Hello Gents and Ladies. I have been offering incall for a while now. When I fist began doing so, I made sure there were several supplies present for my gentlemen friends. Many of the supplies available were toothbrushes, individual toothpaste and mouth wash bottles, tick tacks, etc. After a few months of doing so, I found myself with more toothbrushes than needed. Typically, I replace my toothbrush every three months. However, after the toothbrushes provided during incall weren't used, I began to replace my toothbrushes weekly (why not with an excess of unused toothbrushes!). So, my question is what do you gents look for when you come to an incall? Do you get the hint when there are toothbrushes set out for you? Ladies, what hygiene products do you provide for your guests? Do they typically use those products? Thanks everyone for your participation. Xoxo, Giamarie BTW, I now have an excess of tick tacks since no one uses them! PS. I'm posting this from my handheld so the format, spelling and paragraph structure may be out of wack. Please bear with me. Thank you.

mouth rinse that kills bacteria and a large variety of soaps. I did the toothbrush thing way back when and no one ever used them.

Kisses Haley

i carry a small bag that can carry a complete hygeine kit: toothbrush, paste, shaving needs, floss, deodorant, soap, mouthwash or equivalent, male and female condoms, non hobby meds just in case a miracle happens and i am invited to extend a stay overnight, extra cash for that happy circumstance and of course the envelope. this leaves room in the bag for a bottle of wine or other gift to be carried inconspicuously.

all i expect to find supplied is a towel since i am,

not Ford Prefect

I'll be the first to answer your thread because I believe that it is a good question worthy of a good response.
I spend the extra money twice every year to get my teeth cleaned four times a year along with the seasons.
Before each date I brush with toothpaste and baking soda, floss and gargle so that DFK which is so important to me can be enjoyed with each lady I spend time with.

My problem is that the ladys that I have been spending time with are NOT into DFK like I am.
So from this day forward I plan to skip the dentist at least 3 times a year, omit the flossing and gargling and go strait to DATO.

I always recomend that everyone renew their tooth brush at least once per month.


If you wish I am willing to take care of all your oral needs.



Thank you
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I would love to spend an hour with you!

my incall is my home, where i live with my Husband and his teenage son. so as far as washroom facilities i can only offer a powder room, as i keep the top two levels of the home off-limits to "guests."

however i always have supplies available for freshening up. in a little wicker basket in the powder room i have three face towels and three hand towels (rolled nicely), trial sizes of dove and irish spring bar soap, assorted mouthwash, and those mini-lint rollers. i used to supply travel size toothbrushes and toothpaste but they were never used. what products are used? most every gent will use at least a face towel, a good deal use the bar soap (usually the irish spring, very popular with men for some reason), and a small percentage will use the mouthwash and the lint roller.

this is not a hygiene product, but sometimes i will set out a candy dish in the "boudoir," filled with chocolates or caramels of some kind, and gents will almost ALWAYS grab a couple of those on their way out. i think it's a nice touch.

Not along the lines exactly of your question, but its something I am cognizant of after one incall experience...

Please NO smelly candles, potpourri, or perfumes. The one time I nearly got busted by SO was when I came home after seeing a Provider that had candles in her room. Like cigarette smoke in a bar, that smell got into my clothing and I didn't notice it at the time. My wife did, and asked what it was. I covered by telling her a store I went into had some candles I was smelling and they must have gotten into my clothes. Fortunately I didn't panic and freeze up.

Anyway... that was a close one. Keep it scent free please.

our date and sometimes one afterwards (nice fluffy towel needed).  I bring my own soap and after shave to smell the same.  I also bring my own mouthwash and use it before entering the hotel elevator (restroom on the ground floor or by the meeting rooms).

would also be bringing their own anyway.....

which means that is important that there be enough towels and soap. I'm a heavy coffee drinker, and I keep mouthwash in my executive bathroom at the office, but I sometimes forget to use it before a date....  so if you have it available that is good.

and especially a fragrent girl!!  A nice variety of smells can make my head swim with erotic anticipation.

If a guy has a SO to worry about, then change into a spare set of clothes for the appointment & shower afterwards.  Or specifically let the provider know: no smells.

I would think that seeing a lady for the first time and you show up with a bag, she might think there are dangerous things in there. Not your toiletries.

It's similar to the shaving kit I remember my father having, but mine isn't for shaving.
It's a small leather bag, with toothbrush, paste, mouthwash, breathmints, cologne, lube, condoms, bottled water and other items that are beneficial for visiting a lady.

This post made me wonder if any other men do this. In addition to doing the "3 S's" (as my father called them) just before leaving for a date, I freshen up just before stepping out of my car at the location. I brush my teeth and rinse with mouthwash AGAIN, before going in.

If I see a lady a second time, I will take my kit in with me.

It's also handy to just take in the car just in case.

I enjoy Gentleman's Clubs, and if I decide to join a dancer in VIP, I will go out to the car and freshen up and add cologne. It's amazing that I always get comments about smelling good and how they wish more men paid attention to that. (As a side note, I get more milage from dancers than any of the men I know. And it ain't 'cuz I'm Brad Pitt)

Any other gents do something similar?

I want a nice clean shower and towels.  I bring my own soap, shampoo, tooth brush and paste, and mouth wash.  I come in flossed, brushed, water picked, showered but like to shower and brush and mouth wash before I start.  The main reason I bring my own is that I want to leave smelling of my usual products unless I am out of town then I don't care.

for a first time visit after a hello kiss and hug the bag gets opened real fast "hey i brought gifts for you" so she can see what's in it.

I've shown up at incalls during the day with an attache case.  To the external observer, I am a business man going to some business meeting.  Well, they are right, just they don't know the business.  This allows me to bring toiletries, and to provide cover for the lady

I carry a toothbrush and mouth wash and use it just before I arrive.  Always.  I also stop off at the gym to shower (or arrange my workout before meeting so I am showered) or go from home after showering.  So I rarely need a shower or brush. If you want to enhance the experience get clean.  Just imagaine the guy before you leaving and her just inviting you in saying she didn't have time (or didn't feel it necessary) to clean up.  Lets get real!

or briefcase and have all their own personal products with them. Yes toothbrush too. This way they go home smelling like they left..This is someone who cums prepared and knows what works to keep him safe..A very smart man in deed but not everyone can do this. Just having these items may raise suspicion if found.

Kisses Haley

It is good to have things available if someone needs them.  I also keep sealed toothbrushes.  Personally I use a sonic care at home.  Sealed toothbrushes don't go 'bad' so if they are not used quickly, who cares.  

I think most men use mouthwash. Mini cups and bottle left on the counter helps.

I keep things out.  I have this really cool le vitra design thingy on my wall stocked with all sorts of things.  I also tell people to feel free to pilfer thru the draws if they dont' see what they need out.

My stuff gets used a good deal.  
I think making things obvious and accessible is helpful and communicating effectively that the items are to be used if even remotely desired.

I keep high cocoa individually wrapped chocolates and all sort of refreshments too. Over the years it seems people are most comfortable with individually wrapped items.  I even keep ample individual wet wipes out.  

ONe funny thing:  on several occasions I've been cleaning up and see someone has used a toothbrush and put it back into the opened packaging (?)  
instead of thrown it away after use as intended.
I think it is that culturally we are taught to kind of keep to ourselves.  We dont' entertain in our homes as often and people grow shy in a more open environment.  

Our job is to help people relax and have a good time in many respects...

But I like to refer to it as my "Hobby Kit"!
It's got all the eseential grooming items you mentioned and they are all the one's I normally use at home. That way I can freshen up both before and after as needed and by using my own items there's no one-time only use waste. By using my own items I don't have to worry about coming home with any foreign smells or tastes!

C_K

i have been fortunate to only have encountered 1 or 2 gents over the past couple of years who were in desperate need of a thorough tooth-brushing...and in those cases, my mouth certainly did not go anywhere near their mouth. unfortunately i don't think that there is really a polite way that you can "suggest" to someone that they brush their teeth.

as i said, when i set out toothbrushes and toothpaste for clients they were never used. they were only used on the rare occasions when i had non-hobby related company visiting. so now i just stick to the mouthwash for clients...i also have those little paper dixie cups available for rinsing, so that there will be no excuse...

an assortment and individually wrapped of course, if one can find it.

i have had quite a few gents request a comb or brush in order to tidy up their appearance after a passionate encounter left them looking a bit mussed. some have even taken it upon themselves to use my own personal hair combs that i may leave lying about from time to time...i am not really comfortable with that though. for a long time now i have considered leaving out these items for gents but it always slips my mind when i'm out shopping for these things...hopefully now that i've thought of it on a weekend i'll remember lol.

Mine is one of those fanny packs oh and I never go anywhere without my pen and pencil shirt pocket pouch either! What is the boy scout motto?

(always be prepared)

Guys like girls (women) to smell pretty, but I know it's taking a chance to wear all those perfumey things when working,,,.....how about wearing a splash of men's cologne?  Is this old news? Or do I think I'm a genius here??

Oh wow, I use scented candles!  Is this a total no-no??! ..hey, i'm learning here! lol

It's a nice gesture but not really necessary. As you can see, they go to waste. I don't plan dates when I know I have to go straight home anyway. That's just stipid! What I look for is a nice place in a nice neighborhood. I don't want to visit you at your "real" home, as it simply gives me the creeps especially if there is evidence of children living there. Not a very smart thing to do IMHO.

I also want "new" linens, not ones that have just been wiped down with a clorox wet wipe LOL. I can't stand hotels and high volume providers who don't even change the sheets between calls.

I appreciate beverages, clean towels and a supply of condoms. I find most only have one kind and one size and don't mind bringing my own if I know in advance.

I don't need a toothbrush, or anything else as I have all those items at my office which is usually where I stop in to freshen up.

To prevent my receiving any more emails inquring whether or not I'm talking about a gent in particular, please understand I noticed an overall trend when offering incall. Supplies were rarely used. I do prefer that gents use supplies if offered, especially tooth brushes since I love kissing. In several months of hosting incall I have noticed no one ever uses the supplies even when I emailed gents before our meeting stating there are supplies to use when freshening up. Again, the post was not a personal attack on any particular friend, just an observation. Thanks for the input everyone! Xoxo, Giamarie NOTE: I'm on my handheld again!

Maybe you are a single guy? C'mon... You might as well come home (or back to work) with lipstick on your cheek.

Bringing a change of clothes? The object is NOT to attract attention. If come home in different clothes every time, and my old clothes have the smell... or the gym back or whatever my NEW clothes were in has the smell... BUSTED!

Or if I come home and need to do a load of laundry right away every time to cover up scented clothes... BUSTED!

The object is to conduct life as usual with no change in routine, or smell. You want candles? Bring them. I think many guys out there would still request to come home (or back to work) scentless.

I offer my candlelight bubble bath with sensual body rub... I have over time cut back on the scented candles and use a mild or unscented candles.. I keep a supply of new bath sponges (with the rope) for the bubble baths.  I offer it to the guy as a souvenir... Some take, others don't.  It's usually my sweet smelling body wash but now I will keep a bottle of irish spring on hand and unscented dove.  I will continue to supply mouthwash and antibacterial soap.

I generally arrived freshly showered, but always look for mouthwash, and I always scrub my hands again.

Two oddball "oops" items - a small scissors for trimming the mustache, and a corkscrew as I often bring wine but have on more than one occasion forgot a corkscrew.

May be its just me but is it possible men are not brushing their teeth upon arrival directly before play because it is the safe thing to do.  Brushing your teeth should take place at least 20 to 30 minutes before the meeting.  Brushing can cause micro-abrasions or sensitive gum's to bleed.  It usually takes a few minutes following brushing for these areas to return to normal.  Mouth wash  should be plenty in most cases unless the hobbyist didn't bother to brush before they came.  A word to the wise a mouth with teeth brushed in the last 5 min is far more likely to contain blood, visible or not, then a mouth that was brushed half an hour ago.

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