Two threads below, the inimitable Kate Bishop asks what your best fantasy is - given no constraints on time, discretion, money (w/in reasonable limits).  Now, I ask you hobbyists, what's the real-life experience that most closely approached your fantasy with a provider:
And providers, there is a challenge for you below.

I'll start it rolling with some candidates of my own:

Fantasy realized 1:  Five days in NY in the Chelsea Hotel w/ an artist provider I'm in love with.  We boff 2 or three times a day; go to shows; hit the museums; shop for clothes;boff some more; bring pastries and Haagen Daz back to the room; boff some more; eat the food...

Extended fantasy realized:  The extended, crescendoed road trip with "NM," starting with 2 days in NY, in a room with a balcony the size of a football field; a month later, we spend three days in Vegas, first in the seedy Wild Wild West, where she shows off the five-inch heels and red vinyl dress to the blue collar schlubs staying there; then we move up to the jaccuzzi suite of the Bally and use its immense canvas to take hundreds of shots of her; meanwhile, there's mutual pleasuring; a month later, we're in Philly trudging the streets at midnight checking out street art, and a while later trying out the leather corset I've gotten her in our Sofitel hotel room; a couple of weeks later, back in NY, I rent her a domme for an hour so she can learn how to play with me that way; and finally back in the midwest, our antics get filmed (discreetly)for her self-produced porno debut.

Elegant liason:  She invited me to spend four days w/ her in NY.  We stayed in her suite.  During the day we walked around, bought sex toys for us and tee shirts for her kids; I showed her the city.  At night we used the toys and watched videos.

Okay...some of these are good, some of these are okay. But they're all real. Ladies, if you think you have an exciting, exotic idea for a fantasy date, I'm game. NY is the easiest venue for me because I get there easiest and there's loads to  do.  Propose me a few fantasy days: it could involve seeing ballet uptown and modern dance down at the Joyce, and boffing in between; it could be a foodie trip; or a kink-o-rama; or all jazz and blues. We could boff in a corner of the Cloisters.  But challenge me.  I may take you up on it.  

Remember, it's a hobby. It should be fun!

Okay, I haven't done this yet but this is what I fantasize about:

1. A hobbyist takes me to Tahiti where we bask
  in the sun all day. We make love on the beach,
  behind a waterfall, in the jungle, in our
  little shack with a sexy mosquito net in
  place over our bed, on our little deck that
  protrudes past our little piece of Heaven and
  the ocean, and a lot of playing at dinner
  time.

2. Mix that with some great wine, perhaps
  a little Captain Morgan's spiced rum with
  coconut juice and ice, and lots of seafood.

3. Now, mix in a little oil and massages and we
  are set. To top it off, dancing under the
  full moon and swimming naked in that
  beautiful, turquoise water.

4. Lots of beautiful sunsets while listening to
  the local flavor (musical). What a great
  trip that would be.

Hugs,
Ciara

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I guess we will just have to use our imaginations and pretend that we are in the islands, instead of Phoenix.
Maybe we can go into the mountains and wonder around.
Not the beach, but, a great view of the stars.
Although, anywhere with you is nice.

Just my opinion...
B

lions,tigers, and bears ....Oh my!

VR was somewhere in the mix and...most definitely out of Kansas... with "NM" and those garments as well.

She wore them well!

I recall boinking not boffing though...maybe thats's the difference when you get "sloppy seconds"...lol

Cheers!

Cheers!

although the cannon still plunders...lol

misfires once and a while after too much rum.

deja vu all over again...

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Cheers!

I shall have CaptainFollowme take us on the
SloopFollowmeB to the GrandFollowme Islands...just Ciara and me.....Wink  Wink

Thank You

I've no time to plan an itinerary and make this exact, so bear with me on the finer details . . .

Spring, Summer or Fall, whenever the weather is most pleasant and dry, a month-long trip backpacking through Europe.  Grap a Europass and take us where our hearts desire.  Make hot, sweaty love in the fields and near the ocean, sneak off in the hostels, maybe do it in an alley-way after a few glasses of wine or pints of beer.  Giggling like kids as we shared a room in a hostel with teenagers.  

Of course, mixing things up would be required.  So, we'd have evening clothes and appropriate toiletries shipped to 5-star hotels along the way where we would stay for a night, being pampered and relaxing from our trek.  Perhaps we would meet up with another fine couple at the pool?  

Topless sunbathing, exquisite food, getting into innocent trouble, sex all the time, absolutely no responsibilities or cell phones.  Sounds lovely, doesn't it?

Kate

Pirates:  A man in black tights with a ruffled-sleeved shirt unbuttoned, thigh-high boots, an earring in one ear, long and curly black hair.

Okay, maybe I'm asking for too much. The boots and shirt will do nicely. Thank you.

Hugs,
ciara

I'm always looking for new ideas.  Best because?

there's nothing like being young, in a foreign country, the window wide open on the train, other people pounding on the bathroom door to get in, the sound of the train as it moves over the tracks while making love -- and some other dirty information I refuse to share. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

alright another parrot head!

Re:Ya know, I really had to use that bathroom. eom

Never trusted the cleanliness of Italian train toilets. But way back, the ride in a 3rd class coach on SNCF night train (the old kind, before the TGV) between Nimes and Geneve with my then girlfriend... Mmmhhhh - students with very, very little money (and no credit cards!!!) - Mmmhhh - the stuff of memories. The phantasy? Doing it again... the same way...

Took one of my ATF's to a classy restaurant with a spectacular oceanview.  Then took a romantic walk down the beach. Went Back to her place for wine and hot passionate lovemaking.  At what I thought was the end of the date, instead of going home, she asked me to spend the night. Have never slept in a more comfortable bed in my life nor with such a beautiful lady.  She woke me up the next morning to make hot passionate love again and then brought me breakfast in bed.  I tried to pay her for the entire night but she declined by saying she just enjoyed being with me. Kissed her goodbye and always try and see her whenever our schedules match.

the toilets are nasty. Thank goodness I didn't need to rest my foot up against it.  The trains going through Austria are the cleanest.

Hugs,
ciara