After watching report after report on the news about young men (often 19-23 years old) doing horrific crimes, I can't help but wonder if these guys were simply getting laid, would this make them less pissed off at the world?

he had a harem of young women and still went bonkers and killed a bunch of folks

Or glorify any names that definitely don't deserve it, but don't you think that in general, the psychos who commit atrocious crimes against people they don't even know were *probably* not involved with ANY women in any sexual way/shape/form?

Sex is not a cure all, but it sure helps. But the ones that go BSC has a lot of mental problems. I don't think they can have a boy friend / girl friend relationship ( unless the SO is also BSC ). So with your premise, should we get all the BSC young adults a provider session regularly. But what provider would see them? Most providers have min age of 40 or 30, no?  

Testosterone needs an outlet and will find one in either sex or aggression (or both).  

Maybe some girls will lighten up on their age limits based on this or other replies.  Or maybe not.  I don't know.

No, sex will not fix shit lol. If people who got laid all the time were actually happier, you would never see a pissed off provider. That's about as nuts as suggesting sex can make you lose weight more than hitting the stairs (real stairs) five days a week... again, you would never see a provider over 100 lbs. lol.  

Actually I would guess that most people's first time was nothing like they expected.

Though it is a valid point. It is just not factual.

I was really just wanting to explore this subject because I notice there are patterns of the types of guys doing some of the worst stuff, and 1) they're never women and 2) they never seem to give off that "He's hot/doable" vibe.

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Sex - really good sex - can fix many things, but it can't fix crazy.  At least not permanently.

Some can be REALLY nasty with the thins they back channel.

There are women running away from the west and joining ISIS to marry ISIS men and it is not stopping them.  

I feel like that kind of thinking reinforces the damaging, misogynistic idea of male entitlement.  "Gee if women would just give these men what they want, we wouldn't have any problems."  

Exactly

I truly hadn't formed any certain opinion of whether there's any cause/effect or correlation btwn no sex as a young man and violence/radical/psych behavior.  I just wanted to explore this because id never heard this spoken of, but have thought it.  The media, for example, often asks, "What makes these young men snap?" and there's never much of an explanation.

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I can't see any appeal of wanting a guy who's pissed off all the time, every day, 24/7/365 but maybe someone does...???

Disagree.  For example, Elliot Rodgers (the 22 year-old sociopath who went on a killing spree in Isla Vista last year) could probably be considered conventionally attractive by a lot of people.  And much of his motivation was to "punish" the type of woman that he felt rejected by. I don't know that hotness or "doable-ness" has too much to do with it. If you want to dig into what goes into the creation of a serial, spree, or mass murderer in this country, you really need to explore things like race, privilege, and mental health.  But that's a whooooooole different can of worms lol.

Are you in there on the initial questioning of some 19-23 y/o kid who shoots up the place?  I don't recall the news sources discussing if some guy had sex a day (or week) before going on a shooting spree.  And how about all the young women getting recruited by ISIS to come and blow themselves up for the greater good.  Are those young women sex starved too?
 

Oh! I wasn't saying that that was YOUR thinking lol.  Just that when people do try and equate a lack of sex with that kind of sociopathic behavior, they're giving credit to the idea that men are entitled to sex because not fulfilling that need can be dangerous.  There's a lot to unpack here, but I'm not about to go down that rabbit hole lol. Either way, interesting topic

I heard there's a school shooting every 2 weeks in the states, like that is crazy. I think the real cause is just not enough socialization and money. Thing with BSC is if you somehow meet the demands of BSC they might just make up new demands to further justify their behavior.

Pretty near getting the same kind of release/pleasure from it. Just a guess.

Maybe it is precisely because these dudes have so much problems with sex (physical, mental, social... sexual disability) to start with that they became frustrated lonely world haters? and not the other way around...

but I'm afraid for the vast majority it comes down to parents being parents, and good parenting skills. I hear all the time, "I want to be my child's friend" or "don't do that, buddy". A parent is not their children's friend, they are their parent.  

Does pyscho behavior repel women, or does lack of women cause men to become pyscho?  Not a real question exactly but a thought...

childhood, but I don't think it's permissive parenting. Rather, I think it's abusive parenting. Sociopathy is often caused by traumatic events in early childhood- often even before children are able to remember. Reactive attachment disorder is fairly common in institutionalized children (kids stuck in the foster system), and is according to many irreversible.

for sure- not necessarily sex, but definitely love.

grow up to be serial killers...see #3:
http://www.crimemuseum.org/blog/9-early-warning-signs-for-serial-killers-2

But I think women also need men.  Straight men.  Who else would change our flat tire and carry our heavy ass bags?  And kill bugs.  Men are good with bugs.

I'm talking target practice.  Little vermin.  Pigeons and rodents.

I think it has more to do with rage against women. For whatever reason be it an strong or overbearing mother, or constant rejection by women they feel they deserve to be with.

Our relationship is still bad, lets have a baby. Maybe another baby will fix it."  

And women don't care about sex.  Meaning, if we get it, awesome!  If not, we're not going to go on a shooting rampage.

Sex is the question.

attentive and caring partner. Not some gross, heavy handed, unclean slob whose idea of foreplay is "are you awake?"

Oops, wait a second. I see a LOT of hot women with low life losers who are anything but "attentive or caring"  

Killing for joy, yeah, something wrong with that. Those two little shits are vermin...let me have a shot and I do not want to use a bb gun.

You either don't know any BSC hookers or your definition of "angry" must be a LOT different from the rest of us.

That it amazes me there aren't more lesbians, or at least more bi women, than there are. The human female body is a masterpiece, it's remarkable that with all other animal species it's the male that is most beautiful and ours the female is most beautiful. I often think that it's because the human female is the most beautiful, that this is the reason insecure males (Muslims and other religious zealots) oppress women and force them into a mental state of second class citizenship.  

I shall stick to just my POV, because clearly some women need help.

Does it stop gang violence?  You dont think the guys running those gangs are knee deep in pussy?

BS that is. You got it right the first time. The worst thing that those parents instilled in their children is that they somehow have a right and/or power to kill for entertainment and pleasure.