I am curious if clients keep seeing the same companion they have a great session with, or actively seek new companions to have new experiences?
If you stick to a favorite(s), any concerns about becoming too "attached"?
I ask as I really "clicked" with the 3rd or 4th companion I met.  I like the price, I like the location, I like the service, I like her as a person... I think why go see anyone else, as I know I will leave every session "happy and satisfied".  I know "nothing lasts forever", but think why not ride this train to the end.  Thanks for the insights!

Personally, I never want to get attached. This is what I want. That doesn’t mean everyone else needs to want the same thing. And others who like to repeat can better explain why it works for them.

I have frequently had stints of seeing a fave for a few months, then moving on.  

That is somewhat common, from what I can tell, but not typical. Personally, it's awesome meeting up with women you have seen before, as many times that can lead to a deeper connection, or more intimate, better sex, more encompassing deeper convo, etc.  
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But I have to see new woman as well. The excitement of meeting someone for the first time is such a turn on. So I def like a bit of both to keep things new, exciting and fresh.
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The downside of seeing one girl, and one girl only is exactly what you state...that you can become attached. That's not a healthy thing imo, and one way to avoid that possibility is to "play the field", so to speak.  
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In your case, what you might want to consider is see the girl you are referring to more than the others, but maybe mix in someone else that really catches your eye. I find it best when a number of women leave me "happy and satisfied" but you have to do you.
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 Just give a thought to experimenting and mixing it up here or there. It may make you appreciate the girl you are solely seeing more, but it also may allow you to find another, new girl who can do the same thing for you.

One of the reasons I see escorts is for variety. I don't want to see just one provider. However if I really enjoy myself with a provider I will repeat a few times.

Mostly I see gals I have known for many years, around 5 or 6 right now but I've had as many as 8 that I see regularly.  Why so many?   Variety is the spice of life.

I have a favorite that I’ve seen a few times a year for the past several years (if it ain’t broke don’t fix it) and then I see 2-4 new providers each year as well (variety is the spice of life). I enjoy seeing my favorite bc we get on great together and I know it’s going to be a fantastic time every time, each rendezvous better than the previous. I can understand if you’ve seen someone several times and you hit a plateau together then you might want to move on or visit with less frequently. I enjoy the excitement of meeting someone new but there is the worry that while you might enjoy yourself you were hoping for something better (comes with the territory). Either way, (You do you.)

15 to 20 years ago, I was all about variety. I wanted to experience as many providers as I could afford.

I have thought about this with some of my better experiences. Repeating, but just a few times a year. Seems like it would keep it fresher. The few times I repeated it was in a row and not spread out. It’s a much different approach when a client sees the same provider over and over without much breaks vs. a few times a year like what you do.

Seeing them in group play is fun, and when seeing them solo, I always feel a bit more welcome when meeting them. It adds another layer of connection and gives us something immediately to talk about as we both have the other girl in common. Good post!

I started in the hobby banging every hot lady I could find.  As I've grown in the hobby, my desires have changed.  I prefer the comfort, intimacy and mindblowing sex that comes with familiarity.  I have 3 ladies that I see regularly now.   I've been seeing them anywhere from 1.5-3 years.  They are my physical type, within my budget, good human beings and great lovers.  The funny thng is that they are all so different from each other.  

There have been some providers I just have a great time with and I will repeat regularly with them. At the same time, the relationship with these women is not the same as other aspects of my life so I find it a mistake to try to make more out it things than I should. Which means, quite often, too much of a good thing can be bad. I have had some regulars that just eventually got a bit stale -- magic was gone and not coming back. In some cases I've had that happen but after a break sessions became great again (probably a bit of change on both sides there).

I prefer to repeat. Since what I look for isn’t that common. I usually only look for someone new if my regular isn’t available

Thanks, everyone, for the great comments!
I got into the hobby later in life, so if I want a companion who is within 20 years or so of my age and has the attributes I like, the number of potential companions is small.  I just checked Tryst, and nationwide there are about 50 that make my screen, and probably 30 I would be interested in meeting.  To find a lady within 10 miles of my location, who I am compatible with, is extremely lucky and convenient.  Of course, if I expand the screen to 30 years, there are a few hundred potentials.  I'll be careful not to cross boundaries and become too attached.  So far, I can balance an amazing connection and great fun together with "not getting the feels".  I don't want to mess up her life, and she doesn't want to mess up mine...each of us has what the other wants, and we get along great.  I agree that seeking others to work into the rotation will help add variety, confirm if the connection is as strong as I think it is, and keep a "bench" for when my current favorite moves on.

Here's a link to my post.  It still applies.  Figure out what kind of hobbyist you are, then you know what will make you happiest.  

Thanks for sharing the link!  I read through that string and agree that I am a "nester" rather than a "hunter".  When hunting, I am looking for a long-term ATF vs. enjoying the thrill of the hunt.  Having a mutual connection and trust makes it more relaxing and fun, in my opinion.  I was lucky to find one quickly and in a convenient location.  Easy commute and parking at her location near the path between home and work is a big "plus".

I should add - I have become attached emotionally to one of my regulars.  I posted about it previously on the reviewer's board.  She has feelings for me as well (or did at one point at least).  As I've continued to see her, my feelings have grown stronger, but I don't talk about it with her.  As a married man, I know the relationship I have with this lady can't be more than what it is now, so I don't want to spoil what we have, especially if her feelings haven't grown the same way mine have.  I simply enjoy the time we spend together.  

Interesting thread. I like to see one girl on a regular basis. There are so many bad/mediocre girls out there, when I find one I like and click with, I definitely want to keep that going. A good half or more of the escort experience, at least for me, is having some kind of connection, even if it's only during our session.  
The longest I saw a provider was 8 years. It was great, we were very comfortable with each other, and the sex was fantastic. Besides our monthly sessions, we started meeting for lunch and dinner. These were just platonic at first, casual dining with a beautiful woman. But eventually, she would walk me back to the car, hope in, and make out with me. Then she started to blow me. All unasked for, no charge (we were still doing our paid sessions, but this was separate.) She was still seeing other clients, which was fine by me, but eventually some damn lawyer got her to quit and marry him. Very selfish of that bastard!
And that is the problem with seeing a provider long term, they will eventually bail on you, and you have to understand that. The last three years, I've been seeing a provider that wasn't quite as warm and had more boundaries, but was still  very sexy and a great time. But then she jacked up her prices while at the same time dialing back her services. As nice as these girls can seem, most of them are looking at one thing, the cash.
I should also point out that even when I was seeing that girl for 8 years, I still sometimes saw other escorts. Nice to have some variety, and escorts understand that. Having a "relationship" with an escort is not like having one with a civilian.

I  was defiantly a hunter and spent 10s of thousands per year on the hunt. As you age the hunt becomes less important at least for me. I have one provider I have seen regularly since 2016. In all fairness she is a 9-10 provider here. Its not a emotional connection , one of the first things she usually asks me is " have I seen anyone good " . We often compare notes on new local providers.  We just click and I plan on seeing her until we don't. I wouldn't be to concerned, You will know when it is time to move on. In the meantime enjoy your time with the provider you are seeing.  

I do both but I mainly and like to see my favorites more. It is too much of a headache trying to find a new girl all the time with the screening, deposits, flakiness, non-responses and uncertainty of their service level. I do not get attached because, I have been doing this for a while and see a lot of different girls.

One of the worst feelings I've had before is I'd keep thinking in an average sesh, "I could've seen my atf instead". Like a little buyers remorse straight gnawing at me.

11 years in and 90% of the ladies I see I only see once.  Then there's the 10% who I will book several multi-hour meetings when they're in town.  I enjoy seeing new ladies, but once in a while a lady is worth seeing over and over again.  

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