You see, beautiful women have an endless choice of men. For every beautiful woman, they know at least ten or more quality guys who want to sleep with them.
So, even once you’ve slept with a beautiful woman there is a fool proof way  that  allows you to KEEP her around even while you IGNORE her as you seduce other women!
There’s only ONE way to keep a beautiful woman who has unlimited choice with men welcoming you  back to you again and again without fail.
There’s ONE way to keep a beautiful woman from straying and make her madly addicted to you.
And that’s to be the most incredible lover she’s ever had – to have a MONOPOLY over her pleasure that no other man can give her.
Holding a monopoly over her pleasure, she’ll have no one else to turn to for it, and you can charge whatever price you like. In other words, you can set the terms of the relationship and yet hold confidence that she’ll always welcome you  back for more.
And a large part of being THAT incredible lover is in how you TALK to her.
Common courtesy gentleman, common courtesy.
This will take you a long way.

You can be the best she's ever had, but that won't stop her from wondering if the sexy, younger, dark-haired gardener isn't just a tad better.

And if Pandora wonders what's in the box, eventually she'll open it.

She’ll open the box, however there is no guarantee that the grass is greener on the other side. LOL!
I am thankful to the forces that be,  for there are those out there who know how to treat a lady! LOL!

and never ever talk condescendingly or act superior to them.

I have been rewarded more in my life for my ability to talk and be supportive than anything else would have achieved for me.

At the same time...
You cant be clingy
you cant be intrusive
you have to be generous
you have to be around only when SHE wants you around.
you only have sex when she wants to have sex.
Never say anything negative about her friends.
you cant call her 10x a day/
you cant email her 10x a day
..so in all this..

Have fun LOL

is to listen. So few men really listen to or care what a women feels.

It depends on the relationship described. Is it a boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship? Is it a fuck buddy? Is it marriage?

Sex is a big part of a relationship. That's true. If you're just casually dating, then I agree somewhat with Jayla. If it's a fuck buddy, then I definitely agree with Jayla. If it's marriage, I disagree.

Staying with someone -- even with they are sick, get angry occasionally and forget things -- takes a true commitment. That's a true relationship. Relationships take work, and physical beauty fades over time. It's inner beauty that counts in the end.

Hugs,
Ciara

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WTF was that?  

Was it supposed to be deep?  I'm unclear about what was said

Was it to be nice to the ladies?  I think we all get that.

BTW THE WHOLE POINT OF THIS BOARD IS NON-EXCLUSIVE Carnal Activity, so talking about how to make a partner want you alone forever really belongs on a Promise Keepers site!

-- Modified on 8/11/2006 12:50:32 PM

then why don't you post your X-rays?

Sorry for the lame-ass joke.  

I wish I could. One time I got an X-ray and my tailbone looked like a tampon. I still crack up over that one.  Hey! You know what they say about houses. It must be the same for people. "She's got good bones!"

Hugs,
Ciara

And to think I thought you wuved me for my brains. I'm sooooo disappointed.

Hugs,
Ciara

Since it is highly unlikely that we will meet- I guess I do "wuve" you for your personality- at least as much as comes through on the board.

I'll try to be less disappointing...

-- Modified on 8/11/2006 8:28:56 PM