mouth rinse that kills bacteria and a large variety of soaps. I did the toothbrush thing way back when and no one ever used them.

Kisses Haley

i carry a small bag that can carry a complete hygeine kit: toothbrush, paste, shaving needs, floss, deodorant, soap, mouthwash or equivalent, male and female condoms, non hobby meds just in case a miracle happens and i am invited to extend a stay overnight, extra cash for that happy circumstance and of course the envelope. this leaves room in the bag for a bottle of wine or other gift to be carried inconspicuously.

all i expect to find supplied is a towel since i am,

not Ford Prefect

I'll be the first to answer your thread because I believe that it is a good question worthy of a good response.
I spend the extra money twice every year to get my teeth cleaned four times a year along with the seasons.
Before each date I brush with toothpaste and baking soda, floss and gargle so that DFK which is so important to me can be enjoyed with each lady I spend time with.

My problem is that the ladys that I have been spending time with are NOT into DFK like I am.
So from this day forward I plan to skip the dentist at least 3 times a year, omit the flossing and gargling and go strait to DATO.

I always recomend that everyone renew their tooth brush at least once per month.


If you wish I am willing to take care of all your oral needs.



Thank you
2009 = 27

my incall is my home, where i live with my Husband and his teenage son. so as far as washroom facilities i can only offer a powder room, as i keep the top two levels of the home off-limits to "guests."

however i always have supplies available for freshening up. in a little wicker basket in the powder room i have three face towels and three hand towels (rolled nicely), trial sizes of dove and irish spring bar soap, assorted mouthwash, and those mini-lint rollers. i used to supply travel size toothbrushes and toothpaste but they were never used. what products are used? most every gent will use at least a face towel, a good deal use the bar soap (usually the irish spring, very popular with men for some reason), and a small percentage will use the mouthwash and the lint roller.

this is not a hygiene product, but sometimes i will set out a candy dish in the "boudoir," filled with chocolates or caramels of some kind, and gents will almost ALWAYS grab a couple of those on their way out. i think it's a nice touch.

Not along the lines exactly of your question, but its something I am cognizant of after one incall experience...

Please NO smelly candles, potpourri, or perfumes. The one time I nearly got busted by SO was when I came home after seeing a Provider that had candles in her room. Like cigarette smoke in a bar, that smell got into my clothing and I didn't notice it at the time. My wife did, and asked what it was. I covered by telling her a store I went into had some candles I was smelling and they must have gotten into my clothes. Fortunately I didn't panic and freeze up.

Anyway... that was a close one. Keep it scent free please.

our date and sometimes one afterwards (nice fluffy towel needed).  I bring my own soap and after shave to smell the same.  I also bring my own mouthwash and use it before entering the hotel elevator (restroom on the ground floor or by the meeting rooms).

which means that is important that there be enough towels and soap. I'm a heavy coffee drinker, and I keep mouthwash in my executive bathroom at the office, but I sometimes forget to use it before a date....  so if you have it available that is good.

I carry a 'Gentleman's Kit'. Any other men do this?

It's similar to the shaving kit I remember my father having, but mine isn't for shaving.
It's a small leather bag, with toothbrush, paste, mouthwash, breathmints, cologne, lube, condoms, bottled water and other items that are beneficial for visiting a lady.

This post made me wonder if any other men do this. In addition to doing the "3 S's" (as my father called them) just before leaving for a date, I freshen up just before stepping out of my car at the location. I brush my teeth and rinse with mouthwash AGAIN, before going in.

If I see a lady a second time, I will take my kit in with me.

It's also handy to just take in the car just in case.

I enjoy Gentleman's Clubs, and if I decide to join a dancer in VIP, I will go out to the car and freshen up and add cologne. It's amazing that I always get comments about smelling good and how they wish more men paid attention to that. (As a side note, I get more milage from dancers than any of the men I know. And it ain't 'cuz I'm Brad Pitt)

Any other gents do something similar?

I want a nice clean shower and towels.  I bring my own soap, shampoo, tooth brush and paste, and mouth wash.  I come in flossed, brushed, water picked, showered but like to shower and brush and mouth wash before I start.  The main reason I bring my own is that I want to leave smelling of my usual products unless I am out of town then I don't care.

It is good to have things available if someone needs them.  I also keep sealed toothbrushes.  Personally I use a sonic care at home.  Sealed toothbrushes don't go 'bad' so if they are not used quickly, who cares.  

I think most men use mouthwash. Mini cups and bottle left on the counter helps.

I keep things out.  I have this really cool le vitra design thingy on my wall stocked with all sorts of things.  I also tell people to feel free to pilfer thru the draws if they dont' see what they need out.

My stuff gets used a good deal.  
I think making things obvious and accessible is helpful and communicating effectively that the items are to be used if even remotely desired.

I keep high cocoa individually wrapped chocolates and all sort of refreshments too. Over the years it seems people are most comfortable with individually wrapped items.  I even keep ample individual wet wipes out.  

ONe funny thing:  on several occasions I've been cleaning up and see someone has used a toothbrush and put it back into the opened packaging (?)  
instead of thrown it away after use as intended.
I think it is that culturally we are taught to kind of keep to ourselves.  We dont' entertain in our homes as often and people grow shy in a more open environment.  

Our job is to help people relax and have a good time in many respects...

what about hair combs/brushes?

an assortment and individually wrapped of course, if one can find it.

i have had quite a few gents request a comb or brush in order to tidy up their appearance after a passionate encounter left them looking a bit mussed. some have even taken it upon themselves to use my own personal hair combs that i may leave lying about from time to time...i am not really comfortable with that though. for a long time now i have considered leaving out these items for gents but it always slips my mind when i'm out shopping for these things...hopefully now that i've thought of it on a weekend i'll remember lol.

It's a nice gesture but not really necessary. As you can see, they go to waste. I don't plan dates when I know I have to go straight home anyway. That's just stipid! What I look for is a nice place in a nice neighborhood. I don't want to visit you at your "real" home, as it simply gives me the creeps especially if there is evidence of children living there. Not a very smart thing to do IMHO.

I also want "new" linens, not ones that have just been wiped down with a clorox wet wipe LOL. I can't stand hotels and high volume providers who don't even change the sheets between calls.

I appreciate beverages, clean towels and a supply of condoms. I find most only have one kind and one size and don't mind bringing my own if I know in advance.

I don't need a toothbrush, or anything else as I have all those items at my office which is usually where I stop in to freshen up.

To prevent my receiving any more emails inquring whether or not I'm talking about a gent in particular, please understand I noticed an overall trend when offering incall. Supplies were rarely used. I do prefer that gents use supplies if offered, especially tooth brushes since I love kissing. In several months of hosting incall I have noticed no one ever uses the supplies even when I emailed gents before our meeting stating there are supplies to use when freshening up. Again, the post was not a personal attack on any particular friend, just an observation. Thanks for the input everyone! Xoxo, Giamarie NOTE: I'm on my handheld again!

I generally arrived freshly showered, but always look for mouthwash, and I always scrub my hands again.

Two oddball "oops" items - a small scissors for trimming the mustache, and a corkscrew as I often bring wine but have on more than one occasion forgot a corkscrew.