questions for the ladies.---  since condoms are  not 100% failure proof, just wondering what other methods do you use for birth control  (iud, diaphragm, pill etc )  ??

I was wondering the same thing for a while what happens if. Condom breaks I would hope they were on a back up like birth control

is that most will either not respond or will tell you to MYOB.  It's a pretty personal question.

I suspect that most of us ARE on some other form of birth control (I am), but they / we don't want to talk to you about it.

This is also because we may be concerned that you are making it a 'gateway' question to a BBFS request.

Yeah, I know you are going to say you are just curious but it's a very personal question to ask any woman.  

I've never quite understood why guys will ask questions on this board that they wouldn't have the balls to ask in a million years IRL...

I am surprised at the replies so far. Everyone seems to be saying that "It's none of the OP's business." Or that he is asking questions on a board that "He would have the nerve to ask in real life."

Given that he might actually be having sex with a provider, and that if he did get her pregnant he would be financially responsible, why it it such a reach as to ask about what happens if the condom fails? In the past I have heard many providers on this board say they hate hormonal birth control and don't use anything except the condom, because condoms never break "when used correctly." I would think a guy would want to know that his future is tied to a single sheet of latex...

Personally I had a vas, so I don't have to worry...

If he is asking because he is truly afraid of knocking up a provider then he should not hobby. Even if the condom pops and a provider gets pregnant, he can't make her not keep it. If this is truly his fear, wouldn't he ask this of every provider he sees or is at least interested and since it is a personal question, how many providers would be willing to give up that information? I would like to think he is asking out of curiosity and not a concern on if he will be someone's baby daddy.

I highly doubt any girl would keep the baby. I assume abortion Would be #1 on
everyone's list. Then again, people are nuts and there never are any guarantees

" It's a pretty personal question"   how can it be more personal than the fact that we just sucked and fucked each other for the last hour ??  this is a situation that could have life long ramifications, so what is wrong with knowing the odds ??

I also do not allow a client to finish in the condom...has to be in my mouth. If he has an issue with it, don't see me.

In Tijuana, Mexico, many escorts seem to get pregnant very frequently and I have heard that hobbyists sometimes are the fathers. Because of the church and its morals, women rarely are on birth control and abortion is illegal.

However, in Mexico the burden is on the unmarried woman since there is no effective child support system. Women are solely financially responsible for the children they deliver into this world. Many young Mexican guys go around "romancing the women" until they get the woman pregnant. Then, they are out of the woman's life and the goal is to find a new lady to romance as the cycle repeats itself. This is the culture down there!

In Thailand where bbfs is very common, I was a little to drunk to pull out of one of my date's vagina on time before ejaculating inside of her. She did ask me to pull out since she was not on birth control. Afterwards, I walked with here to the pharmacy where I purchased a "morning after pill" for her for $10. I did not want to father a child in Thailand that I would not know.

I then gave her a $100 tip for her trouble even though the date was $25 including hotel. I am not a bad guy.

I would not object to cumming in your mouth instead of a condom.