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Boris993 21 Reviews 1848 reads
posted
1 / 16

Example. I had 2 spread out appointments with a very local, part time (had a day job) provider (probably 8 months in between appts). She's very hot and although I never reviewed her, she would be a a 8/9....possibly an 8/10. She hasn't been reviewed since 2010, however both times I saw her were after that. Her website is inactive and she has an ad on a site, pretty known for leaving ads up in perpetuity. Our appointments were all about mutual respect.... I treated her well & she offered extras, above her menu at no $$ mark up and refused to let me leave before I came more than once. Great sessions.

Sent her an email in May & Aug of this year, asking if she remembered me & if she wanted to get together again. No reply either time. Her phone #, however is still active....clearly her on the voicemail. She may have de-activated her email...IDK

Question: Would you let it pass, move on & assume that she is in a different stage of her life? Would you leave a coded voicemail or how would you play it?

She's really hot... a GREAT provider, fair rates and lives in the next town over....i.e super-convenient. I definitely don't want to cross a line or put her in a position to explain something she didn't want to , if she did move on. And I would also love to see her again if she were still entertaining.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 458 reads
posted
2 / 16

She saw that you called and did not respond to your e-mail.
Rude on her part as to not at least explain why since you formed such a great relationship.

No reviews since 2010 is also a clue she has moved on to a different profession
no doubt nursing.

Boris993 21 Reviews 380 reads
posted
3 / 16

Good pick ... she was in the medical "field" although not a nurse.... I did call from a blocked #, did not leave a message & assuming by protocol that she wouldn't pick up. I basically wanted to see if it the VM was her, a dude or a generic auto-response. If I had received either of the last 2, Move on is the right choice, obviously... But it was her. Leading me to believe, who uses their personal cell for providing?

Again...I saw her at least 1.5 yrs after her last review on my first appt. Low volume? She switched to PT when she could fit it in for a great paying PT, side-hustle? W/E....IDK

And in case ya'll wanna label me as a stalker, It's the only time in 3 yrs I've called her phone , other than to get the room number for a scheduled appt.. So not the case at all.

-- Modified on 10/26/2013 10:34:23 AM

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 323 reads
posted
4 / 16

If she isn't  Navajo what makes you think she would understand a coded voice mail ?  
   Did you leave a message on her voice mail ?
If you didn't , is  there a reason you won't leave a  message in English , with the name she  
knows you by ?  
 I prefer the telephone , I always leave a  message , if I don't receive a call back ,   I  move on .
   
If she gave you more time and extra menu without a tip , maybe you didn't give her what she was  looking for ?
 Perhaps  she married her favorite  John , and kept her number active for  GF's only  .

   
   
Posted By: Boris993
 
 Example. I had 2 spread out appointments with a very local, part time (had a day job) provider (probably 8 months in between appts). She's very hot and although I never reviewed her, she would be a a 8/9....possibly an 8/10. She hasn't been reviewed since 2010, however both times I saw her were after that. Her website is inactive and she has an ad on a site, pretty known for leaving ads up in perpetuity. Our appointments were all about mutual respect.... I treated her well & she offered extras, above her menu at no $$ mark up and refused to let me leave before I came more than once. Great sessions.  
   
 Sent her an email in May & Aug of this year, asking if she remembered me & if she wanted to get together again. No reply either time. Her phone #, however is still active....clearly her on the voicemail. She may have de-activated her email...IDK  
   
 Question: Would you let it pass, move on & assume that she is in a different stage of her life? Would you leave a coded voicemail or how would you play it?  
   
 She's really hot... a GREAT provider, fair rates and lives in the next town over....i.e super-convenient. I definitely don't want to cross a line or put her in a position to explain something she didn't want to , if she did move on. And I would also love to see her again if she were still entertaining.

Boris993 21 Reviews 371 reads
posted
5 / 16

lol. I called to see if the # was live & if it was her's. I do speak English, with a working knowledge of Gaelic & Spanish... But you been around long enough to understand "Coded" not to blow one's spot up.... When you meet a woman at a bar do you break out into acronyms like BBBJNQNS? I know you know.  

But point taken... leave a message & wait...no response = no interest....Got it

The Navajo Chart wasn't necessary.... but funny..;)    

-- Modified on 10/26/2013 11:02:23 AM

lungman 10 Reviews 435 reads
posted
6 / 16
Boris993 21 Reviews 323 reads
posted
7 / 16

She went down again....I said we didn't have have enough time. Told her I didn't bring any extra $$ and didn't want to take advantage of her time.... more than once, told her I didn't want her to feel uncomfortable. She was persistent.... GREAT provider..

Maybe to Quad's point it wasn't about a tip, but the repeat business before 8 months passed....IDK

-- Modified on 10/26/2013 12:07:26 PM

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 311 reads
posted
8 / 16

...your emails went into her spam folder and she didn't check it before they disappeared.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 300 reads
posted
9 / 16

If she does not respond after that, she is not interested...at this time, anyway. Let her make the next move. When I take time off, I generally have it on the first line of my auto response and my P411 in all caps, so guys know not to bother at that time, but I still provide references if someone needs one.  

Posted By: Boris993
 
 Example. I had 2 spread out appointments with a very local, part time (had a day job) provider (probably 8 months in between appts). She's very hot and although I never reviewed her, she would be a a 8/9....possibly an 8/10. She hasn't been reviewed since 2010, however both times I saw her were after that. Her website is inactive and she has an ad on a site, pretty known for leaving ads up in perpetuity. Our appointments were all about mutual respect.... I treated her well & she offered extras, above her menu at no $$ mark up and refused to let me leave before I came more than once. Great sessions.  
   
 Sent her an email in May & Aug of this year, asking if she remembered me & if she wanted to get together again. No reply either time. Her phone #, however is still active....clearly her on the voicemail. She may have de-activated her email...IDK  
   
 Question: Would you let it pass, move on & assume that she is in a different stage of her life? Would you leave a coded voicemail or how would you play it?  
   
 She's really hot... a GREAT provider, fair rates and lives in the next town over....i.e super-convenient. I definitely don't want to cross a line or put her in a position to explain something she didn't want to , if she did move on. And I would also love to see her again if she were still entertaining.

harborview 10 Reviews 317 reads
posted
10 / 16

Get a hobby phone.  In your next message, tell her it's your new private line.  No need to block it.  Many gals know us mainly by our numbers.  I would try again, then move on.
OK to circle back periodically but do not stalk.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 365 reads
posted
11 / 16

my number. As others have said, some providers know hobbyists by the phone #. Also, leave specific call back information when you leave your message; something like, "OK to call me between 5 and 7 pm."

whitneywilcoxx See my TER Reviews 253 reads
posted
12 / 16

I think you're putting way too much thought into it. If she's that part time, I doubt she's checking her emails daily or even weekly.  Just because a provider doesn't reply to every email you send, it doesn't mean she's rude either. Sometimes things get lost in the shuffle.  You can imagine how many emails a girl gets when she puts semi nude pictures on the internet.

If you're calling her number and it's still active, cool. It doesn't mean she's ignoring you. Maybe her bat phone is in her drawer until she needs it and she's not looking at that every day either.

Reach out when you feel like it, and if she's available in that time frame, she'll get back with you.  No big deal. No pressure on either side.  Don't think everything is personal.  

There are probably more than several other guys contacting her in the same manner with the same frequency as you.  Perhaps you can grab her attention in some appreciative way that makes you stand out from the other guys trying to grab her extremely part time attention.

Just a few possibilities I cooked up from my limited knowledge and experience. Not the gospel.

Cheers.

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anonymousfun 6 Reviews 355 reads
posted
14 / 16

What is the matter with you people? This is P4P and both parties have freedom to move on. Some providers decides to hang it up after while for many personal reasons. Occurs very often.

sexymarafouru See my TER Reviews 299 reads
posted
15 / 16
mrfisher 115 Reviews 325 reads
posted
16 / 16

It kind of sucks, but there's not much that can be done about it.

There are myriads of reasons why it could happen, and you'll never know for sure what it was.

So, move on, ever on.

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