if 2 providers were the same rate wise, which one would you gravitate to and why to spend you're hard earned money on.

Depends on what day it is

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Now if they are both similar physically...and rate wise I tend to like the 'real deal'.  

Well, you and I both know that longer encounters lend to a more 'real' connection where you actually 'converse' with the other individual about a lot more than penis' and vagina's hahahahahhaha LOL.  

rub my back dammit. hahahahahhahaha

Hmmm interesting. Thank you for sharing that.

...mean by these terms I'll go with "the real deal". I'm under no illusions or delusions about what this is. Let's just be two adults that are going to have some fun.

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The real deal can be genuine and real for the time that it is happening without any long range implications!  
I too am a service provider ( a very different kind of service - LOL) and I truly enjoy working with many of my clients. But we know that it's within a work context. Why should this be any different?

Sounds like you're wife shopping....

apparently it is all fake no matter what you pay...

you would choose and the experience intertwined because of the type of woman she was or marketed herself to be by her looks, photos, advertising etc. The fantasy or illusion girl who you don't meet everyday or the real deal girl you could meet anywhere at any given time on a daily basis. Which type of gal do you gravitate towards in P4P? They are clearly 2 different types of women here, no one better or worse, just different. Trying to take a poll as to which the men would pay for.

I give a very good back massage.  But I am not cheap.

You chimed in...so answer the damn question. Geezk. I'm feisty, don't mess with me this evening and I'm about to fall asleep LOL. hahahahahha

'apparently.' Don't be fooled. Some women do enjoy what they do here and it is all real. And no, wanting a 'connection' is not a mangina. Being a dick which makes a man dickless is a mangina hahahahahhaha. I'm funny huh. Well, I make myself giggle. hahahahahhahahah

But you can pay me to give me one LOL. That's much better. hahahahahahahahhaha

One sided indulgence has a flat affect.

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Actually, I've had massages from the best.  Nothing sexual about it -- even the one I got from a provider.  it's nice.  But pay for it?  Not happening.
I will pay for sex.
I will not pay for...
anyone to massage me;
to watch you sleep;
to watch you eat;
for anything other than sex.
I will happily pay for dinner OTC or anything else OTC.  Well, almost anything.  Not to buy you more Manolos.
I know lots of ladies who will join me for dinner.  If you don't wish to, that's fine too.
Clear?

At some times I'm looking to fulfill fantasies, others I'm looking for the real deal....usually as hot....
Now how about fulfilling tne fantasy with the real deal?

Every provider I have seen has gotten my attention in some way. I've been drawn to both. It might be that I've gone to the real deal side more often because I'm just like that but I can't say with any certainty that I always go for one over the other.

I think I would be doing an Incall into a garbage can.

Yes Nicky, I am with you, I don't pay for any of the things that you have listed either, with the exception of paying for a massage. Yes I will pay for a massage, but not hundreds of dollars an hour, there are several very good massage places close to my home where you can get a great massage for around $40-50 hr. I have brought several "dates" for couples massages, including a few provider friends/GF's

Paying for "company" or to watch someone eat or drink, or to pleasure them is ridiculous IMO, and is one more addition to the definition of a mangina. Disclaimer, I do enjoy DATY, but although technically it's giving her pleasure (as long as you do it right)  it's still sexual activity, and part of a paid session.

and a brief note to Taylor, the best way to make sure someone like me NEVER returns is to ask me for a massage as part of a paid date. If I want to reciprocate and give a lady a massage on an extended date, it better be my idea, not hers. I think it's downright nervy to ask a guy paying hundreds of dollars an hour to give YOU a massage. What many of you ladies don't seem to realize is that most of us can get sex without paying for it, what we want when paying for it is for it to be about us, not all about you. Expect when seeing guys like the Dungbeetle I suppose.