I had an escort recently visit me in a hotel room. This was my first particular encounter with this provider.  She collected her donation to start off with and then we spoke for ten minutes.  All was fine until I asked her to strip.  I always ask providers to do this for me because I am afraid of LE.  She was quite upset over this request, but she reluctantly removed her clothes.  My question is was I wrong to ask her to strip for me?

Depends how you asked and the tone you used. Asking her to do a striptease is a lot different from ordering her to take off her clothes.

she'll be more comfortable if you get nekkid first. Especially if it's your first time together. It's the whole LE fear thing.

Its best when you set up an apointment,
to discuss exactly what you have on your mind...
What Your interested in & What You expect,
When the 2 of you...get together for your Private Interlude...This way both parties feel more comfortable & at ease with each other.
Experience is The Best Teacher..
Good Luck To All Of us!!

I think it is a little uncomfortable more likely than something that offended her.  If you are really more comfortable if she strips, next time bring music, slow and sexy - most people don't have a problem keeping time with the famous Joe Cocker - You can leave your hat on...

I have guys ask me to strip quite a bit, so I usually bring music with me... that way I have something to dance to, otherwise, it just feels like I am getting naked... alone...boohoo!!

xoxox

ANik

As stated above, much depends on the tone.  If somebody 'told' me to get my clothes off I'd be offended and worried.  If they said it would be great if I did, then that's a bit different.  It's possible your tone could have put the provider off.

In any situation, a provider is there to give the gentleman she sees (and hopefully herself a fun time, she's not there to be ordered around.  

Hi Carrie,
The next time I'm in London it would make me very happy if you would take off your clothes in my hotel room. (Seriously---I may be in London in May or June----will definitely call you---)

Are you under the impression that if a girl strips she is not LE?  I don't think that's a good assumption.  
Likewise it is not smart for a provider to think that if a client strips he is not LE.

But anyway... what happened next, after she reluctantly stripped?


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you have to remember, (we also have thoughts in our heads that you might be l.e.)
You should have told her before hand. That is a very uncomforable situation for a provider.

Try and think a little before acting...on each end, the provider and the client should attempt to make the other one feel safe and comfortable.

Shaye

when meeting a provider for the first time i always ask- should we get confortable? if the answer is yes, i will give her a kiss,if no reply-i will ask for a massage,if the answer is yes, i'll start stripping. if the answer is no-i need to find out why-and what are we doing here.maybe dancing,modeling,fashion show.could be the LE.