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Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 320 reads
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Dear Madam Alexandra:
When you first embarked on your self employed business as an adult companionship provider, what where the concerns and apprehensions you had with respect to how it could effect you outside of the business?

Also what goes through your mind when you encounter someone you had an interaction with through the hobby and how do you prepare for the variety of reactions that could transpire as you encounter them? Finally if you are on any boards or have any images out there, how would you change your look so that you would not be associated with your job as a companionship professional?

Also what other concerns would you have as you continue in this capacity and have you turned down a potential convocation because you might have suspected that you know the person from your personal life?

AlexandraMilw1573 reads

I run into my guy friends all of the time, and I am thankful that every one of them have been gentlemen.  

I go to a cafe frequently and constantly run into an ex friend of mine that I had seen for years (He has health issues and can no longer see me). Periodically he will sit by me (at a counter) and chat a little. No one ever being the wiser.

Went to a Brewer game and realized that a guy I had just seen a few hours before (!) had season tickets the row in front of me. For us to both have season tickets that close to each other is amazing. Anyways he was friendly enough for someone who had never "met" me ha ha.

Ran into a guy I have known 9 years at a bar. I was by myself, he was with his friends. It was kind of fun hanging with them and playing darts, all the while his friends are thinking that he was being nice to a gal all by herself. LMFAO.  

For every idiot who doesn't know how to act in public... there are many who do.

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London Rayne305 reads

I don't broadcast this part of my life by placing ads every month, nor do I show my face or any other thing that would identify me, or work out of my own home!  Bottom line...if you don't care enough about your life and your children to protect them from this type of shit, don't be shocked when someone else does not either.  

In scoed's case, his wife works in a LEGAL brothel, so a bit different but I could never do that.  For those of us who have worked hard to get an education, attain a career, etc.  I can't see anyone being so oblivious to being recognized. It is simply counter productive to major in something you can't get hired for, if this part of your life is found out. I love the ones who claim to be models and pro cheerleaders who can show their face, and no one notices lol. Right.

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scoed340 reads

My wife has no current photos on the web, and does not link to her old porn photos and videos. Those thing never go away. :(

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Duplicitouslust321 reads

Dear Madam Alexandra:
When you first embarked on your self employed business as an adult companionship provider, what where the concerns and apprehensions you had with respect to how it could effect you outside of the business?

Also what goes through your mind when you encounter someone you had an interaction with through the hobby and how do you prepare for the variety of reactions that could transpire as you encounter them? Finally if you are on any boards or have any images out there, how would you change your look so that you would not be associated with your job as a companionship professional?

Also what other concerns would you have as you continue in this capacity and have you turned down a potential convocation because you might have suspected that you know the person from your personal life?

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AlexandraMilw295 reads

Such a gentleman. I thought you only pick on London lol.

I had and still have great concern for safety and being outed. There is no pictures of me out there that has my face or identifying marks, so beyond meeting me... you can not identify me. I also screen very well so as to not meet people that I may know. Happened once a long time ago by someone I knew but didn't know overly well. Not much of a concern as he had a lot more to lose than I.  

As far as running into men I have met, they know that I am single and I have no problem with them coming to talk to me as long as it is not about this sort of business. I never go up to them, I let them come by me if they feel like it.

Ever see girls dressed where you KNEW what they did? That's not me. :D

Posted By: Duplicitouslust
Dear Madam Alexandra:
When you first embarked on your self employed business as an adult companionship provider, what where the concerns and apprehensions you had with respect to how it could effect you outside of the business?

Also what goes through your mind when you encounter someone you had an interaction with through the hobby and how do you prepare for the variety of reactions that could transpire as you encounter them? Finally if you are on any boards or have any images out there, how would you change your look so that you would not be associated with your job as a companionship professional?  

Also what other concerns would you have as you continue in this capacity and have you turned down a potential convocation because you might have suspected that you know the person from your personal life?

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scoed284 reads

That being said it does happen that she met clients. Most ignore her like they should and she them. A few say hi discreetly and that is no biggie as I know but really unless told it is OK should not happen. Then there was that asshat. I hate that asshat and he is lucky I only yelled and cussed.

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