While there has been a lot of discussion of just what GFE means I have not seen much of a discussion about what is meant by gentleman.

Many ladies mention that the hobbyist should be a gentlemen.  Reviewers say that if you treat a lady like a gentleman it will be worth your while.

So I ask, just what kind of behaviors are expected of a gentleman?

If it does not start with: fuzzy, magnum,Fat, Jerk,ass,....etc he's a gentleman,


Lol

honestly agree with the lady who wrote it. We all can tell if we are a gentleman or an asshole after reading this:

for what, fuzzy? sixty bucks? you shopping on craigslist again???

give him $60 bucks and he'll do anything for you,... I know because he's my ATF!!!


LMAO

Ewwwwwwwwwwww

I don't know about all ladies but there are some ladies that I know that if I "treat them like a GENTLEMAN" I will probably get their strap on in return. OUCH!

Skanks....want me to go on?

I'm sure there are a few decent fucks on that low life site, but I won't go there thanks.

I expect a gentleman to be just that- a gentle man. I expect he is kind, treats me like a lady, is well mannered and knows how to conduct himself.

A gentleman is preferred because he doesn't show up reeking of b.o. and demanding you to go down on him for an hour. He would have the foresight to have showered and would probably want to make it a nice safe fun experience for the both of us, not just a give me head and go home type of experience.

A gentleman takes the time to treat the escort like a lady. Whether this means the slow seduction, compliments, kindness, some chit chat or care for how she's feeling going into a session, he takes the time to treat her as a lady rather than a damn fuck machine.

A gentleman does not refer to her as names such as prostitute, hooker,whore or hoe. He does not call to her as Come here hooker or any other such bullshit. He does not make posts on the boards inquiring about hookers in his area. He instead asks thoughtful questions about which ladies might be best suited for him, which ladies are coming to his town, etc... The point is, he recognizes we are still ladies.

A gentleman does not bash the lady for her business practices. If she screens, fine. Consider yourself lucky to have found someone who wants to preserve her safety as well as yours. A gentleman does not bash her for her fixed hourly rate and try to haggle her down. This is tacky. Tacky I say! If you're not o.k. with paying her hourly rate, I'd move on and find someone within your range rather than try to bully her into giving you some sort of discount you think you are due.

A gentleman does not bully providers on the board because he has not passed screening or because they did not make a point to kiss his ass when he made rude comments to the ladies. He does not behave like a troll.

Mostly, gentlemen are raised with a healthy amount of respect and common courtesy. It can be learned, though, so there's hope.

Katie

It is simply the way that a good man should treat any woman regardless of her occupation.

ask Jazz the Mod there to add your post to the Newbie Manual. I think it very succinctly lists what a gentleman is or should at least TRY to be. The information is there in various places in the newb manual, but it's in bits and pieces.

respectfully, courteously and fairly in money matters.

A recent crossword puzzle solution also seems appropos here:

"A gentlemen is never in a hurry."

And ain't it the truth?

A gentleman is someone who makes sure everybody around him is comfortable.

"Many ladies mention that the hobbyist should be a gentlemen.  Reviewers say that if you treat a lady like a gentleman it will be worth your while."

Wouldn't a lady want to be treated like a lady & not like a gentleman?

... everything else is speculation.

I've bounced into the wrong room on a couple occasions.  To be fair, I was invited at least once; a few were alcohol related, and one was just a senior moment.

Does that mean that I have to stop replying to ladies that only see gentlemen?

You are wise beyond your years.  Just wish you were in Florida instead of Cali.

Swim

Keep a urinal cake in the pocket, just in case.

would be interested in ladies who offer more than one 'cup'?

just pay a girl the same way you would want a man to pay your mother/daughter/etc.

not a gentleman

anabangbangbangbangbangbangbangbangbangbangbangbangbang ..

yep just as i suspected.
i ran out of room.

I was raised as a gentleman and consider myself one.  I hope the ladies that I have seen also would consider me as such.

However, many people would consider someone who is a hobbyist as not being a gentleman.  I disagree.

Just my thought.....

Dear Snowfire,

Since you obviously wanted a real answer, here you go.

A gentleman is kind and considerate.  He walks in gives the lady a hug and a kiss, puts the envelope on the table.

Sometimes he brings flowers or wine, or a small trinket, sometimes he even brings a nice card to place the donation in, inside the envelope.

A Gentleman excuses himself to the restroom so she can count the donation in private and put it away.

He rinses his mouth out with whatever product she has available.
While he is in there he makes him self more comfortable.
He talks to her and treats her like a delicate soul.
Then he makes the sweet passionate love to her as firey as she and he like.
Finally, he leaves on time, not trying to sneek in an extra free 30 mins just because she is polite.
He gives her another hug and a kiss and he goes back to the office.

Have you heard the saying, Treat a lady like a whore in the bedroom, and a whore like a lady?
Follow this rule and whatever lady you are with,
in the bedroom, will do anything to please you.
How is that?
fishnets hugs and kisses
smokinhot sexymaddy

Very well thought out and concisely stated. I would recommend you putting your response on the Newbie Board and perhaps ask Jazz the Mod there to add it to the Newbie manual under the heading - "A Gentleman is ..."

Giving you a standing O (pun intended)

only those who do not understand this whole experience to begin with would think that way. I have had the pleasure to meet many Gentlemen in this area of my life, some are now dear Gems to me. I have been fortunate enough to make some great connections with some of the sweetest Gentlemen and only if you have tried this and been there would you assume to judge.
On the other hand I know some men not from this but otherwise who I can truely say are not Gentlemen even if they have never cheated on their wives. This business we all know is very misunderstood. Too many preconcieved notions by unqualified observers.

hobbyists CAN be gentlemen despite some rigid interpretations and I find that to be true of all of the guys I see. They're all very sweet, awesome people that I sincerely enjoy hanging out with.

Katie

Gentlemen are first clean, groomed and prepared.

Gentlemen don't venture to lines of discussion that are out of the bounds of the relationship. Gentlemen are respectful of women and give courtesy and consideration without being asked. Gentlemen do not force themselves on anyone let alone a naked prostrate woman.

Gentlemen are by definition "Gentle" until asked to be rough. Gentlemen may use crude language during the act, but would refrain from it before intimacy and after ...

And Gentlemen settle up as agreed and do so without being crude or frankly condescending ... leave it on  the dresser