No thigh highs or lacey gloves.

Completely naked is great.  Don't need to bother with the lollypop and bobby socks.

I am the guy who likes to shake his Christmas presents and guess what is in them.  Same with my lady friends----they can wear street clothes.  I love to imagine what is or isn't under them.  Then I love to undress my "present".

Stiletto heels can do some damage unless some very well chorelographed action with a very skilled dom is taking place.

Actually I don't usually wear stockings & garters unless requested, and usually that request comes with "keep them on please", so I don't have to worry about whether or not to keep them on! Win-win.

- thigh-high boots and a waist chain...that's all

- a men's Oxford shirt, candles, Sade and a glass of coppola Claret (in my fantasy, it's MY shirt, and I'm coming home from work).  Thigh-high boots might work here, too.

Lace and thigh highs... I have a lot of fun taking things off and throwing them all over the place. For me it's the foreplay involved while doing this that has led to the most memorable times...

when they're serving no other purpose except to make you look hot when you're on your back with your feet in the air.

a lingerie shop that took a direct hit.  But leave the heels on please and poke me in the ass with them.