I'm thinking that it's taking a back seat to blow jobs, oral servicing and kink. For many. Or perhaps it's just my impression because I tend to attract patrons who are wishing to explore alternative sexuality.

I've also noticed that as well.....it seems most clients that see me are there to see if what they've heard about my oral skills is truth or myth lol or have a titty fetish and my JJ breasts fit that bill.....so it could just be my experience and what i offer....but I think intercouse
Does take a bit of a back seat and a good majority of the time never even happens....or the session involves oral and other kinky pleasures and after they are all worked up they might want to actually fuck a minute to finish after enjoying the other things.....

...but I like to mix it up during a session...massage, oral both ways or 69, or whatever comes to mind in addition to intercourse...

For me there are several reasons why I usually spend most of my time doing oral and other activities before getting to actual penetration and sometimes we never get there.

".....I know that most of my female friends would prefer oral sex to penetration. "

I can only speak for myself but I think part of the reason is that most ladies will do oral bareback. Intercourse is covered. I enjoy a good old fashion fucking , but with the condom on Im not going to finish . It diminishes the feeling. Dont think my age (61) has anything to do with as I have always been like that.Nothing better than skin on skin. Again just my 2 cents.

Not to sound like a pig, but intercourse is intercourse.  I think that kink is a big factor, I started off in search of or chasing something that I had never experienced before, porn star looks or physical attributes to my liking.  I have yet to find that provider that has knocked my socks off in terms off intercourse alone; so I often look for something extra via the menu/service department such as outfit requests, heels worn, role-play, as well as the overall atmosphere of the session.  Idk if it is growing older or not, but I hate the mechanical and welcome the unconventional. With most 10/10 reviews it comes down to the energy being put out on both parts.

That there are a lot of guys like myself who have difficulty or simply cannot maintain an erection with a condom on. I have had two ladies who have brought me to completion with a hat on, but for the longest time I simply couldn't maintain more than just a few minutes. I knew that it was a mental issue and evidently the I'm getting over it, but it took a while. I don't have an ego problem, but many guys do and so if they lose their erection they feel less of a man for it, so they know they can maintain and finish with bbbj and so that is what they choose to do.

good ole' fashioned fucking is the meal.

But as far as I'm concerned, intercourse will always be on my menu.  Massage and oral are good foreplay (especially going down on a woman before penetration; in my experience, it increases her chance of orgasm), but intercourse is always the main event.  In several different positions, if possible.

I've had guys who can't keep an erection with a cover, ED, or they are vaginally loyal to their wife. And would rather just do oral, it's all acceptable. Fun too if the provider knows what she's doing

And I love to give it!!!  I was given some invaluable constructive criticism about giving head in my twenties and it has evolved into kind of "my thing" and I own it baby!  If my guy likes to only be orally serviced I hit my knees but I do also enjoy jumping on for a ride!

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I love to fuck, and if I do not get a good fucking in a session I feel unfulfilled, even though I came orally.

two ladies that are really into each other, and I am in heaven.

In my civie life, I found few ladies who were both interested in and skilled at delivering on oral.  Mainly due to some of the ladies I mingled with and partially my generation.  So I was never that into BJs and than I began to hobby...  I have learned just how good it can be.  As others have commented I find the bare-back aspect is MUCH more pleasurable than covered.  But is intercourse dead - no way.  Certainly not for me!!!  Many reviews refer to it as the main event!

Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not for me.  
I like to be the fucker and get the oral as an intro.  
Have never been a passive player or into kink.

Damn, I think I love you... Lol

LMAO,  awesome! !!!

But nothing compares to slow,  steamy,  passionate,  erotic,  AMAZING sex including oral for two and a good fuck that feels oh so right.  Awright I  made myself horny again so I gotta go.  Is it May yet?    Where's my Viking?!?!

And put me on your mailing list.

But since I can't get it up anymore, I'm gonna have to lick your pussy the whole hour.

Contrary to most, I'm not really into receiving oral. I enjoy giving it, but that more because I want to please my partner, and I am a giver.

...I love intercourse (and DATY...and BBBJ....and kissing....and greek....and cuddling...and, well, you get the picture).

Today my client was more into breast worship than anything. He did get off with Russian but he wasn't interested in Intercourse at all. He was infatuated with my boobs and played with them the whole hour.

...be pampered like kings. I guess it depends on how the guy is feeling during that specific session.  

Of course we love blowjobs. For me I like a lot of foreplay. My pleasing her orally whether it's daty or kissing her all over. And I like the same back. I can last longer. Once intercourse starts, I'm usually done quicker than just having a lot of of oral fun. Also with intercourse after I cum I would want to cuddle, clean up an cuddle again and fall asleep together but I've not done an overnight like i would do with a civvie. There's more to it for me but can really explain it here.

Delaney sound like my kind of girl!!

I agree, Savannah...vanilla missionary can still be a mind-blowing experience.  And I love it when the ladies wrap their legs around me like they're never going to let go; then I know I'm doing it right!

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I fully agree Erin!! . Tried and true SENSUAL sex is what its all about. That is never obsolete.