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Usedtobebetter 1769 reads
posted
1 / 26

She was working with a much more experienced lady, but I think that partnership is breaking up.  Too bad, I like them both.  I was scheduled today for a threesome (FBSM, not FS) and the older one couldn't make it.  Was my first time with the young one, and she's pretty fresh.  Doesn't know how to properly screen or market, etc.  I suggested that she lurk here to pick up some pointers.  She really is a sweet, young and very good looking redhead with a perfect (IMHO) body than only a 19 year old can have without effort.

Are there any particularly good threads to help a newbie provider stay safe?

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 592 reads
posted
3 / 26

Ladies can give other ladies some targeted advice and perspective that guys can't.. But that being said, I've given plenty of women, both in person and on the boards, general advice.. It all depends on what kind of advice she is looking for..  One thing for sure.. You better know what the fuck you are talking about...

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 698 reads
posted
4 / 26

When you have second thoughts about the littlest things you say, its quite clear that you don't know what the fuck you are talking about....

Blowing Chunks 466 reads
posted
5 / 26

Some guys are the lady's chaufer and book the hotel for them, some guys do verifications, some guys maintain the ladies' web site. Some help the girl with pricing structure so that she doesn't offer dumb pricing such as $200 for 1 hr and yet $500 for 2 hrs.  

So I would have to disagree with you that all guys are clueless about the biz side.  Certain dudes can be of great help to a girl who's just starting out.  In this case, I don't think it's a matter of how long a dude has been around or how many escorts the dude has seen, but rather, how intimately they have gotten to know the biz side

1192967 45 Reviews 579 reads
posted
6 / 26

...the Self-Help Center. Lots of info for newbies there.

RedheadBombshell See my TER Reviews 537 reads
posted
7 / 26

"She was working with a much more experienced lady, but I think that partnership is breaking up."

I realize it's difficult to be objective when in the company of young and HAWT, but in the interest of self-preservation, please consider these two things.  
1. Has the young lady learned so little, despite the benefit of working with a more experienced lady?
2. IS the partnership truly breaking up or is "young hottie" helping herself to "experienced lady's" clientele behind her back?  

Innocence and youth=vulnerability for young ones.  
A talented portrayal of both=vulnerability for those whom young hotties prey upon.

I say this not because I am terribly jaded, but every scenario makes my mind swirl with possibilities.  I'll just share one, then go back to minding my own business for a while.

Suppose your empathetic soul, compels you to assist this pretty little lady. Uh-oh! "Experienced lady" discovers you and possibly others, have jumped ship for "new, sweet and innocent".

I'ma thinkin' betrayal is a foregone conclusion and now, not only is "little one" in her sites, but perhaps the clientele "experienced lady" may have lost, are also in for a dose of vengeance.

From what I've read, folks have been blacklisted for far less. While you likely have someone's best interests at heart, for your sake, please be sure of the facts before you act.  Sadly, there's a great deal of experience behind the old adage, "No good deed goes unpunished".  
                               To your well-being and happiness Sir,
                                                                                      Des

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 681 reads
posted
8 / 26

To get on the Provider Only Board to ask Q&A's....   This biz, you just learn as you go... It's common sense that works the best... But sites like TER w/resources like PO, GD boards along with newbie board ..... Can benefit you.....   Good luck!!!

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 576 reads
posted
9 / 26

Don't mess with the eggs. Don't feed the chicks when they hatch. Don't try to help them leave the nest. Don't protect them.

If you don't leave them alone to fend fro themselves, they'll never survive.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 581 reads
posted
10 / 26

don't know what the fuck you are talking about, and are years away from being able to give any form of advice.. Although, you don't like to be called newbie, that's what you are !!

cuppajoe 556 reads
posted
11 / 26

Amazon actually has some good books.

Posted By: Usedtobebetter
She was working with a much more experienced lady, but I think that partnership is breaking up.  Too bad, I like them both.  I was scheduled today for a threesome (FBSM, not FS) and the older one couldn't make it.  Was my first time with the young one, and she's pretty fresh.  Doesn't know how to properly screen or market, etc.  I suggested that she lurk here to pick up some pointers.  She really is a sweet, young and very good looking redhead with a perfect (IMHO) body than only a 19 year old can have without effort.  
   
 Are there any particularly good threads to help a newbie provider stay safe?

inicky46 61 Reviews 408 reads
posted
12 / 26

thrilled!
PS: If a guy does, in fact, know what he's talking about there's a lot of advice he can give.  I've done some screening for a girl, for example.  And advised others on how to handle specific situations they  confronted.  That said, a girl can really benefit from having a network of fellow providers to call on.

-- Modified on 2/21/2014 9:29:25 AM

HooktardGold 613 reads
posted
14 / 26

Many seasoned ladies are happy to help and even screen (for a fee on the latter). Have her find a few ladies in her area of even put a post up on the Regional Board about needing a mentor/screener, but make sure she is careful. Many of those women will just try and steal her clients.  

2 screeners I HIGHLY vouch for are Baltimore Betty (Betty-Coc*er) and Klaudia aka Courtesy of Klaudia. I used Klaudia for about 2 years, and have heard nothing but great things about Betty. Klaudia charges 200 a week, not sure about Betty's rates.

-- Modified on 2/21/2014 10:40:23 AM

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 569 reads
posted
15 / 26

I hardly give advice unless asked... If you really think she was cheap, tip her the difference...

Every advice, in part is an opinion....Get real dude....

 
And how cheap are we talking here... There is a difference between $60 hooker vs  $275 hooker when the market is at $300 per hr.. just an example...

-- Modified on 2/21/2014 1:20:41 PM

AnotherDonJohn 577 reads
posted
16 / 26

When you are Lewis' market fo-l.  

More like the other poster's " PCE." Or fishing for extras: listen to me, I can "help" your business.

-- Modified on 2/21/2014 2:15:21 PM

AnotherDonJohn 604 reads
posted
17 / 26

And that of guy in nyc named GED who fancies himself a p-mp.  

1. Maintain a better volume of girls (this is not GED's problem)
2. If you're posting under your reviewing handle, create a more admirable online persona
3. Let them ask you, not volunteer your services. Then, the offer is automatically less valuable. I'm sure Nicky, Mr Fisher, and some others get this as elder statesmen. You, not so much...

-- Modified on 2/21/2014 2:46:46 PM

Blowing Chunks 500 reads
posted
18 / 26

Must not have occurred to you that the so/bf / friend are helping some of those for some ladies who sought such assistance?  They then disappear when Johns like you show up at appointment time and come right back when you leave. Sure a women can do all those herself but  I assure you many times there's a guy involved whom she's spilling all the beans to.  

Stick around a few more years,  you'll realize I'm right

Usedtobebetter 501 reads
posted
20 / 26

Good points.  Don't think that she's trying to steal the older one's clients, though.  The older one told me that she had to cancel our appointment for our threesome because she had to leave town on personal business and didn't know when she would be back.  She also cleaned out her shared incall townhouse, so I have the feeling that she's gone for good.  Too bad, she had very talented mouth and hands and absolutely no inhibitions - former cam girl.  Great squirter, too.  I'll remember her and try to stay in touch if she keeps the phone #.  Would love to see her again, we had a lot of laughs, including both of us almost falling off the massage table and her just soaking the floor with a multi-squirt rolling orgasm that she just collapsed on top of me after, panting.  I don't think that you can fake squirting like that and it damn sure wasn't urine. (smile, nice memory)

I called the youngster to see if she could see me (was all horned up with no outlet), and it was apparent that she knew nothing about screening, she just remembered my name from the appointment book the older one kept for both of them.  She's either an incredible actress for a 19 year old (and I don't think that's the case) or she was truly shy, nervous and awkward for the first half hour (hands were shaking a bit at first) until I distracted her sufficiently with DATY.  

I would just hate for her to get hurt or get a pimp in the mix.  She seemed unaware of how attractive she is, as difficult as that is to believe.  Maybe she had been psychologically abused or something.

Your points are well taken.  I'll point her at the Newbie board and back off, other than maybe seeing her professionally again, which she seemed very eager to do.

Thank you - and Julia and even DA.  My protector instincts and love of women in general just got kicked in.

Usedtobebetter 621 reads
posted
21 / 26


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Dr Who revived 502 reads
posted
22 / 26

In order to do so he would need to see behind the curtain.  And even if he finally does get that look back there he strikes me as the type who will be able to continue to delude himself as to the realities of how many gals operate.

And that's really not a bad thing.  Sometimes not knowing the truth is a better option in this world we play in.
Posted By: Drunken Asian
Must not have occurred to you that the so/bf / friend are helping some of those for some ladies who sought such assistance?  They then disappear when Johns like you show up at appointment time and come right back when you leave. Sure a women can do all those herself but  I assure you many times there's a guy involved whom she's spilling all the beans to.    
   
 Stick around a few more years,  you'll realize I'm right.    
   
   
   
 

Blowing Chunks 477 reads
posted
23 / 26

RT strikes him as a guy who'd continue to be a clueless newbie even after 10 years.  

You know what? I completely agree.

AnotherDonJohn 587 reads
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24 / 26
2labman 26 Reviews 521 reads
posted
25 / 26

Found out that the older lady was the youngster's mother.  Thought that they looked alike.  Makes me wonder about family dynamics with the 4 hand massage.  Glad the three-way didn't pan out, I'd feel excessively pervy now that I know.  The youngster is smokin', though, for FBSM.  Not FS, but most else is on the menu.  I already feel a bit pervy about being with a 19 year old, but I can deal with that.  Never said I was perfect.  What's that quote about learning to love your vices?

RedheadBombshell See my TER Reviews 561 reads
posted
26 / 26

"Found out that the older lady was the youngster's mother."  

Takes a special kinda mommy, doesn't it?

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