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Asking about unlisted providers
themostfunone 3 Reviews 569 reads
posted
1 / 12

Found a Tryst ad for a gorgeous provider with pro photos and a high end website.  Insta, Blue Sky, the whole 9 yards…. But the link she provides to TER is missing (assuming it was taken down); and she has her OK’s hidden on P411.  
What would you do in this situation?  I don’t want to “out” her on the board… but I’d love to see some candid reviews.

RespectfulRobert 12 reads
posted
2 / 12

If I cant verify her by her reviews, or receive a great recommendation for her from a source I trust, I would just move on.  
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Personally, I wouldnt feel the need to name her at all here, as I dont know what that will accomplish, but there are scores of women I would like to see reviews for and can't bc they have none or they removed theirs. It is what it is.  
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What else is there to do, other than find another women you are interested in and hopefully the research on her will get you a good result?

hehitshewins 13 reads
posted
3 / 12

I rarely want to risk it these days. Provider Not Found means one of 3 things. One, she never had TER and lied. Two, she delisted, and there usually is a reason. That reason might be legit and understandable, and she may be fine. Or, it might be because she's no good. You're taking a risk. Three, she provided the wrong link. However, if it's 3, usually you can figure it out by looking her up by her name, phone number, or email. Did you try doing a Google Search of her by her name, phone number, and email? This can sometimes be revealing. Interesting thing I have seen is that even when they have a delisted TER, their name and TER profile show up in a search.

themostfunone 3 Reviews 13 reads
posted
4 / 12

Good idea.  I searched for her name and number on TER, but have not done a google search.  I’ll try that and her Instagram next.  

Her pics are gorgeous so I’d really like to keep trying a way to get some level of verification.  

themostfunone 3 Reviews 18 reads
posted
5 / 12

Google turned up a ladies.one listing that had 5 or 6 great, recent reviews.  Not sure how much stock to put in this site.  

Lt_FrankDrebin 10 Reviews 16 reads
posted
6 / 12

I was going to say the same thing about the busted TER link. If all he did was copy a link out of her tryst ad, he needs to try searching for her. Could easily be a typo situation.

themostfunone 3 Reviews 5 reads
posted
7 / 12

So it happens all the time when a provider is not reviewed….  I am wondering if there is a protocol on TER to ask about this provider?  Just posting a link on boards to her listing?  Is that frowned upon?  

Lt_FrankDrebin 10 Reviews 1 reads
posted
8 / 12

I’m really not sure what you’re asking. In your subject line you say you’re asking about providers who are “unlisted” but then you ask if you are allowed to post a link to her “listing”? Soooo you want to know if you can post a link that doesn’t exist?
*visible confusion*

 
In your mind, what is a listing? Would that be her profile here or her ad someplace or what?

 
You started this thread asking about what sounded like a provider who’s been delisted here on TER. (Had her profile taken down) There are a number of reasons that may have happened. Or maybe she was never reviewed here, we don’t really know with the tiny bit of information provided. If you’re asking whether TER would divulge any details about WHY she was delisted or what her reviews were like before she was delisted, I’ve never heard of that and I highly doubt it.  

 
If you’ve moved on to a different provider and you can’t find any reviews of her and want to see what you can find out from everyone here, yeah that happens a lot. Will it upset her? Who knows? But it is allowed, if that’s your question.  

 
Guys will say something like “hey I can’t find any reviews for this lady here, does anyone have any information about her?” Usually happens on the regional boards. If you do that, it would help if you included a link to her ad or website. Just don’t put any links to other review sites. Some people don’t like having those conversations in the open so it might also help if you have VIP so people can PM you.  

 
I hope this helps

36363jensen 4 Reviews 1 reads
posted
9 / 12

Done all the time. About the only time anyone takes exception at all to such an ask is if the guy provides nothing but a name or comes across as shilling about the girl no one has seen.

 
Ask your question, provide a link to her ad and ask if anyone has seen her or has real information to share. Most of the time you'll get a bunch of opinions back and some will be worth listening to but sometimes someone that has seen (or claims to have, so always vet the source regardless of their info) the provider.

Laspho 4 reads
posted
10 / 12

I agree. Once bitten twice shy for me. I’d rather walk than risk it. Chances are she’s a poor experience.

themostfunone 3 Reviews 2 reads
posted
11 / 12

Thanks.  I was thinking of the second situation that you’re describing, on the Regional Boards.  I guess I would post a link and a question.  But, she tours here, and my market’s buzz board is dead … so I might post in the general chat…  

However - the update on this particular provider is that I paid her a deposit and she cancelled her tour.  She refunded my deposit and she apologized for the trouble… so many of the concerns I had are really not a problem.  I’ll probably book her again if she reschedules the tour.  

themostfunone 3 Reviews 1 reads
posted
12 / 12

To clarify - I meant posting a link to her Tryst ad with the question.  Not to the TER listing.  

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