.....if we could meet again, before she lost her tan? She has just returned from the beach and is sporting a lovely tan. This is quite rare for her! Ladies, Guys, what do you all think?

She's a bit sensitive at times. I don't want her taking it the wrong way and thinking I don't find her attractive when she does not have a tan.

She's really attractive, not an ounce of fat on her, 32d-24-33. Her BF paid for her fake boobs. She gives me all the sex and BBBJ's I need, just as long as I keep her orally satisfied, which I do!

I just don't want to fuck up what I have going with this lady!

If you say it wrong, you'll look like a shallow asshole who is selfish to boot.

Why are you asking a bunch of shallow horndogs here for advice on this subject? 80% of the guys here have never even had a "sex buddy", and many of them barely seem to be able to get laid even when paying for it.

I guess I should have used a better alias when insulting 80% of the guys here, but most of them will THINK they are in the other 20% lol

except for Mikey of course, he will be positive that he is in the other 20%, and FWIW I am sure he is. No one could be that fucking cocky without getting some free tail every once in a while. lol

Don't rock this boat.

Do whatever you do to get with her and don't bring up the tan issue.  Women can take even the most innocent things the wrong way.  I'm sure we all have civie war stories to share on this matter.

....you had the right $$ in the envelope.  Is there something I'm missing here?

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If you pay her to be your "sex buddy" pay her and she won't care.

If you call her when you are drunk, met her on adultfriendfinder or she is your best friends wife call her. She won't care!

in order to snare the unknowing male who believes there are no strings attached.  a woman who wants to get pregnant at 40 and worry about the ramifications later.

I can appreciate that you don't want to mess up a good thing. But what's the issue? You want to see her before her tan goes away. Do you have to tell her that? Do you get together at regular intervals so she would wonder why so soon between visits this time. I say go for it without explanation.

It's best to acknowledge that because of a woman's emotional makeup, the FWB thing has a very short shelf life. If you can't tell a woman, 'I think your tan makes you look delicious. Can you keep it? Or can I taste you again before it goes away?' without her freaking out on you, because she wants you to like her just the way she is, then you're actually on your way to being the husband. I can just imagine what her poor boyfriend is going through...

i still say that the sex buddy/future stalker correlation needs to be looked at.

I resemble that remark. LOL

At least I don't have to pay cash to get tail.

When you're in a restaurant with family or friends. Or I should say friends and their wives. They all say 'Mikey, you're so good looking and so fun. How come you're not married? I need to find you a GF.'

Shit. The lady plant manager just yesterday told me she wants to find someone for me to settle down with cuz she worries about me and my wicked ways. If she wasn't so naive' she would know I'd throw her ass on her desk, put her ankles behind her ears and fuck the shit out of her. But I digress...

If you can't tell a woman what turns you on, what the fuck do you want her around for anyhow?

Quit being such fucking pussies and speak up for yourselves.