...not in the initial email certainly. that is because i like to take the time to get to know a gent and allow him to get to know me, to establish compatibility and chemistry first. however i realize that in this way i am very different from most providers.

with that said, subject lines sure to get my attention would include anything that indicated to me that a gent actually READ my ad and that he is interested in what i specifically have to offer...not just a "date" with any reasonably attractive woman who will say yes.

This is for members who can PM me and I can verify them with little or no problems.

Kisses Haley

and if so my email header indicates that I am also a member and am requesting a date. That way she knows right away that I have a hobby history and bona fides and that it will not be difficult to screen me. If she's a member of both I include all pertinent info. I also mention my TER handle so she may check my reviews and whitelists here.

Re: Ladies, what it is in the subject line of an inital e-mail contact......that assures your attent

Something like:

"$$$$$$$$$$$$ Bill Gates says Hi! $$$$$$$$$$$$$"