Is menstral blood dangerous? I saw a provider from one of the better know agencies in Pittsburgh and after having sex when  I got off her...there was blood everywhere. She said she didn't know her period was due. What should I do?

I suggest that you get tested. You should wait about 90 days some STDs take a while before they show up. Last year I spent around 17K on providers and believe it or not I ran into 3 who period started when I saw them. Good luck.

No, I don't mean menstrual incontinence.

I had sex with my wife (now ex) during her period all the time. But if was someone you didn't know and she didn't pay attention to her own body, then I would be pissed.

EDIT: Sorry, I forgot to answer your question.

What should you do? You should be pissed.



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Some women can predict the start of their period with great accuracy (especially if they are on the pill) but not everybody has predictable periods.

It could be that this lady knew she was due but thought she'd cross her fingers and hope to get through the session.  Or her period may have been unexpected.  To have blood everywhere as you describe is certainly not a good thing but it's not necessarily her fault.

when I was around 20yrs old, my periods would come all of a sudden from nothing to full gush....  I would get up from class during college and have my white shorts soaked in the crouch. Sometimes a female would feel bad and lend me her zip up jacket to tie around my waist until I got to my car

contact the girl and tell her to start monitoring the days between...I don't have that problem now but my days are so accurate...most of my clients have my working days on their calendar w/o me telling them

It would not be dangerous if he has a condom on.

Second, I seriously doubt she is unclean.

Most of the professional ladies take good care of themselves.

You should be fine !

CE

Menstrual blood/tissue is as dangerous as any other blood in the body. If you have been in contact with someone's body fluids, you should have appropriate medical care. In this case, testing for any infection caused by contact with the skin (but assuming you did not have broken skin, you shouldn't have to worry about fluid to fluid transfer, or mucus membrane contact). Sexually speaking, that would be herpes(HSV), genital warts(HPV), and molluscum. You're unlikely to see any visible signs of infection from these for several days(herpes) /weeks(molluscum) /months/years(HPV). HSV and HPV are not curable, but both respond to treatment. None of these are life threatening for men, although HSV has been strongly linked to cervical cancer in women.

As for being upset with the provider for getting her menses, that's pointless. She may have suspected she was due, or not. Even if she knew she had her period she may have thought it was under control and wouldn't be an issue. I'm certain she didn't want the experience of "blood everywhere".

Not to hijack this thread, but this is exactly why I use those "INSTEAD" cups, when period time is near. Its not fair to the guy, and its so easy to avoid with simple plastic disposable device. drugstore.com sells them, in case your local drugstore doesn't.

In one of the 3 incidents of periods coming on, a condom did break. Me and the provider did not realize the breakage until I climaxed. We were both in shock. Me for the blood contact and her for the possible semen contact. Not sure what the factors were, possible not enough lube on the condom. I will say the condom was not the trojan brand.

The cups don't always work. I knocked a couple of them out on 2 different providers last year. I am not that long when I start have sex. As the sex continues I get longer and have a tendency to knock those things out. In one instance the provider would not let me put her legs back that for for missionary style. In the other instance the provider could not ride me that well for cowgirl, she later had to stop.

I agree,but why do so many girls choose to work during their period (ie.menstrual cup)without telling their client.I;ve had several not so enjoyable sessions because of this and will never see the girl again. By the way this goes for their agencies if applicable as they know the status of the girls. Would they like us not to inform them of any condition that might be hazardous or less enjoyable for them? Take a few days off or be up front with the clients.

Jee-zuss!!Why would you want that information, and why is it any of your business??? Please let all of us know if there is a legitimate reason for badgering this woman who obviously had a surprise or made a mistake!

Jee-zuss!!Why would you want that information, and why is it any of your business??? Please let all of us know if there is a legitimate reason for badgering this woman who obviously had a surprise or made a mistake!

Hey Balti,
You might need a sense of humor more than you do a session with your ATF

no more dangerous than sharing needles or having unprotected anal sex in prison so I would not worry.

...clean up. If your wife is anything like mine she's gonna start asking questions if you come home covered in blood, lube, whipped cream or anything like that.

And for god's sake, don't forget to take off the condom. I had a close call just last week leaving a lady's incall with the condom still on...

The STD doc says "Always shower after you have sex with a provider". Remember that rule and you will be fine. It also helps if you have a habit of bringing your own towels, wash clothes, soap, etc with you. It develops good hygiene habits.

Make sure you always wash because latex has a odor that women can smell a mile away.

Why do some work during their period? Pretty simple, really. Could you afford 13 or 14 weeks of unpaid vacation a year? Think about that... 3 1/2 months of unemployment a year.

Oh, wait. You're an alias. I don't respond to aliases anymore. Sorry.

-- Modified on 4/23/2006 3:50:19 PM

Menstrual blood isn't more dangerous than other blood, which, per se, is not dangerous in itself at all.  

Chalk it up to an accident, similar to the rubber slipping.  Mark the days around it for next month and avoid her then.

With the 2 providers that I've seen that had unexpected period arrivals, the only discussion was a lighthearted, "I'd rather you not go down for oral" stated by one of the providers (I wasn't planning to, so it was nice that she said it).  Other than that, we fucked like mad.  They both seemed genuinely surprised of the arrival, and both seemed grateful that I was more than happy to continue the session.  I'm sure they probably postponed their remaining appts for the remainder of that day (& the next few days as well).  I'm sure this is an awkward situation for most, and I feel lucky to have been with women who seemed thankful that I was at ease.  To me, a little menstrual blood on the condom is no big deal.  Happens all the time with my wife.  I post this in hopes that others will learn to lighten up.

in the winter, but we did it then just to keep warm... right  or in my office at work... with the secretary...   hummm.... no shower there!  sometimes, ya just can't!  or if ya do, it gets questioned.  

but NOTHING IMHO beats the sexiness of a nice shower to revive interest and fun!  and it is all clean fun too!  

Like my Grandpappy always said "You can wade that red river but never drink from it"

not out camping with a girlfriend. However, I'd still find a way afterward to clean up even if it's in the damn ocean. Of course, I might get sea urchins up my watusie or smell like tuna for a few days. Ooh, Ciara! There you go again.

Hugs,
Ciara

This has happened to me a few times. Your first reaction is to freak out by it is an accident. Providers can't tell the exact time/day it's going to start flowing. Many providers who work for an agency, say they have to work when it's that time of the month. An overcontrolling phonegirl, boss, etc. expects them to work and MOST providers do work during this time. I guess when your rent is due, you gotta work!