In good economic times, I have often found it difficult to see a new lady. She was so busy that she ignored many emails from non-regulars. She was sometimes a bit brusque about setting something up even if she wanted to. It was a "sellers" market.

In the good times, men should take the lesson to respect and value the lady's time, to make themselves the kind of client a lady wants to see, to be clean, well groomed, respectful, timely etc, to avoid the NC/NS on his part.

In these comparatively poor times, I am finding that any email feelers I send out are responded to very quickly, potential new ladies are very solicitous - they are very open and enthusiastic about the potential of meeting me. Ladies with whom I used to need to schedule a week in advance are ready on a two hour notice. It has become more of a buyers market.

In the poor times, the ladies should take the lesson to value the gentleman's business, to show genuine interest in meeting the gent, to show appreciation for his investment in her, to work at a consistent quality of service, to manage her schedule so as to avoid the NC/NS on her part.

Both lady and gent should remember these lessons in times good and bad.

We would all be happier for it.

Cheers

Gregory






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