mrfisher can give you some insight on this toipic! eom

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As a board and a group of the select few we share something in common, (an open mind in regards to sex), we form bonds with clients some become friends...

...necessarily (by that I mean that there are many judgmental comments about the sex others engage in). And there's definitely a strong bias against any crossing of the strict client/provider boundary (for reasons good and bad). Bring on the train wreck!  

Does asking these questions help you garner business.

You know, when I first found TER, I thought that we shared all those things you talk about but one of my surprises has been how judgmental some people tend to get.

Other than sword crossing, male anal activity, sex with bald chicks, tranny stuff, drinking pineapple juice to make ones own jizz taste good, etc what makes you say there are  "judgmental comments about the sex others engage in?"

The Eve side or the Zoe side?

A friend is a friend no matter where you met.  

you want to be seated with the bridesmaids.  

There is also some cumplay, preggo, anything with gay/submissive overtones, etc. All that matters is that the activity is safe and consensual.

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I would respect her choice or her groom's choice not to invite me. A friend is a friend regardless of how me met.

Everybody has boned the bride...just not you.

Posted By: RodTidweLL

If I were invited to a lady's wedding, I probably would decline. I am happy she is in a successful, loving relationship, but I would feel awkward looking a guy in the eye knowing I slept with his new bride.  
   
 That's just for me personally, I'm not shaming or denouncing those that would go and have a great time.  
   
 Congratulations again!!!!!

And what IS the deal with that prego nonsense? Good grief.

He sucks up to anything that has a pussy.

but, yes I would try to attend. I always enjoy a free meal and crappy wedding cake. I would not bring my SO.

First with respect to OP,  yes, I would attend a provider's wedding if I had known her for some time.  Although, I would find it a bit strange that her beloved would want a room full of people she had been intimate with present.  But, to each his/her own.

Some of my former clients, who have evolved into friends, have mentioned that they hope that I find love when I'm ready, and they'd be happy for me.  I can think of one or two guys who I would keep as friends even if I'm married.  And MAYBE an occasional extramarital fling :0  

And if I too thought of the lady as a friend ... I would be honored.

Last year Beverly Fisher and I got married.  Bev had been an active provider up until about 3 years ago.

It was a destination wedding and the maid of honor was Bev's BFF who is still an active provider and my best man was (and still is) an active hobbyist.  At least one other active hobbyist and provider were in attendance along with a gaggle of family and friends.

The point is, weddings and weddings and people are people, and the rules that apply to a wedding apply no matter what people's careers are or their hobbies.

Though a bit of a different situation, this video by Key and Peele should be fairly instructive in a very funny way:

I am beginning to think "Mr. Tidwell" enjoys being embarrassed and humiliated.  One thing'd for damn certain, he loves the attention.

By a few, I mean a VERY special few. These are men I've known for a long time.  

The Vikings and Redskins have banned him now!  I expect the Bears to follow suit shortly.

I think it would be a hoot.  Be happy to go reception and even get a gift off the registry.  So... you are at the reception... and someone asks ....

The kids table can be easily arranged.

you don't know the Doc here all that well.  

If LA had an NFL franchise I expect they'd ban him as well.

Would it be ok to take a provider as a date?  
I don't see it as different than going to an ex's but that's me.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Each and every person has a different level of involvement here. This hobby works for me because I'm able to keep it a secret from my real life 100% of the time. I truly live a double life. So if I'm invited to your wedding, like all the many other sweet social invitations I've received from the ladies over the years, I will have to respectfully decline.

But, I have to say that I haven't had the sort of relationship with any gents here yet that would leave me feeling inclined to invite them to my wedding. But, for one- I doubt that I will ever get married, so it is kind of hard to imagine. And for two- if I DID get married, I don't imagine I would have a big party with guests.