Most of the responses gave examples with a civie as their hottest experience, so what has been better for you?  

I've been lucky enough to have some absolutely incredible experiences with a provider, but some great ones in the civie world as well.  

Most of the experiences in the post below, were outdoors or in a place where you could have been caught. One of my favorites was outside during a complete blackout after a storm. So for you, was it the person you were with, the place you were at, or both?

M

So my hottest experiances have been with the ladies here. Stupid me got married pretty young, so this had become my way of regaining my lost youth!! When I first got married the SO and I would always do the deed in the swimming pool of whatever hotels we stayed in while on vacation. The thought of getting caught was pretty cool.

Some girl I met at a church sleepover thing. Think I was 16 my buddy conned me into going to this all night church youth thing. I ended up screwing his ex girlfriend in an empty Sunday School room. That was pretty fucked up. He forgave me later on though. He still liked her and I said "dude now you know what a slut she is, you don't want that, see I saved you some trouble later on". I actually introduced him to his wife later on so I made up for it, they've been married 10 years or so so it all worked out. And no never tried it out for him she's not my type (she's kind of ugly).

Lol, not a loser.

So your hottest has been with providers, but outside with your SO is right up there.

So would it be over the top with a provider outside in a pool?

MM

close to forty and now that I've thought about it haven't had much civie sex with women in their 30's. So I would say the hottest sex has been with the 30 something providers I've been with. Don't know if its an age or experience thing but man, they rock. Hottest places have been in the civie world, younger women seem more adventurous plus I've only seen providers on an incall/outcall basis. I can't see transitioning from "Nice room, to, I know of a great spot in public." I would think that would creep out most ladies. Especially if they look in the trunk and see the shovel and lye.(KIDDING)

the best times seem to be with two PEOPLE who care about one another. Combine that with a strong dose of passion/desire and a "naughty" place, then presto - really hot things can happen.  

I believe that with providers and clients, one or another ingredient of that recipe is often missing, held back or not possible... so while it may be really, really good - it isn't the BEST or MOST memorable experience

women, and yes I'm making a 'general' statement for our gender is typically in knowing someone on a deeper level. Clearly women are different than men in all aspects of life which draws us ultimately together, that's just science...but my conclusion would be that a 'hot' experience, I mean truly hot is always with someone with a connection on a level that reaches deeper than any surface experience, emotionally and spiritually most importantly.  

Now on the flip side, that level can ultimately be achieved in many different ways especially with the way technology is these days and prior to meeting physically face to face....the internet plays a part in foreplay for the most part and can push the stereotypes of judging the 'physical' aside to reach the spiritual being in each of us and reach that part of us inside that will allow us to have a 'hot' time with ultimately a complete stranger.

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I wasn't going to say who I was with lol, but yea that time and several others are some great memories.  

MM

well, wife and I stayed a resort in Bahamas, and had a balcony overlooking the ocean, pool, and hot tub. The last night, therea a steady stream of couples in the hot tub. One coupless would get in, do the ded, and leave. A few min later another would get in...   Prob saw a half dozen couples do this....We were laughing about it

Bingo! The best for me was when my (now ex-) wife looked hot, we loved each other, had sex all the time, and liked trying different things (and places).

I can see having really hot sex with a provider, but only after I get to know her a bit. I never enjoyed one-night stands with civvies, and that's what one-time sessions with providers have been like.

I remeber doing it on a beach, after dark, walking path 20-30 feet away, with people passing by...pretty sure we were seen...

Hottest with a civvie, tripping my balls off at a nudist beach just north of Santa Cruz, California, and doing it front of a bonfire circa 1975.

Hottest time with a provdider, doing it in the surf in Cartagena Colombia, stoned out of our gourds with a little paisa from Medellin about three years ago.

I can't honestly say which was hotter, they were both so different and I was at such different points in my life, the one was at age 15 the other I was about 50.

years ago on a red eye from LA to NY with a gf.  It's a toss up as to what was more exciting, doing on on the plane or being with the gf.

I'll give you a nickel if you drink a shot glass of water from that hot tub.

That's the type of answer I was looking for. Both were awesome for you but on different levels.  

It still seems like the SO experiences are in the lead.

M

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Does getting a blowjob count? If so I'm there, had not had sex on a plane yet, but it looks like I will be going to Italy pretty soon lol

MM

College,  madly in love, going at it one day and somehow found myself with my tongue in her ass and she's moaning like crazy.  A few minutes later anal sex commenced.  Not sure I've had a peak like that since.

Well, I had way more sex when I was married than when I wasn't. And the ex- was six years older and was horny almost all of the time...

I spent 2 weeks in Vegas one weekend....enough said.

Most of the truly hot experiences, like my first threesomes were spontaneous events with almost total strangers.

I guess a lot of you guys missed out on the "Free Love" of the 60's/70's/80's. I was too young in the 60's, but the 70's/80's were great. Too bad youth is wasted on the young. lol

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out of maybe 12 experiences.  The problem is, they were both very short lived.

Also remember this was back in the mid 1970s, when no one had heard of AIDS, so everything was BB.

The first was a nurse who had me fuck her after putting some cocaine inside her vagina.  She decided later she couldn't date a guy who drove a van.  (Yes, it's true.  I was a van guy for a while.)

The second was a lesbian if you can believe that.  She wanted me to give her a massage, and afterwards got horny and wanted to fuck.  But, she wasn't on the pill, so would anal be OK?  (Um, yes.)  She decided a week later that my blood didn't taste like hers, so that was that.  (WTF!)

The rest were pretty much plain vanilla, and varied from OK to necrophilia.

On the whole, the hobby is much more satisfying.  There's no BB or cocaine, but at least I know I can drive a van and don't have to worry about what my blood tastes like.

I've spent some time in Quito Ecuador which is easily two miles high, and a lot of time in Bogota which is just under two miles high. I am guessing you were either in Bolivia or Peru to be at "three miles high"

I am also a member of the traditional "Mile high club" but never with a provider, and never on a commercial flight. Back in my "casino days" almost all of the casinos would come and pick me up to entice me to give them my action. I have lost track of the civvie GF's I've fucked during those trips.

My "three mile high" experience was with a client at the Condor's Nest (at 18.200 ft) on a climb of Illimani (21,200 ft) in Bolivia.  She was hot and made herself very available.  

 
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why is it that I barely notice that I am "at altitude" when in the Andes, in places like Bogota or Quito? but I can feel it when in the Rockies in a place that's only half the altitude like in Denver?

I can run up and down the hills in the Andes with no problem, but a few years ago in Denver I was huffing a puffing a half mile into a morning jog.

That's one reason why Denali is as nearly as difficult an altitude challenge as Everest.  Well, that plus the fact that it can be a particularly cold mountain.  

Nothing wrong with having a serious side as well as a playful side.  It's the childishness on this board that can sometimes become tiresome.  

Cocaine in the vagina...how has that not been in a movie?!?!

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experiences (not my ex bf)  

I would say ok  

#1 This REALLY hot man I met at a bat in Waikiki back in 2003..  
We went to his room, started the make out on the patio, and yes then oral/sex and others on their patios could see us  

We moved into the room, doors wide open and we were in every position, hard, pounding sex...  
I was (once again a LOUD screamer/moaner) and the security came up and then asked us to  keep it down lol  

but man it was great sex!  

 
#2 A good client/friend and I decided to fulfill his bi-sexual fantasy. We were good friends and hung out OTC a lot back in 2003. I was dating a guy who was also bi curious... so we all got together.. and yes it was super hot!  

#3 the same guy, a gal friend and I and another of her guy friends went to the old POWER EXCHANGE in SF and we basically went from space to space and the 4 of us put on shows... no one was joining but allowed to watch  

#4 Went to a Swingers house party in EASTBAY, and was with a client, he was eh but towards the end of the night, this back and white couple come in... I am not generally attracted to black men, but his dick was huge, and I was horny. SO I joined, and he fucked all my screams out.. The room quickly drew a crowd, and sadly I had to go just when 2 younger latin women came, and they were begging me to stay lol  

#5 I was dating a married man in my civvie days, worked at a insurance office. HE was picking me up at lunch, we went to a park, I wore a sundress, no panties, and we went behind a tree, about 30 feet from walk way and I bent over from waist down and he fucked me right there... i had to be more quiet, people were walking by  

#6 another trip to the old Power Exchange, a client wanted me to take a random guy to a corner/hidden room. Found one with a window... he watched in window, and I blew this guy lol  

#7I was fucking this REALLY hot electrical engineer college guy back in my DAVIS days, and man he was hot! He had a huge cock, and actually HURT so good lol  
I went to his apt one night and he lived with a roommate in a loft, so as we were fucking, cute but not as hot guy comes in and joins us!  

#8 Went to a rent to own place, and was getting furniture way back like 17 yrs ago lol  
the manager, he was so sexy and cute, he wanted me to get the exact something in th back, so I reached up in my short skirt on purpose... the flirting was heavy! lol  

I asked if HE PERSONALLY would deliver the furniture that night and put it together...he did, and after the bed was up, we fucked! lol  
I ended up on and off seeing him for the next few years...  

 

I am sure I have more, but these are the first few I think of lol