My ATF told me someone once sucked on hers so hard it gave her a tear where the bottom front of the tongue attaches to the floor of her mouth.

I love kissing- it's such a passionate, intimate, playful and fun activity, not to mention it can be a huge turn-on. *However,* I'd say 1/3 of the men I see need a refresher course on what constitutes good kissing.

1.) Please don't aggressively stick your tongue down my throat the second we begin making out- it's disconcerting and makes me uncomfortable.
2.) No lizard tongues! Darting your tongue in and out of my mouth is just plain weird... save that for DATY.
3.) Making out is soooo much better when it begins slowly and tentatively, without tongue at first, perhaps playfully biting and sucking on each others' lips.
4.) #3 is not fun when done for a prolonged period of time.
5.) When we start french kissing, let your tongue touch the tip of mine a few times, but don't ram it into my mouth.
6.) As things get going and tongue gets involved, be playful! Suck on my tongue for a second and let me do the same.
7.) Please don't pretend that your tongue is a windshield wiper on the roof of my mouth.
8.) I'd rather you open your eyes than drool on my face. Slobbering is not sexy.

Thanks for reading- I hope this results in better quality kissing for all!!

Mention that we should all brush, floss and use some good strong breath freshener before we start.

Also lay off garlic and onions to the greatest extent you can.  Those have odors that reside in the blood stream and are released in the lungs, so no matter how well you scrub your mouth, they can still make your breath objectionable.

Most providers only offer light kissing.  I met a stripper two years ago (it was a club that had private booths) that literally taught me how to kiss just as you are describing here. I loved it !  I convinced her to see me once as a provider, it was a horrible experience, but I would see her again if see was still worked at that club to get more kissing lessons, but she's gone for good.

Send me a pm, if you are within 100 miles of me, or close to places I travel, I would definitely like to see you.

Now you see why I don't kiss.

Many men don't really know how to kiss..I didn't say all...it just ruins the mood. It became such a turnoff to me that I just stopped kissing altogether.

Soft sweet gentle kissing develops a mood.