the girlfriend to let them know that she is now fucking all of her friends clients once the friend realizes that business is slow.  It's twisted but true.

It is always possible for some people to develop an animosity toward someone else.  In that case out of spite or revenge they might try to poison the well of their enemy.   I think that would be a more likely explanation for such behavior than trying to monopolize a guy by dissing all other providers.   That would mostly be futile if the guy has a mind for variety

If Ford builds a better truck than Chevy, Dodge, etc., they won my business, they didn't steal it.  

Must be in Bizarro World.

Just curious do you also get referrals from those you provide recommendations for?

If the gentlemen and ladies we see only wanted to enjoy one person in life, we wouldn't have this wonderful profession    
This is not just a business but it is also a sisterhood.  Jealousy is toxic and doesn't belong in P4P.
Let's all play together and enjoy one anothers company to the fullest potential.  The sexual freedom is amazing!
 A king sized bed can fit alot of sexy people   Just sayin

thing like "stealing clients" what a joke and unprofessional.  
I encourage my clients to meet my friends... because I know those ladies encourage theirs to see me. It's a circle.
There's no such a thing as a client being jealous for a written review and for a girl seen new people. LOL  
Some people are really weird and should be in different places than this website

Very well said!    
XOXO
TL

There is no such thing as "my" client. Clients come, clients go.  

If this is how she acts, conducts business, and treats others sounds like it's time to delete her number and move on to more professional ladies. Many out there who know how to properly handle their business, treat their clients, and collaborate with other ladies in the business.  

Don't believe Dave. This is the second drug related post he has made and AGAIN...he was 100% wrong.  

Variety IS the spice of life too! Not to mention,  majority of the gentlemen I know are already married lol
XOXO
TL

You can't really steal a client unless you do it in a shady way. Like threatening them. If a client wants to see another provider and have fun with that provider, they should. And they will. I've gladly let go of clients who were so scared of another provider, that they said they couldn't see me anymore. Or said "shhh don't tell her! She'll get upset."  

Looks like your provider has evolved lol!!

You sure you want to keep going back to her? That's pretty fucked up.  

And one let her guard down as a result. The bad one slipped something into her drink, that is how she passed out. Shoes and hair was stolen lol, in additions to client(s).

what kind of booze the client becomes after the stilling?

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That's where Dave lives. Have you seen his other posts?

I don't think it's about the guy being a pussy or letting someone dictate to him who he can fuck, more like him trying to avoid the drama and problems that may come his way.  I like getting my dick wet just as much as the next guy but not enough to get caught up in a bunch of drama.  Sometimes you don't know that they are psycho chicks until you have fucked them a few times.Lol  No, I am no longer seeing her.  One and done.      

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unless for some estrange miracle we fall in love and get married and live "pretty woman" after ever after... by him seeing other girls... there's no happy ending anyways LOL  

I've never had even a hint of sexual freedom. They always make me pay!!!

You've been bringing this situation up since July on two different boards. That's fine and dandy, you do you, but you're still feasting lol.  

The ladies do so much better when they share their clients, and a threesome guarantees repeat visits from said client, for both of the providers involved.  Then everyone wins.

Johns can hardly be "stolen" they don't belong to anyone but the John's wife and if he's seeing hookers you can see how well that is working out for the wife too.

No, I did not call "him" a pussy. He has moved on - at least from the two ladies - but some I say that to, (indirectly,) if they're pestering me that they can't see me instead of booking another date.

...watching "REALITY" TV.

Well of course....THAT's what happened.

Or better yet....under his other screen name?  

Probably put a page or two of your posts in her drink.....that would put anyone to sleep.