"No Black Men"  "I Love White Boys"  "I Love older Men"
I'm curious as to what Veteran Escorts(or anyone else) may have to say about these sort of filters in Adult Escort Section Ads.
If You are an African American Woman why would you have a "no black men" statement in your ads?
I cannot recall ever seeing an ad by a Caucasian,Asian,Latina,or Mixed Woman with a clause refusing to see a man of their same ethnicity.
The one about loving white boys(guys)..C'mon is it really necessary? By default, All  Women want white men to answer thier ads! I mean has anyone ever seen an advert that said "no white men"?[or asian,latino,mixed,confused*!?]
I love older men - How old are we talking? 65..74..80? Now I know men in their sixties and upwards that do not look nor act their age.I know Grandpas get horned up too..but If I am a 30 year old escort and Grammpy shows up at my door to do more that talk and cuddle..what then? Have you really thought through the risks of exciting a flame in Pop's Heart and trousers?
I don't find anything wrong with showing just a little intelligence when you're outputting words on the world wide inter-webs for a service. Having a cute face,hot ass and tetas comes kind of secondary to your Brilliance - well, for this guy anyway.

level of comfort that its not a sting/LE.
Funny stuff, huh...lol

First of all, I'm not clear if you're a man or a woman.  At one point you write "I love older men."  Then you end it by saying, "for this guy anyway."  Oh, well, I guess it doesn't matter.
On to the post itself.  First of all, it's more than just African-American providers who say up front they don't see black men.  And that's a shame, because I know several outstanding black mongers who the ladies absolutely love.  But it's also true that some providers (including those of AA background) have bad experiences with AA men, generally younger ones.  So they don't see them.
Then there are the K-girls who refuse to see Korean men because they may be from the same community and blow their secret identity.  And on and on.  Everyone has a reason that makes sense to them.  And the reasons don't all come from racial prejudice.  If someone won't see you for any reason, don't bother asking why, just move on.  There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Personally I am more concerned about a gents hygiene and whether he is polite rather than his race. As a black female I have met gents of all races and think that's part of the fun of being a provider.

Some ladies will however have their preferences and I have no issues with that. It could be because they are scared they will meet some one from their personal life or maybe even just have had a bad experience with a certain type of person. Tis there call I guess although I think there are subtle and more tactile ways of phrasing things.

Ah well, at least gents of certain races know to stay away from a certain provider rather than book a date and be turned away.

It was while back. A DC hobbyist posted something about it and there was some chatter...

Bottom line is women have choice to see whichever nationality/race/religion they want to see or not want to see..

When I contact them, I always tell them that I am the guy from "Avatar", and ask them politely if its OK with them..



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...they don't start advertising "no guys of average length but well-above average width" I am cool with whatever stipulations they wish.

Once they DO start advertising that, though, you will see a rant the likes of which you will never see again!

True Indeed.. A Woman does have preferences, but it can be expressed in a smarter way.

I would rather they cut it right to the chase... I don't like to play footsie with code language and euphemisms...

I will tell them my race and if they got issue with it, that's fine. I will find someone else who doesn't have issue with my race..

My motto is.."I am not wasting your time, and I dare not waste mine..."  Yours could be different, and that's fine.. If you don't like hearing that "Blacks are NOT OK", then you are just a rookie.. Stick around and you will get used to it...

Yes,AA providers are not the only ones that are upfront about it, but I still find it quite odd.I'm sure women other than AA have had problems with men of their same race but they did not ban them all. I just find it weird that I never seen an ad in which a Caucasian woman rejects caucasian men.(not yet anyway)

No..not as long as you have - And I say that in a most respectful way. It will be interesting to see ads of the sorts that you have mentioned. I must say I had a laugh when you described yourself as a very demanding, no nonsense Grandpa I plan on being similar when I get to those big numbers.
Thanks for the input.

Bravo.. I think so too,things can be said in a smarter way.

You can't have a Veteran without a Rookie. And its "no black men" coming from a black woman's advert. It is not a question of what I don't like hearing Curly, It's a matter of taking the thought process just a tad bit further before posting an ad with that sort of language about a member of your own ethnicity. Everyone should know that you can make yourself seem like an idiot when you generalize, and all I am saying is one could consider that even when placing an ad in the escort section.

Yes.. funny in a slick kinda way.

For several of the girls it says that they will not see Korean gentleman? I found this to be puzzling? Myself I am caucasian but I will consider asian, latina, black, etc... For me it's more about the lady's personality.

black girls post, "No black guys".. I was on BP the other day, just for shits and giggles, and saw at least 3 in the DC area.

One time I remember seeing post from a black girl from DC saying most of her appointments are white guys. Now, I don't know if that is by choice or not. I didn't ask, and she didn't elaborate either....

As I said.. Hang around, and you will get to see every flavor of it...

Posted by inicky46

"Then there are the K-girls who refuse to see Korean men because they may be from the same community and blow their secret identity. "

Personality tops it for me also.

The reason is they have a man in their lives, usually also AA who doesn't want them with other AA men.  This goes for any race of women who have controlling AA "partners".  
The less pc way of saying it would be their pimps don't want another AA man with their women.
In the case of Asians, it is most likely cultural fears of seeing another person from their own community. How ever, if just against AA men, the above is generally the reason.
I have this information straight from women I have met through the years who actually had "their man" (pimp) put these rules on them.

Women can have their preferences and we can have ours.

Don't accuse it's always a racist thing, as in the women are self-loathing of their own race.

Sometimes it's a legitimate reason.  Russian girls often won't see Russian guys because the community here in NYC is very small.  Word could easily get out that some Russian girl who lives down the street is escorting.

I don't have ANY problem with the wording of these ads.  We could just as easily put out an ad seeking someone and saying, "No fat girls, and no ugly girls."

It's not an even playing field.  They are supplying sex; we are paying for it.  Different rules, because you are on different sides of the transaction.

For the 75th time if a provider won't see you for whatever reason just remember it's her body. Just move on already.

Analysis of every damn thing leads to stupidity in epidemic proportions. There is way too much analysis in the so called civilized world which is methodically leading to uncivilized. There is too much PC in the so called civilized world which is methodically killing truth and facts.

I like women in general that does not mean I am going to bed with all of them neither would you (I hope).