I'm in the middle of cooking. Made shrimp scampi over noodles, vegetables, and getting ready to grill a couple of T-bones for my boys(dogs) and I.

Would any of you ladies appreciate this? Meaning, if you did an outcall to a guy's home, and he paid for an extended date, would you mind if he cooked for you instead of going out to eat?

I'm not talking about the economics of the situation. Just that some of us like to cook, and spend time around the house.

I know some ladies do outcall to a guy's home. I'm just curious if he suggested that he grilled up some grub, or ordered take out even, if it was an extended date what you ladies would think?

Of course this could be before, during, or after the said date.

My point is, would a personal touch be appreciated?

It's extremely rare that I out-call, though I do offer bonus time for the in-studio meal dates if my friends cook for me.  It's fun to try to distract the chef, as long as the knives are not in hand.
; )

Some wine and conversation, a lick and nibble, a saute, flour hand prints on the butt... what's not to love?

Rrrrr!!! Sola! I will make sure that whatever place I stay at in Seattle, to see you, has a kitchen JUST so I can divulge in all of the above you mentioned!

Thank you, lady!

I think it would be a really nice gesture and very thoughtful thing to do for a lady!

of course, with a gentleman whom i've already met and have established a good solid comfort level. i have one friend who brings me to his home, has me cook a yummy gourmet meal (he sets the table), and we spend a nice cozy evening together with good food, good russian vodka and the dogs. it's wonderful.

I would tend to agree, considering how busy you ladies are. And considering it's not supposed to be 'personal', that a guy would do such a thing, for both of you, would be nice and make for a nice date. That's just me talking, though....

God, why do you have to live in Washington.

I would absolutely love that! Although I am a vegetarian, so it'd be hard to cook a real meal for the both of us.

I could dig a razzleberry or blueberry pie, as well as german chocolate cake, or just good old chocolate chip cookies!

But the sweetest thing would be you!!!

I thought that was only on Mr. Magoo's A Christmas Carol Special.

Don't make me explain what razzleberry pie is! Oh! And you have PM by the way!

From a client's perspective, my current ATF is always willing, even wants, to cook for me.  It means a lot for a lot of reasons.  It is VERY appreciated.

for 3 or 4 hrs. We've dined many times.Last time it was for a late lunch, and we dined out by the pool. Very nice! One time I went and got take out, and a few other times she's cooked for me. It's always a great time!

Do I have to do dishes after

I love to eat and would be boiled over with excitement at some good home cooking. It's so much fun to utilize many parts of the kitchen for fun while dinner is cooking. Just put me on the turky platter first please, lay me on the table or hang me from your pot rack with no panties on.

Kisses Haley

seriously, there are quite a few dishes I would love to serve the ladies... examples?

A blackened chicken with a red pepper (sweet not hot) sauce served over a bow tie pasta with a light oregano pine nut pesto...

black bean enchiladas... with a nice mango, red pepper onion salad...

BBQ - turkey infused with jalopeno peppers and a homemade sauce that is to die for... OR

my specialty - pork chops served in an apple maple syrup sauce... along with sweet potatoe crisps... and a nice side of green beans...

Mousaka - made with an original greek recipe....
or .... a Chef special....  from the can...


Bwahahahaha..... serioiusly - ladies take your pick.... you can order one from column a column b...etc...

desert... flambe of some sort....

who's name may be acceptable again (but I wont try). She was at my house for an overnight and didn't want to go out because she figured that people would figure out the relationship because of our age difference. I think the meal  made a very positive impression on her.

Greece's second greatest contribution to the world.

Spending that kind of "quality time" makes for
the perfect get together aside of the other "quality time"  I have had many ,many dates that
involved sharing each others recipe ideas .

You also learn alot about each other in the kitchen too besides being introduced to a new
dish I truly enjoy these kind of activities!

Guys who do this in my book are quite appreciated
in my book and I have met many.Most enjoyable
time getting to know each other too. If it  is cooking in his kitchen,or going out its a wonderful time spent.  

a couple of years ago...in call and it was genuinely HER apartment. A 2 hours appt at 9 pm and I should have realized that as she had just gotten out of the shower, she did not eat dinner yet (Romans tend to eat late near 10 pm). So, a bit of wine...actually much wine and then she tells me that she was hungry and asks if  I would mind if she cooked a quick pasta. I was hungry too so three hours later (Romans tend to spend much time on a meal) we retired to her bed and ... well it was a great way to shake off the loneliness of a long trip. Don't look in my reviews for her. There are a few that are looking for very low volume and she was refered by a friend...a very 'pre-TER' experience even in the 21st century.

I was dating a gal whose family came from Athens Greece, they moved to Athens Georgia... I met her in Augusta GA... lol!  She gave me her family recipe... it tastes great... takes time to make but is very much worth it.

She, sadly did not like to cook, and her family opened a pizza parlor...   well!  what can ya do...

One night I just hit it off with a provider who was young... and as the session progressed she mentioned several times that she was hungry.... so was I.  After the session she again mentioned that she was hungry...  I asked if she would like to catch a bite to eat... she dressed quicker than I thought possible and off we went... we walked about 2 -3 blocks from her hotel to a restaurant that she wanted to visit... we sat outside... it was truly fun being stared at by passing couples... the men obviously jealous and the women just as obviously disapproving...  life can be good like that sometimes...

or there was the time with one lovely lady in particular who - when the waitress asked if we wanted desert, she simply looked up and said "he's for desert!"  Made my night!

Although I guess some would worry about being poisoned.  I have had a few men cook for me and it was a delightful surprise. Of course, the cleanup was better.

Hugs,
Ciara

With the long wait time, trips to the ER aren't as romantic as they used to be.

Wouldn't be the first time I made veggieburgers! Or anything soy-that-looked-like meat!

How about veggie-lasagna or other pasta dish? With some bread for dipping in olive oil and spices? Olives, cheeses, and a nice red wine to compliment?

Could you handle that?

other ideas, you ever had the Aunt Jemima treatment? (Stripes movie) Spanking that ass with a spatula, then bending you over the counter and giving it to you from behind?! Mmmmm! Dessert before dinner!

And what could be more intimate than standing in the kitchen, talking and prepping for a wonderful dinner?

Well, fully clothed anyway!

But that's my point. And I appreciate you ladies for your candor!

I wouldn't THINK of poisoning you! I want you to comprehend what you and I would do for dessert!

You're such a minx!

Mikey luvs you, and you are in need of some SERIOUS spanking!!!!

M

13 years ago this weekend I OD'd on blow at one of my boy's home.

Make a long story short, when I was at the hospital, they injected me with iodine to look at my heart. I had a reaction, and asked me if I was allergic to seafood. I told them I got stomach aches when I ate it, and they told me I was allergic to iodine(salt in seafood).

BUT, since then, I still eat seafood. Lobster, crab, shrimp, whatever. I trained my body to accept it because I refuse to do without.

Just like I refused to be an invalid, I refused to do without.

It's all in the mind, baby!

But, I can understand that some people don't have a certain constitution. I can deal with that, and make appropriations accordingly.

So as far as food allergies, if and when a lady lets me cook for her, I would certainly ask her if she had any!

It would break my heart to make a great meal for her, then watch her get sick!

Keep those histamine responses at bay.

I love the thoughtfulness and personal touch behind this kind of date.  And if I had been the gentleman when the waitress asked about desert, that too would have made my night.

  It really is those "little" things that just "do it" for ya.

and just ask the lady what she is allergic to before I go through with such a date.

After all, I'm trying to make an impression on her, as well as her on me. Wouldn't you agree?

A night in the hospital might sound funny on this board, but not to the 2 people that had to actually deal with it.

Hypothetically speaking, of course....

i've had extremely subtle pizzas in Japan for which champagne would be an extremely good pairing.

but it would also be dangerous.

i'm quite accomplished in the kitchen but i've cut back on dinner parties, chez moi. history is that it tends to lead to drama, complication,  attachment, and who knows what?