How many of you gents here have successfully hobbied in strip clubs and convinced the girl to go with you?? I've only been successful twice and the thrill of the hunt is exhilarating!!

The reason I asked is bc I've seen a good number of providers who used to be strippers so its bound to happen more often as they told me their first time in the hobby was thru a Hobbyist who visited their SC.

"How many of you gents here have successfully hobbied in strip clubs and convinced the girl to go with you?? I've only been successful twice and the thrill of the hunt is exhilarating!!"


  Only the smart strippers become providers.
If you think  paying strippers for sex is a exhilarating hunt, you must be dumber than the strippers who give it away to customers for free.

I have not been on that hunt, but I have had the saem thought.

My only success was with a stripper who just sat next to me at a club one night and wouldn't leave. She didn't talk much or bother me really, she just sat there after I told here I was not looking for a table dance.

After a while she said, "wanna go up to vip? I'll pay for the fees." I said why not. It ended up being the hottest most erotic foreplay session (no sex) I have ever had, including providers.

She was obviously in the mood RIGHT FREAKIN THEN, and I was her target. She met me in the parking lot and got my number. We've been out since then. No cash exchanged.

Taking a lady home was a rarity, but every once in a while, luck was favorable.  From 1991 - 2004, that happened with seven ladies...three of whom I saw multiple times thereafter.  Now, I seldom go to the shakers, as hobbying has replaced that aspect of my life.  But, it was fun.  If you are enjoying the thrill of chase, all I can say, it wasn't a chase for me.  It was opportunity knocks...answer the door when it does!

For a few years I was a 'regular' at the old 'Crazy Horse Too' on Industrial in Vegas before the Feds took it for taxes.   Sunday afternoon would find me at the bar with a friend and a good cigar.  I 'partied' with two women outside the club.  

One was hotter than lava and selective and ... well... lets not go there.  But I've never regretted the couple of mortgage payments I spent on her!!  

The other was a chick who had some bizarre scam in mind that didn't pay off despite two very unsatisfying evenings at her place.  In fact the only reason I went back for a second was that I simply couldn't believe that a stripper could be such a bad fuck!!  Well, she was!  I never figured out exactly what angle she was trying to work on me but whatever it was, it didn't work.

In all that time at the Horse, I was only overtly propositioned by two other women... well... three if you count the 'Russian Fuck' in the VIP Lounge.  Most of the girls I figured had a price tag but it was more than I could or was willing to pay and they sensed it I think.  Mostly they were looking for tourists, or as they would call them, 'a fish'.  I was there regularly and they knew I wasn't.

For the record, in my opinion, there are a significant number of 'dancers' who do NOT whore on the side.  Lots do no doubt, but you can't assume so just because she smells of Brasso!

Not sure I even have a point here.... just musing over the past.

MVR  

I guess its easy for you big city guys to frown on Strippers and the effort/time it takes as you have many quality provider to chose from like a buffet line! Myself being from a smaller town, we don't really have many providers and most that are my taste are about 2 hrs drive away (one way) with the except of a few traveling providers every now and then.. So I guess for me, SC's is of more value as a 4 hr round trip drive plus 1 hr appt time is really hard to frequently find an excuse for!

I have had some successes in and out of the club. I think what I found more interesting was how far she would go to get memo stay. I'm pretty clear that things need to escalate with time if I'm going to pay for the dances.

With the one gal I took home, we would use her migrator on her and me in the club, lick her pussy and get in some BJ before we'd go.

The gal in a Thailand hotel "dance club" where they gave lap dances in individual rooms wasn't working and I think either had a few or was corny as hell. She was so wet (when we started) I couldn't believe it.

The weirdest one was the gal who would make dates with guys to get them to take her and her friends out clubbing. As soon as I came to pick her up I knew her scam. We got to the club and started a tab. After a while I got up "to pee" and paid for my drinks and left. I went back to her strip club the next night and was getting private dances from another girl. If looks could kill I wouldn't be here today.

I have had several times I have met up with dancers either right after or seoperayly, some funds exchanged hands, others not. My best success came from being a good friend of one dancer and several of the dancers thought I was a sugar daddy and they could win me over. Unfortunatly for them I wasn't, but I enjoyed their trying.

I burned out on the stripper scene by my late twenties. Hooked up with a few as civvies and had some extreme private dances, but never thought about off premise P4P back then. Currently I read a strip club board on another site where the guys sometimes discuss "take out" experiences. According to them dancer's tend to inflate the value of their time outside the club, at least compared to regular providers on Eros, etc. I'd be interested to hear what you guys think of that. It's a local board so maybe things are different elsewhere. Or maybe those posters are just jerks.

stripclub booty is expensive.  I rather take it for free.

Don't have lots of current 1st hand experience but listening to guys brag about their "take out" experiences I have to smile internally; they do seem to pay more for less as a rule.

having seen this first hand, I agree unless they have other reasons, they are a lot more. Part of it is this is not what most regularly do. The one thing for this situation is that you and her may be atleast a little more familair with the other person. You know what they look like and they know what you look like.

Before I hobboed, I would stop in local clubs once in awhile for a lap dance. One time I stopped in and found a neighbor dancing, she was HOT!!! We kept this a secret (her dancing) and she suggested we get together for a fuck buddy session, who was I to argue. Quite a hot time, she loved doggie. This lasted just a few times then she moved.

Typically for me, In the short run it was typically cheaper as I would pay 100 - 200 for all you can get fun, with the girl staying overnite once.. So if you count the current session only it would be cheaper.

Now if you count new numerous nites to the Strip to obtain increased comfort levels with the girls and the money spent on drinks, tipping, and dances on those nights + failed experiences with other girls; then its probably more pricy!

But good part is, you can always call up those girls who would give you outside p4p for more cheap sessions!!!

I've had a few "successes" at strip clubs.  Yes, the chase is exhilarating.  Some of the girls use the club as a way slectively build a clientelle. Had a fullservice experience experience upstairs at Penthouse.  I think I was the right guy at the right time and she was needing it...now!  Took her out to dinner then back to my hotel a couple of time afterwards.  

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I've had all kinds of sex in VIP rooms of valley strip clubs.  I like it just for the very reason of it's a little hard to come by.  And, BTW, expensive.  Maybe $600 per session.  But some of the cutest young girls have agreed to do me furtively behind the curtain, and it's a rush.

I've done it a few times. Of course it's expensive, they wind you up to a point where you'll do anything just to get it and then stop, it's the ultimate tease. That having been said, here's a rule i've found helpful: if you're a regular and you've tried three times with the lady to no avail, move on. They need a comfort level with you, but when they have seen you in the club a few times and know that you're not LE, if they drag it out then they have no intentions of going home with you. I had a great find in CT once, saw her regularly for six months. Blonde, hot and loved sex. Other experiences not so good. Be carful if she is friendly with the seediest guys there, it could be a set-up. Overall, I'd prefer escorts. Much more dependable and easier to verify.

Most of the girls that do proposition the customer, and many feel safe in the club. Not to many will meet you after hours, even if they say they will. I have only known one to actually show up. The session was not all that great though.

YMMV.