Women: why sell your body?
Men: why pay for sex?
other alternatives are not NSA, no questions asked and require the expenditure of time and effort.. in my younger days I had more time and effort available than money and spent it freely, in my twilight years, I have more money available than time and effort....
Yea, it is simple. Pussy is a commodity, like orange juice, gold and pork bellies. It's bought and sold everyday. Why do I pay escorts...I like the finest things in life, including attractive young ladies who like to fu*k.
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I love spending time with different women.
I love sex.
I am NOT looking for a relationship.
So I pay them to leave
Men: why pay for sex?
For women, "money" is not a valid answer since there are other professions available; for men, "not enough sex" is not a valid answer since there are other alternatives to prostitution.
2. I love beautiful young women
3. I'm too old to pick up beautiful young women
4. I don't want emotional baggage
5. I want a blow job (or whatever) when I want it, not when the woman feels like it
"money" and "not enough sex" are both perfectly valid answers to the question.
There are many other professions available but working at Burger King four or five shifts a week for minimum wage doesn't pay the same as escorting. Neither do many other jobs nor do they offer the freedom to work when you want and for as long as you want that escorting does.
As far as the man's argument goes, sure there are ways to get laid for free but maybe we would rather pay $300 to spend an hour with a beautiful woman of our choice-with no strings attached-rather than get involved in a bar hook-up with some psycho-bitch who we decide after a one night stand that we never want to see again but she won't go away?
This question with the "other than the money" caveat comes up every few months and it's BS! Just accept the fact that escorting is great money and that's the primary reason why women do it.
to be totally honest, the women aren't selling their bodies. they are selling their time.
i dont' walk out of the door at the end of the transactoin with her body under my arm. i didn't buy her body. at the very most, maybe you could say i rented it, but i have never even with that parameter had carte blanche to do to a woman's body what i wanted without her permission first.
it's better to say she is negotiating her interaction with you.
and it's ridiculous to say you can't include getting a paycheck as a reason for having a job.
That is one of he best ways I've seen this concept articulated. So many men talk about interactions with providers as if they were buying a lawn mower. But unless they actually haul her home and park her in the garage, they have not purchased a wiget.
If she does end up in the garage...well....
And, very few of us would be doing what we do for work, without the paycheck.
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This is very true. It is my time you are paying for. My body just comes with it for the fun ride!!!! 
Boy is it a fun ride!
When I was 18, I had my first sugar daddy. His favorite movie was pretty woman, he told me that if he was a woman he would be driving a mercedes benz. And that always stuck with me. So I figure, I am a freak who likes sex all the time. So why not make a good living, at something I enjoy. I also look at it like, I wont have my looks and body forever, so I might as well make money off it while I can.
Exactly! the only reason I escort is because it helps pay my college tuition and it does it quickly! their is no other reason.
I tried marriage, and I'm still paying for it.
Dating bars? Who need them?
The hobby is efficient and the most fun, by far. Safer too.
It takes much more time to find something free compared to paying for it. You also know what you are getting if you are seeing a reviewed provider. A provider is more likely to be std clean compared to a civie that you pick up from a bar.
Chloroform and duct tape.
Could have saved a lot of money all this time! 
You can only do that so long until Bubba becomes your boyfriend..........
there are two professions I've seen of women who escort on the side as well
Nurses & Lawyers - seriously.
both types loved to fuck, and for 2-3 nights a week they'd pick up $500 to $1500 a week - and HAVE SEX while doing it
how a woman can handle 8-10 (or 20!) guys a week I have no idea - hence the shelf life of 3-5 years in a lot of cases
as to why guys do it, don't konw why, we are just encouraging women to hold us hostage for $$
The first time was on a whim. I'm a go with the flow kinda guy. If a lady messages me and the conversation went well enough I'm up for new experiences. The second one, was too good of a deal to pass up. Two hours, for less than what an hour would cost in my hometown. Wanted to find out how long I would last out of those 2 hours. If a third time comes along, it would be for a unique experience, a girl with a long tongue, or one who craves anal, or a porn star.
Men: why pay for sex?
For women, "money" is not a valid answer since there are other professions available; for men, "not enough sex" is not a valid answer since there are other alternatives to prostitution.
However it is for me and I have another form of employment at the Piggly Wiggly. What with just a GED and all.
Or are you after answers like:
1. I hate men and this is my way to get back at them
2. I have no self esteem so I let men use my body as a come dumpster for a fee
3. I love the power over men and sex is a great way to exert it
4. I am a sex crazed addict and can't get enough cock
5. I was abused and this is all I deserve
Sometime it is just for the extra spending money or to pay of student loans(not in my case, lol) or because dating sucks and getting paid to have mediocre sex is better than giving it away.
In my quest for sexual variety, I have a couple of currencies to spend - time or money. I don't really have an excess of either one, but I am more protective of my time (and my freedom, as well) than I am with my money.
Also, having been a hobbyist for more years than I can count, I have really grown to appreciate the unique smile that a provider gives when I open my hotel room door to her knock. Words can't describe it!
At the end of the session you both know that things are over. It is alot easier seeing an escort than a civie to cut things off if you don't want the see the escort again versus a civie.
If you don't feel like spending the money at the time or have the time or/energy you can put off seeing an escort. Versus in real life, a civie will demand your time, wake you up at 400 am in the morning to talk about mindless stupid stuff. An escort will wake up and want another round of sex so you can go back to sleep.
Are you suffering from some level of burn-out, or did you tally up all that you spent over those 33 experiences? Or did you suddenly find God and now must be subtly sanctimonious and judgmental?
I heard once you see 34.... I'm on a quest and hope to make that "Bucket List" someday.
Men: why pay for sex?
I'll bet you go to restaurants sometimes instead of cooking at home all the time, right?
Or sometimes you go traveling and sleep at a hotel instead of your house.
It's all a matter of how much money you want to exchange for convenience or opportunity
Women: why sell your body?
Money without a 8 to 5 commitment
Men: why pay for sex?
There is no such thing as free sex..
I'm too Old And Ugly to meet Women the Traditional Way. At least Paying for Sex ensures that I'll have Sex and spend some time with a Woman who would otherwise ignore me.
I've heard it before in this thread, and the truth is that I've never been good with women anyway. I REALLY want to be with incredibly beautiful women. I'm never going to get a girl I really find attractive unless I pay for it.
Life is too short to skip the things you really want to do. While I'm still alive, I'm going to enjoy myself as safely as I can.
The answer is obvious. We all want women who wouldn't give us the time of day without money. For those who are good looking and do well with women, I don't really understand why they would pay to have sex with a girl they COULD get for free. But since I know I won't, I save up and find the girls I want and pay them to make me happy.
I'm a complete Newbie to all this, but here is where I a coming from:
I've come to realize that there are certain sexual experiences that I want to have. Things I want to do & try. And its very clear I will never get these things at home. I'm hoping this Hobby gives me those experiences. And in a much safer environment than just trying to pick up random women wherever I can find them.
Plus...helping some young beautiful woman pay for college!? That is just a noble way to spend my money!
Why pay? Why not? Its a hell of alot less effort and less risk -at least for us married guys- than having an affair with a woman who may end up being crazy and ruin your marriage etc. Plus you can decide when to end it whenever you want and also get to pick which women you want to play with.As for the women I imagine it is mostly about money and freedom to do what they want. And most like sex alot anyways and why not get paid to do something they like instead of giving it away for a meal and a few drinks etc..
For me I get bored when I travel, and it's nice to have somebody to spend time with that is more attractive and somewhat more interesting than my colleagues. I don't need more sex...I get plenty of that at home, but the fact that these companions all seem to offer it as part of the package...well I'm not exactly going to say no...that would be rude :
and one that is underpraised - "the EDGE"
Gonna have sex, first there is the research (if you do it right). You build the anticipation looking for a lady who catches your imagination and the variety?! Oh my there is such variety available Young old: Asian, White, Black, Lation and all kinds of mixtures; blond, red brown or black hair; big tits to no tits; pierced (and where the piercing is) or not; anal or no anal; no kissing to swallowing a load! its all there!
Next you set up the meeting - anyone else think doing a "clandestine deal?" Getting the money... etc.
Then you go to the arranged meeting... parking, wondering if anyone is watching... as you walk into the building (hotel, apartment, house etc). gettting to the door.... knocking....
Its a wonder that some of us don't die of a heart attack with all that edgy excitement...
As to the ladies - the anticipation - some men just sound sexy over the phone, are they in real life? Opening the door and finding a true treasure (looks, the way he makes you feel, how he treats you like a lady, etc.
Not to mention some men do take the time to squire a lady around the town.... when I have done so, that was always rewarded many times over....
and there is always the guarantee that when it is over, no matter how good, bad or just boring time either party had, it is over and you just walk away - no hard feelings...
Yea, for me it is "the edge"
I monger here, where your discription of all the "hobby" entails is a rather accurate one, but I also monger abroad where there is nothing clandestine at all about it. It's simply a matter of going (or staying) at a place that has working girls, finding one you like, negotiating a price (yes "negotiate" is not a bad word anywhere but the US) and then go have a great time. Nothing "edgy" or clandestine about it, but I love it every bit as much. probably more.
just did not find them attractive and yea, they do negotiate... which I think is why they set the going rates they do. oh well,
And gagambler, there is still an edge, like getting caught by your work buddies, or some lill' ole church lady from your home town who knows your relatives...... still edgy
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I went to the brothel in Nevada because it was legal and as safe as it probably can get (which, in the end, made it less than satisfactory). The two girls I was with were very attractive, but nowhere near as gorgeous as the provider I"m seeing now.
I'm sure the high rates are due to the high overhead. Sheri's Ranch is a nice place, with all sorts of amenities that no doubt were costly. I really got a laugh when I saw the Budweiser theme room. I wonder how your average Bud drinker would react if he/she knew that Budweiser sponsored a room in a brothel where the girls and guys can get it on? ;
I am much too lazy to lie, even my mother knows, and she is "facebook family" or some such shit with an ex provider GF that I still see on occasion. I don't know exactly what it's called as I don't face book, never have, never will.
BTW I think a lot of us here could learn from my mother, unlike many of our supposedly "open minded" members here, my mother doesnt' judge. Don't you wish our sanctimonious bretheren could say the same?
With my Dad, about the pussy I had and
With my ex when she threatened to tell my Mom that I liked porn and getting laid (well to women other than the ex Ms. Dude). I told her, go ahead and tell her, by the way, she knows. settled her down pretty quick.... no stick to hold over me.
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