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Escort55 7 Reviews 1505 reads
posted
1 / 13
Tipping?

What is everyone's view on tipping for escort or massage?

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 598 reads
posted
2 / 13
I seldom tip anymore. It tends to get back to the cheapsies on the board who cry bloody murder.

But when I do "tip" (an escort), I just put extra in the envelope. With a masseuse, I might tip if the massage was above and beyond, the happy ending, no matter how wonderful, seldom gets a tip.

The problem with tipping a GFE escort is this: We agree to SHARE sensual and sexual pleasure. If it's good, it's good; if it's bad, it's bad. End of story. If it's really, really, really tremendous, then lucky US. Not how good of her to treat me so well.

If I pay her car fare or parking fee, that's different. That's me being a nice guy. It depends on where and when.

Apparently, because providers see themselves as "shop-owner" professionals, and not as wage earners, most of them take offense if a man tips on top of the donation. So...maybe...if the service wasn't up to snuff or if she wasn't the hottie you thought she'd be, leaving a tip might a polite insult just to offend her a little bit. Just thinking on the keyboard.

Epsilon_Eridani 652 reads
posted
3 / 13
think about it!!

is that ONLY time you think? is while you're on the keyboard?

what do you do while you're driving? thinking on the steering wheel?  
 
Posted By: WickedBrut
Just thinking on the keyboard.

1192967 45 Reviews 444 reads
posted
4 / 13
Huh? (eom)


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hiddenhills 143 Reviews 560 reads
posted
5 / 13
Rarely, if ever do I tip

Once in awhile if I see a provider with a rate that is crazy low and she performs like a provider with rates that are way more, I will tip. However this rarely happens.  

Posted By: Escort55
What is everyone's view on tipping for escort or massage?

mtdewking2015 451 reads
posted
6 / 13
If she good see her again.


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89Springer 471 reads
posted
7 / 13
I did, but now don't

When I started doing this (still am a newbie), I tipped. After listening to the voices of reason here, I changed my policy. I don't tip independents. I may see an agency provider soon. If she's good, I'll give her a tip.

One reason I changed my behavior was that, as my repeat providers' rates went up, I was never told that I was grandfathered in. So, what I gave before that included a tip is what I give now just for straight rate. I won't extend the courtesy of tipping if I'm not extended the courtesy of grandfathering. It's a wash, though, as the dollar amounts are the same.

CdnBman 11 Reviews 539 reads
posted
8 / 13
Re: The Best Tip...

Posted By: RobbinYoung
Posted By: Escort55
What is everyone's view on tipping for escort or massage?
   
 I've ever received from a hobbyist, was a thank you note.    
   
 I'd gone into the restroom to freshen up, and when I came out, he was writing on a small piece of paper.  He finished writing, folded the paper in half, and handed it to me.  I began to open the note, but he asked me to wait until I'd left the room...so, I did.  His message was heartfelt, and the gesture was thoughtful and sincere, making it...my best tip, ever!
This reminds me of something.  I found myself with a last minute cancellation, and reached out to someone new.  She agreed to see me due to having a common friend.  But I could tell that the whole thing made her nervous.  Anyway she ended up dropping by for a great session.   I told her in advance to use valet parking since it would be more comfortable for her.  I threw a measly $5 in the envelope to pay for the valet charge.  I didn't tell her but I woke up the next morning I had a string of e mails from her, with the first one being a huge THANK YOU for that gesture which I thought was trivial.  Funny how the smallest things make a difference some times.

Cardinal_Richelieu 538 reads
posted
9 / 13
Uh oh!

Looks like I'm in the minority here.  I usually leave something at the end of an outcall to help pay for the room charges. I put it in a generic greeting card and write short message in it.  I can't remember what I do at an incall, I've been away from the action for a while.

jeffdogger 9 Reviews 451 reads
posted
10 / 13
I think you have outcall and incall backwards

Why would you leave extra to pay for your own room?

EWarren 6 Reviews 575 reads
posted
11 / 13
Same for tipping massage therapists and barbers

I always tip escorts - same reason I tip drivers, massage therapists and other service professional

Cardinal_Richelieu 442 reads
posted
12 / 13
Re: I think you have outcall and incall backwards

You are 100% correct!  As I said, I've been away from the action for a while. I can't even keep the terms straight! Must be time to jump back in!!

mistressleya 435 reads
posted
13 / 13
as a provider I believe

In tipping. When I'm at a restaurant or a bar I tip for receiving their services this should be no different unless the provider isn't doing their.job. Tipping gets you better treatment from any escort as well though

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