I wouldn’t have booked anyone like that in the first place. However if I did. I would go through with the appointment. The girl set aside time for you. You made the choice to book with no reviews and photos. Be a gentleman and take the L.
With most providers having no or blurred pictures (and no reviews), we trust and book the appointments. When we meet in person during the appointment, what should we do if the looks are like 3 or 4? This happened to me few times and I just had to go through the session. Any suggestions?
"Any suggestions?" Yes, see a reviewed Provider.
I understand the thrill of the hunt and trying someone new. However, I read too many reviews by gentlemen who have had a terrible experience with a Provider either because of looks or performance. Not only because, like your situation-no reviews, but there are many Providers who have multiple negative reviews and the Mongers angst could have been prevented if they only READ her reviews before seeing her.
My Cardinal rule is to see reviewed Providers so I know what to expect going into a session and avoid disappointment. Once in a while I'll see a non-reviewed Provider either because I love her pictures and profile which has intrigued me but more so because I live in an area that is a Provider desert. I usually have to drive 2 to 2 1/2 hours for my fun time. So if I am incredibly horny, I will see a local, usually to my disappointment.
However, it is gentlemen like you who TOFTT that help many others avoid making the same mistake, as long as you write a review.
"...providers having no or blurred pictures (and no reviews), we trust and book the appointments."
So you're saying you book with providers with blurred pics and no reviews, but you still book them? Then, they aren't as attractive as you had expected?
I think the old joke applies here: I told my doctor it hurts when I do this, and he said don't do that.
I don't understand why anyone on TER would book a none reviewed provider. 🤯Why? You can pay for a VIP membership and read the reviews. You have access to the top 100 list & and utilize TER to your advantage.
Anyone who wants to see my face can subscribe to my VIP OF. I post 100% raw, nude & unedited content. I think this is why I don't get bad energy. All my bookings have the opportunity to see my pretty face. I share all of myself XXX rated it's my fun zone!
Sorry it's raining 🌧️ & I have not had my coffee. ☕️ I made grammar errors. Spank me. 😈Please & thank you.
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If everyone followed your instructions, no new girls could ever get reviewed/verified. We need TOFTT guys badly and I commend them for taking the risk for the rest of us. I have done it on a very few occasions and I was nervous as hell. Lol. Luckily they worked out for me.
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That said, clients who don’t do any due diligence or do the bare minimal have to be prepared for the consequences. No photos, no reviews, etc come with extra risk. Once you commit to a woman knowing those risks, I think bailing out on the date after the door opens is bad form.
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If the guy doesn’t want to go through with the date at that point, fine, but give the girl the money you agreed to and chalk it up to a lesson learned imo. Others disagree and I get that pov too.
I agree that we have to venture outside the known universe of providers, i.e. those reviewed here on TER, from time to time. Otherwise, we would never meet wonderful new ladies looking to develop a following, or who may be looking to stay UTR. Nor would we keep the roster healthy when a lady retires or moves away. So I treat the "No reviews, no playtime" advice as helpful guidance rather than a hard and fast rule.
Thank you! I was certainly grateful that some gentlemen were willing to take a chance on me when I started. I set my prices accordingly, i.e., low enough to encourage TOFTT, and made it clear in those ads that this was a new-girl special pricing.
Best believe the clients who took a chance with me early on were extremely pleased that they had done so. 😇
For reasons mentioned, go through with the session.
But, also please post a review, so that others here can benefit from your experience.
I wouldn’t have booked anyone like that in the first place. However if I did. I would go through with the appointment. The girl set aside time for you. You made the choice to book with no reviews and photos. Be a gentleman and take the L.
At the very least, the OP should pay the provider; she did nothing wrong.
She blurs her face and the client didn't like what he saw when he went to the appointment and gave her a negative review.
I think he did the proper thing by creating a review of his experience but the provider was upset and made a bigher deal out of it than what was necessary in my belief.
The obvious has already been pointed out, which is don’t see providers without reviews. But if we are being honest, if everyone did this, those with reviews would dry up and age out. Someone has to give noobs a chance. I understand not everyone wants to be the one to take a chance, but I also appreciate those who do.
Personally, I look for certain things when considering an unreviewed escort. Does she have a professional website? Are her ads well written and with details? Is she active on social media? When I do reverse image searches does anything concerning, like ads in multiple cities and/or ones with different names show up? No reviews does not mean do no homework.
And let’s say I do everything and I show up to feeling I was catfished. I leave. She lied. I have no obligation to follow through. And, if you’re saying the only thing off is her face and she didn’t lie, well then that’s something you should have asked for up front. Either a picture or for her to at least state that you will not be disappointed.
....should stick to well reviewed because it's safe territory. I think that most veteran clients can navigate a vague or new ad if they keep their common sense in the mix. I have many times and learned many lessons figuring this game out.
If you do your homework and get it wrong, you have to own it. These days, when I take a chance it usually works out. But sometimes they're so convincingly good, I get it wrong. It's part of the game. If you cannot swallow this pill, then you shouldn't be taking chances with unreviewed ladies.
If it was a true misrepresentation, you are not obligated to continue. If you left a deposit, that's your loss. If not, drop a $50 bill and say sorry.
If you gave her PII, that's another story. You'll have to rely on FDAU and a good imagination.
But it will only work for those that are not giving their personal information to secure the appointment. However, in the email exchange to book, I tell them that if their appearance is not what is represented on their website, I reserve the right to walk away, and if they think there is a possibility that will happen, we should talk about it now.
You are free to leave. I have had one leave in my many years of doing this but that was because he thought I was a cop 😆.
pictures?
or did you mistype that?
did you mean fake pictures? i have seen that. one provider i wantrd to book had several pics from an instagram model
I assumed OP meant no face photos 🤔
As a companion, I allow reviews for your comfort level, not mine. So see every intriguing lady within your vicinity who has great reviews first before venturing for the unknown. OP, if curiosity gets the best of you then at the very least stick to duration you booked and follow through with full donation. If attraction isn’t there, you could play a card game, watch a movie together, and guess what, you could also leave early..lol the time booked is yours. Integrity counts so still honor the donation for that lady. Kisses
As a companion, I allow reviews for your comfort level, not mine.
Jena's advice above is right - stay for the duration.
Pre-pandemic, I saw a provider who blurred her face. When she showed up on ,y doorstep, well....let's say her face was not physically attractive. I went ahead with the session.
She was fantastic. Service queen. Great body. Blew me away. Girlfriend material. Became my ATF.
What's that saying about books and covers?
I've always blurred my face. Purely for discretion only. It would be to your advantage to choose reputable, verifiable providers and also read reviews. You also have an opportunity to contact the reviewer for more clarity regarding specifics around looks. Best of luck! xo
You get a surprise. Congratulations. So what? It's all in the game.
Is paying money to have sex with people you don't really want to have sex with, part of the fun here?
What's there to congratulate him for? Sounds like a miserable customer experience.