ladies would prefer to be with a man  

Yea ofc, providers know what men want and what to say or not say to keep the guy happy. Smarter than your average girl in this area.  

but I would keep him/her in the dark and never tell them ever. Could cause a situation later on where i could be outed to family and friends.

Yes, but that does not mean it would be easy.  I don't know about you all but when I've been in a relationship or married and we would cum together the closeness would go through the roof and we would be living on a different frequency heard only by dogs and lovers for days.  

Do you really feel a provider could fall for a client?

I'm no Whoremonger, most of them hate me
Enlighten me.

Sometimes it's just a Captain Save-A-Hoe guy...sometimes a gal needs some "temporary" help...and even sometimes it might last longer than 6 months.

"Hey hun, learn anything intreresting?"

with a woman who loved and wanted to live with me.  

You have seen Les Miserables.
It your time soon...
Can you feel it

Caitlyn, I am just wondering what are the types of personalities that you tend to attract and are they secure with themselves much less with you?  Also are they able to compartmentalize their feeling by separating what you do from who you are? Those are questions that you need to ask before you disclose your line of work.  That might give you an idea of how they will react to it and what might go on next. It is a double edged sword that could come back to bite you if you do go on to share property or procreate with this person.

the dept transitional assistance will pay for child care while i go work at afood service job for 9 bucks an hour, I will HAVE to still do a few calls per week to make rent BUT.

for it,  

I'd never date anyone without telling them what I do. Almost every time it has cost me the relationship, so I can understand why some ladies choose not to tell their significant other, especially if this is a temp career for them.

I always dated in this job...

It was so cool to scroll through and read so many posts of men/clients who are open to dating women in the industry. Those of you who know me, know that my deepest desire is to manifest my beloved and to create an amazing and exciting life together. Vanilla dating has not gotten me the results I seek, and I hold this fantasy that at some point I'll meet an amazing man as a client where deeper emotions will sprout and then I would not have to navigate the awkward conversation of telling him about my passion around this line of work. Just knowing that there are so many hobbyists open to dating a woman like myself and building something deeper really brightens my day.
Thanks Guys for giving me some more hope

i most certainly could...however, if I were much much younger, just starting out in life and wanting to have a family, etc., then no.  But at 62 I would love a part-time, live-in, with a provider.  I see it as a win-win situation...
1) Two people who care about each other get to be together
2) She would have little to no (ok no) home expenses or responsibilities
3) I would have the love and intimacy I desire
4) She can fulfill her desires that I can't.

My thing is time waits for nobody in life.

she makes her living her way, I make mine my way, no arguments

I also retired recently from the adult industry provider and now being a regular employee with 9 to 5 job / office work using my college degree.  
I got to tell you that the transition from adult work to regular employment is not easy.
 I had to lie on my resume pretending that for the last 7 years I worked regular jobs.
 I just couldn't get a regular job if I wouldn't lie that I had continue employment while in college.  
And yes I am also looking for isolation and staying away from men. It is kind of impossible thing to do because I am still married. I was always married during the times I did adult work and constantly have to lie my husband saying that I am just a dominatrix! I came close to arrest, came close to being aggressed by strange men and my husband never know what is going on!  
And Angel you should complain! You have the right to complain! Despite the fact this is the men's world, women got to break through government's biro racy, get into congress or other powerful position, modify the law about adult work, speaking up and get their rights and respect back despite their discriminated gender! If nobody do nothing about adult worker rights for safety , dignity, health, and respect all these women that are being trafficked by violent pimps will go from bad to worse, their mental and physical health will deteriorate, their arrest records will get also worse with no chance for future employment and retirement money .  
This society is led by men who will continue to ignore this subculture (adult workers) and continue to treat us like meat/ pizza/Chinese food easy to order on short notice!
 It makes me so mad! No wonder why I retired! No more waiting by the phone either ready to shower and shave as fast as military people would rushed by their drill sergeants! Lousy living!
 I have so much peace of mind now since I am an office lady! I have my own office! Pretty cool!

Can you fill "us" in how no prospective employer did a reference check on the jobs you didn't have?

And I am pretty sure she is Ridgetucky.  Or maybe Udo.

I think it could work with the right woman. I only have about a year and a half of experience in the hobby so far, but it seems like I have learned a lot in that time. I have also gotten to know one provider pretty well and that is what has changed my mind. She is an intelligent, considerate, generous, down-to-earth woman first and an outstanding provider second.  

for free, toss him a some sex and bjs time to time, then escort and blow money and just veg and shop and work out and live this stress free sleep when i want anytime, not worry bout money.

part of the equation was always havin to leave my ocean front living situation, I always chose my lifestyyle over the guy.

that is what  I make in one hour or less, but thats what my check would be after a 40 hour work week. ha!

game."

I am who I am and I am not changing it!