Most of you have probably seen a girl like this.  
The moment you enter, you can tell she's disinterested.  
No "long lost lovers" shit. No arousing flirty behavior.  
You start to wonder how the fuck she got all those high scores.
She's a tough nut to crack. Considering you've done nothing wrong, and you're paying for a service, it shouldn't be such a chore.

aha! Jkjk. Too easy. Sometimes people hit it off, sometimes they don't.  
 Have all of your experiences been negative?

I love it when the provider is flirty in communications before we meet. Nothing explicit, no services mentioned--just words and an attitude that indicates she's fun & playful (with a naughty streak) and is looking forward to seeing me... and my envelope.

once in a while we all have a really bad day

I say make the most of every opportunity. Not as a duty, but as part of the fun. Whether provider or client.

It's what I pay them for.   They can be free to have all the bad days they like on their dime.  If I wanted to put up with that,  I'd get a mistress.... or go home to my wife.

I don't expect her to be Flirty on the first meeting. But she has to be polite and have a good attitude. She doesn't have to be runway model gorgeous. Being polite and having a good attitude goes a long way with me than her looks.

Behave as a gentleman, be as charming and considerate as you can.   Make her job easier.  You get better results that way...

"Is it hot in here?" Probably because I'm nervous. Comic relief stomps flirty any day. Plus, they try to "help" me right off the bat, which makes it like a movie at times.

And that's a great combo.

Intro's in emails saying "I've seen all the best and the hottest women so amazing blah blah might put her on edge too.

By that point, all bets are off - she's human - i'm human - let's fuck. LOL

ve hobbied long enough to experience everything. Some providers will shove their tongue down your throat the second the door is closed. Other providers greet you with an awkward hug and not much more. And you know what?  "Tongue girl" sometimes ends up being a mediocre session at best while "awkward hug" girl ends up sexually satisfying and a definite repeat.

YMMV hobby.  Every provider has different types of men that they get wet over.  If you're the fat, bald guy in sandals showing a little foot fungus, why should she get all excited.  She will do her duty, and that's about it.  You don't repeat, and she doesn't care that you don't repeat.  Some of the younger providers don't like customers over 50, other's only want guys over 50.  I'm not a fat, bald guy, I am older, and I never wear sandals to an incall, but I have gotten my share of non-connection dates with providers.  It's all part of the hobby. You take your lumps and move on.  If you do your homework before you go, bad dates can be kept to a very low percentage.  For me, its less than 5%.    

Then I either proceed in or run like hell, depending on which way I meant it! lo

When I go and see any providers I expect flirting and the more the better,  
that will reflect their report card and whether or not I will see them again.  

It's all about customer service no matter what business you are in. The good providers knows how to make you comfortable as it is good for business. For me I would say the flirting and rapport is slightly more than half and the rest physical.

Hey, at least you don't have to deal with the bad attitude lol

7 seconds to make a first impression AND you'll never get a second chance to make a great first impression.  

Especially when visiting a K-Girl, you are going to be taking them off within the first 30 seconds of stepping through the door anyhow, so what difference does your footwear make?

exceptions.  Nothing is 100% and I didn't imply it is.  Just observations from some of my own experiences.

Flirting is MY fun way of getting things started....not my duty. I enjoy it!!! Try flirting yourself, I bet you would see a difference in your encounters.

is affectionate & yes it is necessary.  Exactly how much depends on the players.    

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And I certainly don't think it's all on the provider.  I do my part to be flirty, friendly, and put the first-meeting jitters to rest.  My personal rule is to treat every woman (provider or civie) the way I'd want a man to treat and romance my daughter.  9 times out of 10, the ladies are extremely responsive.  But there's always a cold fish or two out there.

they should be "on" period.  This is performance art.  I'm not paying just for pussy.  If I were I would have stopped for that $25 half and half on the corner.

Being disinterested or over enthusiastic can both be a turn-off.

Duty? Possibly, but at the same time there are so many factors that can dissect the subject. In my opinion. ....uh yah! And if the girl doesn't she is wrong. This industry is about Fantasy, lust, and good old fashioned sex appeal...i believe every moment of contact should display some element of it. After all our clients are earning their pay and in a way us as providers should earn ours too.

I believe all providers should be as fun loving as there emails, text, etc. I think it just makes for a better mood for both the provider and the guy. A good attitude is wonderful from the time that the man walks in till the time he leaves. Just making him feel extra special all the way around.