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Behind closed doors (BCD), or private time (e)
WickedBrut 27 Reviews 1741 reads
posted
1 / 29
What's the discreet, respectful, direct term for the thing itself?

I've never paid much attention to this until recently, but how do people generally refer to the actual thing of getting together?

One provider was talking about arranging a "meeting" and for several email exchanges I thought she was talking about wanting to meet me, say at a coffeehouse, for a brief interview before agreeing to seeing me for a "session."

Another referred to us setting up a "date," and that was fine, but if I had approached her using that word she probably would have thought I was talking about an OTC outing.

Trying to be both respectful and discreet, I often wonder if, "setting up a  session," isn't a little to obvious--a notch below, "Want to get together and fuck me for some money?"

In their ads, the word "rendezvous" appears a lot. Is that the preferred term?

I often say that I would like to "visit" for X hours at a set time. Then I use that as a noun when referring to "our visit," but that sounds strange if repeated more than once in an email, so I usually interchange it with some of these other terms.

So...:
Arrangement
Date
Meeting
Session
Rendezvous
Get together
Visit

I'm sure there must be others.

What do you call it or prefer your partner, potential client, potential provider to call it?

beccablossoms See my TER Reviews 378 reads
posted
2 / 29
It's all the same to me...

Call it whatever you want, I know what you're asking for :)  I've used all those terms with the same meeting.  

By the way, I sell time, I do not "fuck for money"...that could get a lady in trouble!!

VOO-doo 211 reads
posted
3 / 29
Behind closed doors (BCD), or private time (e)


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sailor66 14 Reviews 224 reads
posted
4 / 29
Appointment or session. eom


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NaomiGrey See my TER Reviews 220 reads
posted
5 / 29
I call them dates but if you're contacting a provider.

Of course you're not contacting her for otc, it's a date! ;) p4p

mrfisher 115 Reviews 229 reads
posted
6 / 29
In philosophy class we called it the "dinge-an-sich"....

but don't try that out on your leibchen unless you want to bratwurst to be schnitzelled.

 
I think I use session mostly, but sometimes date.  I never had a gal misunderstand my intentions, so don't sweat it too much.

Often in fact I just say:  "Can we get together?"  So, maybe "get-together" would be a good expression

Cardinal_Richelieu 2 Reviews 120 reads
posted
7 / 29
Appointment EOM


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Greenbacks2 31 Reviews 167 reads
posted
8 / 29
Playdate EOM


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Gypsy2184 See my TER Reviews 163 reads
posted
9 / 29
Appointment or date usually....eom

Posted By: WickedBrut
 
 I've never paid much attention to this until recently, but how do people generally refer to the actual thing of getting together?  
   
 One provider was talking about arranging a "meeting" and for several email exchanges I thought she was talking about wanting to meet me, say at a coffeehouse, for a brief interview before agreeing to seeing me for a "session."  
   
 Another referred to us setting up a "date," and that was fine, but if I had approached her using that word she probably would have thought I was talking about an OTC outing.  
   
 Trying to be both respectful and discreet, I often wonder if, "setting up a  session," isn't a little to obvious--a notch below, "Want to get together and fuck me for some money?"  
   
 In their ads, the word "rendezvous" appears a lot. Is that the preferred term?  
   
 I often say that I would like to "visit" for X hours at a set time. Then I use that as a noun when referring to "our visit," but that sounds strange if repeated more than once in an email, so I usually interchange it with some of these other terms.  
   
 So...:  
 Arrangement  
 Date  
 Meeting  
 Session  
 Rendezvous  
 Get together  
 Visit  
   
 I'm sure there must be others.  
   
 What do you call it or prefer your partner, potential client, potential provider to call it?

russbbj 89 Reviews 106 reads
posted
10 / 29
My preference, session...eom


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bonordonor 170 reads
posted
11 / 29
I usually ask if they are available, but

I know some ask "Are you free". If I was a provider, the answer would always be "No! But I'm available." lol

LaurenAvery See my TER Reviews 149 reads
posted
12 / 29
It depends on the tone of correspondence. -eom


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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 188 reads
posted
13 / 29
Yes, I've used, "Are you available?" That's actually the smartest I think. eom


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BigPapasan 3 Reviews 148 reads
posted
14 / 29
In anatomy class, we called it mrfisher's little dingus. (E)


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mojojo 1 Reviews 155 reads
posted
15 / 29
All of the above, but

I always use the word session. To me it sounds like I'm meeting with a psychiatric analyst. In fact, I can't tell you how many times my psychiatric persona has been helped by a TER session. Who needs an analyst when you ladies are much more intuitive as to what we gentlemen need to stay mentally healthy.

MasterZen 34 Reviews 270 reads
posted
16 / 29
In an initial communication, I'll ask to....

meet. In subsequent communications, I usually refer to our "date".

cspatz 68 Reviews 110 reads
posted
17 / 29
Appointment(e)


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OnlyLiveTwice 27 Reviews 103 reads
posted
18 / 29
Appointment? -e


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mrfisher 115 Reviews 179 reads
posted
19 / 29
I'd like to get filled in on that. I think I'm owed some royalties. eom


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emsjhs2009 120 reads
posted
20 / 29
Booty call for pay


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nothrofboston 24 Reviews 159 reads
posted
21 / 29
Does little dings = small royalty check? e

Posted By: mrfisher

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 182 reads
posted
22 / 29
riding the magic dragon - eom -

eom!

Afro-desiac 180 reads
posted
23 / 29
Riding the Baloney Pony. eom


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Afro-desiac 115 reads
posted
24 / 29
Hot, squirting fuck-a-thon is OK too. eom


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SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 191 reads
posted
25 / 29
Engagement, meeting, get together, rendezvous E


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Annalise_Canada See my TER Reviews 110 reads
posted
26 / 29
Re: I usually ask if they are available, but

My reply to "are you free" is always, "never free and sometimes available"

90% of the time, the gent. laughs and moves on to his inquiry
Posted By: bonordonor
I know some ask "Are you free". If I was a provider, the answer would always be "No! But I'm available." lol

mrfisher 115 Reviews 130 reads
posted
27 / 29
Nice dings come in small packages. eom


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nothrofboston 24 Reviews 144 reads
posted
28 / 29
I've heard that ...

and have met several of the female variety.  

Posted By: mrfisher

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 174 reads
posted
29 / 29
Be polite tell escorts about paid appointments.

Posted By: WickedBrut
 
 I've never paid much attention to this until recently, but how do people generally refer to the actual thing of getting together?  
   
 One provider was talking about arranging a "meeting" and for several email exchanges I thought she was talking about wanting to meet me, say at a coffeehouse, for a brief interview before agreeing to seeing me for a "session."  
   
 Another referred to us setting up a "date," and that was fine, but if I had approached her using that word she probably would have thought I was talking about an OTC outing.  
   
 Trying to be both respectful and discreet, I often wonder if, "setting up a  session," isn't a little to obvious--a notch below, "Want to get together and fuck me for some money?"  
   
 In their ads, the word "rendezvous" appears a lot. Is that the preferred term?  
   
 I often say that I would like to "visit" for X hours at a set time. Then I use that as a noun when referring to "our visit," but that sounds strange if repeated more than once in an email, so I usually interchange it with some of these other terms.  
   
 So...:  
 Arrangement  
 Date  
 Meeting  
 Session  
 Rendezvous  
 Get together  
 Visit  
   
 I'm sure there must be others.  
   
 What do you call it or prefer your partner, potential client, potential provider to call it?

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