I've never paid much attention to this until recently, but how do people generally refer to the actual thing of getting together?  
   
 One provider was talking about arranging a "meeting" and for several email exchanges I thought she was talking about wanting to meet me, say at a coffeehouse, for a brief interview before agreeing to seeing me for a "session."  
   
 Another referred to us setting up a "date," and that was fine, but if I had approached her using that word she probably would have thought I was talking about an OTC outing.  
   
 Trying to be both respectful and discreet, I often wonder if, "setting up a  session," isn't a little to obvious--a notch below, "Want to get together and fuck me for some money?"  
   
 In their ads, the word "rendezvous" appears a lot. Is that the preferred term?  
   
 I often say that I would like to "visit" for X hours at a set time. Then I use that as a noun when referring to "our visit," but that sounds strange if repeated more than once in an email, so I usually interchange it with some of these other terms.  
   
 So...:  
 Arrangement  
 Date  
 Meeting  
 Session  
 Rendezvous  
 Get together  
 Visit  
   
 I'm sure there must be others.  
   
 What do you call it or prefer your partner, potential client, potential provider to call it?

 
 I've never paid much attention to this until recently, but how do people generally refer to the actual thing of getting together?  
   
 One provider was talking about arranging a "meeting" and for several email exchanges I thought she was talking about wanting to meet me, say at a coffeehouse, for a brief interview before agreeing to seeing me for a "session."  
   
 Another referred to us setting up a "date," and that was fine, but if I had approached her using that word she probably would have thought I was talking about an OTC outing.  
   
 Trying to be both respectful and discreet, I often wonder if, "setting up a  session," isn't a little to obvious--a notch below, "Want to get together and fuck me for some money?"  
   
 In their ads, the word "rendezvous" appears a lot. Is that the preferred term?  
   
 I often say that I would like to "visit" for X hours at a set time. Then I use that as a noun when referring to "our visit," but that sounds strange if repeated more than once in an email, so I usually interchange it with some of these other terms.  
   
 So...:  
 Arrangement  
 Date  
 Meeting  
 Session  
 Rendezvous  
 Get together  
 Visit  
   
 I'm sure there must be others.  
   
 What do you call it or prefer your partner, potential client, potential provider to call it?