***Please Help!!***Guys And Gals I Need Your Help!! Many Thanks!

I was thinking about doing some traveling later this year or early next year and I had a few questions for the ladies and whoremongers of TER. (I would have said gentleman, but who are we kidding?...lol)

This is kind of a big thing for me.  Most of my travel has been alone, and most of it has been for work.  I have never really taken a vacation just for fun.  The circumstances that are allowing me to do this will probably never happen again, so this is likely a once in a lifetime trip.  I was thinking either a Euro Rail open schedule trip for 2-3 weeks, or possibly an around-the-world package. (Rio, Cairo, Europe, Moscow, Agra, Okinawa, Hawaii)

I have also never traveled with a provider, so I am doubly at a disadvantage on this one.  I am hoping the guys and gals of TER can help me with some good advice.

1.) Do all ladies that travel, charge to be a travel companion, or are there ladies that consider the trip, the meals and some spending money to be “payment” for the trip?

2.) Ladies, would the destination of the trip change what you would charge for serving as a traveling companion?  (ie: one rate for two weeks in Pahrump, NV and a different rate for  two weeks travelling the great cities of Europe?)

3.) Ladies, how many times would you want to see a guy prior to traveling with them?  

4.) My travel assumptions: Pay for all her travel in the same class I am traveling, separate rooms, provide all her meals, daily pocket cash, and some free time for her every day.  Is this right?  If not, where am I wrong?

5.) Guys, feedback please…should I travel with a companion or try and find local ladies when I travel? (My thought was I would rather not spend my travel time trying to line up talent, but rather enjoying my trip.)

6.) Ladies and Guys, what pitfalls, problems, etc. should I try to avoid?  Are there ladies you can suggest that are good travelers?

7.) Ladies, would any of you be interested in possibly doing something like this?  I would love to hear your feedback, either post it here or feel free to PM me.


Ladies, I have included a link to my reviews and my 19 White List Referrals below.  I am also Date-Check Verified with 32 Verifications and Preferred411 verified with 19 Provider Okays.  

Please read some of my reviews or board posts and see if you think we would “click” before PMing me.  If you think we are a good fit, I would love to hear from you.

Thanks in advance to everyone who replies.

I appreciate your assistance!

If I didn't have a GF and I had the bucks for my fav providers time , I wouldn't even consider the local talent in other countries .. Plus I doubt a professional  provider would  mind getting some rest or shopping while you go to the Red Light district in Amsterdam , or any other country you are in..
If it was me I would not take someone I didn't know very well whether civvy or provider..

you divide it up.  Travel with a lady for half the trip and pursue the hobby for the other half.  While in Germany, Amsterdam, London, and France, you will find it easy to set up dates or hit the fantastic high end brothels and clubs (look at the applicable Germany post on the reviewers' board).  For other destinations, either have the lady of your choice meet you or start the trip with you and then fly home.

Whether you pay the lady more than just a free vacation (with pocket money) is obviously going to be between you and her, but I would expect to have to pay some sort of per diem beyond spending cash.

Whoever you take, for the whole trip or not, should be someone you've spent some time with beforehand.  I would suggest a weekend in your city, her city, or a destination like Vegas or Miami to see if you're going to click.  Before you commit to the vig for a two week tryst, you want to make sure that either that she's not running away (screaming hysterically in laughter or rage) or you're not kicking her out after a couple of days, but paying for the two weeks anyway.

Man, it sounds like fun.  I hope you have a great trip and I can't wait to read the reviews.

Good Luck

In a nutshell -

find girls in the cities you are traveling to...

If you do decide on a traveling companion - make sure you've seen her before, and you click -

To Vegas.  I did not bring anyone with me, but there were hobby related activities there that caught my attention, not to forget mentioning that my ATF moved there a few months ago.  Since I was burnt from many months of intense career actvity at home, coupled with being cooped up there, getting on a plane, and joining in the festivities, seemed liked the thing to do.  Now that I am home again, I wish I could have stayed longer!  But I have more vacation time left for later this year!  Hobby related travel, no matter the cirmstances, is something you will not regret down the pike.  Go for it!

My best advice is to talk to the lady and see what her expectations are.  You are likely to get as many answers from this board as there are people who will respond.

On my trips we always planned it out before we went.  That way there are no surprises.  But I never went for 2 weeks, usually just a long weekend.

And, make sure you get along with her and she with you.  That may take a couple of visits to get to know her and she you.

Or ask one of the ladies you have reviewed.

check out www.seekingarrangement.com

How much will depend on the lady and whatever arrangement you make.  As far as how many times she will want to see you before she travels with you the answer for some may be "never" so be sure and let her know relatively up front what your ultimate goal is.  Not all ladies are willing to travel with a client no matter how much you offer.
 Remember that there is going to be an awful lot of time spent with this lady doing things other than boinking.  My advice would be to try and find a gal that you think will be fun to spend time with, not just to have sex with.

Good Luck! The research itself should be quite rewarding...

BTW, if we are whoremongers what does that make the ladies? Just some food for thought...

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Many years ago I had a friend who was going to tour Europe. He actually set up interviews for an all expense paid trip with several ladies from our local college. I'm not sure what rap he used with them but whatever it was, he took a major babe with him and from the pictures he later showed me, had a great time.

alas work prevented - and now the opportunity has escaped me.  Would I do this?  yup, but as someone above mentioned, I would mix it up...

and there are very few providers I would consider taking along with me.  One probably would not go, one probably would (but it would have to fit her schedule) and one I cannot speak for....

I would not go with ANY one I had not spent significant time with - or who I did not like as a person - no matter how hot.   I will PM you the rest of my thoughts....  

Many years ago, I lived in Europe for about a decade so I know my way around and am fluent in a number of languages. A few years before I discovered TER, I had a favorite regular that I saw.  We did an overnight together (really a Friday, Saturday, and Sunday   It was great, so when I had the opportunity, I invited her on a week or so trip to Italy and France. We agreed on a substantial price for her time and services and --of course-- I paid for everything. We did end up sharing some local talent together as well as each other.  I had a marvelous time and I believe she did too.  It can be great but spend at least a week end with her first since once there it would be terrible if things went sour.  I love Europe and would include any of the following: Paris, Florence, Venice, Prague, St. Petersburg, Krakow, the area around Nice-Cannes (La Napoule is a nice town near there.) Of course it depends on your taste.It could be really wonderful if you can afford not to skimp. It will be very expensive.  Good luck

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spend at least a weekend with the lady(civvie or pro) before you undertake a trip of this magnitude. Don't turn "a trip of a lifetime" into "a trip from hell". The wrong companion can ruin a trip, don't think an overnight with a lady will tell you if you are compatible for a long trip.

Just remember two weeks is an eternity to spend with the wrong person. There are not many people I would want to see all day everyday for that long.  You might want to consider committing only to a few days of travel together with the option of making the entire trip together. I don't know if that would be practical considering the travel arrangements involved, but I would make very sure before I committed for two weeks

I took a provider/girlfriend to Hawaii for ten days a year or so ago. I told a friend what I was planning, he responded by asking me if I had lost my mind. It turned out that he was correct, it was ten of the longest days of my life, and we had been dating for 3-4 months, but had never spent more than one night at a time together. Ten days proved to be more that our relationship could stand, we broke up immediately after the trip.

I have taken shorter trips with providers both on and off the clock that have worked out wonderfully. I hope your trip turns out well.

I think all the adive given thusfar is dead on!

Two of your most important considerations when planning a trip like this (excluding $ which I will assume is not a issues based on your comments) is:
1) Will you get along with the provider? I would be caution of taking anyone other than an ATF. Even if you "test" the waters with some new providers before your trip - what may seem like a great 1 hour session or even overnight may not translate into a positive 2 week experience. I have seen providers that just blew my socks off and would have been 100% certain would become new ATF only to be disappointed with our next meeting. It's how the wind blows I guess. An ATF just to clarify would be a provider you have seen multiple times and for more than 6 months with mostly positive results. Personally I have only one provider that fits that bill - they are rare and are not easy to come by - not to mention I like my variety so I rarely see providers more than once.

FYI: My ATF I've let "know" me. We've done more than just meet up in hotel rooms. She has called me randomly to meet "off-the-clock". I know her civie persona. She's also pampered me by bringing her friend along to celebrate my birthday (at no charge). Would I travel with her - YES!

2) Will you want to see other women on your journey? If I was planning a trip of this magnitude I would be giddy with anticipation over all the posibilities and variety of women potentially at play. Before I ever started hobbying I would play a game; the rules were simple: Every 20th woman I came across (in the street, subway, meeting, bar etc) that I found attrative I would force myself to make an effort to "talk" to. This was a tremendous confidence builder once I got over my initial fears - but it also afforded me an opportunity to meet alot of great women. (PS its hard to stop playing once you start - even while in a relationship). It's addictive: the chase; the catch; the anticipation of what it will be like to have her. This Hobby allows you to experience women on that level without having to create that game - and it's just as exciting.

What makes French women more alluring than German? Is that a misnomer? Are English woman Freaks in Bed? What about Spanish? Greek? Portugese? Asian...etc. Wouldn't you like to know? I would guess that finding the right women on an international trip would be a concern and that guranteeing dates around a set schedule would be daunting...but thats what TER and all of us are for.

Consider the cost savings of going at it alone. I know I started my post with it not being an issue. But only having to pay for one room, one meal, one airfare etc....leaves LOTS of extra spending cash for hobbying. Spend your money, no matter how much you have of it wisely: have 2 girls one night...have 5 another. Take one overnight. Take one for that extended train ride from Germany to Italy - if your gonna be stuck on a train for a few hours you might as well have someone come along in a private car with you. Hell try and pick up some civie's while you're at it - that is if you have the energy.

FINALLY - Bring some CIALIS or VIAGRA...I dont care what your age is or your stamina - if you plan on doing a 2 week sex marathon you want to be prepared!

GOOD LUCK - AND KEEP US POSTED

Go to Costa Rica, without baggage from here. Shop there. Just google "costa rica nightlife"...

Re: ***Please Help!!***Guys And Gals I Need Your Help!! Many Thanks!

I think that the answer to your question 1 would be that it would be very unlikely that a provider would consider "the trip, the meals and some spending money" to be adequate compensation for the trip. For you this is a vacation, but for the provider it is a job. She will still have to cover her usual living expenses, i.e. rent or mortgage, utility bills, and other normal expenses associated with her real life. So for most ladies you would have to compensate them for the time away from providing, or whatever they would normally be making for the time you will be taking them away from seeing others. That can be pretty expensive for most providers. If you are fabulously wealthy, go for it. One well reviewed lady has a weekly rate of $10,000, not including expenses, and that is on the cheap side. I have seen other well reviewed traveling ladies charge $7000 to $8000 for a weekend.

As far as compatibility issues, this is also difficult. you cannot tell from spending 1 or 2 hours with a lady whether you will be compatible for 1 or 2 weeks. I would only contemplate this type of arrangement with an ATF whom I know very well.

Since I am not that wealthy, my preference would be to try to line up ladies where i travel. I would like the variety. And I would like to try some of the things that others have mentioned, like the red light district in Amsterdam, or the brothels, or clubs in Germany. Plus, after watching "Secret Diary of a Call Girl", I would absolutely need to see a cute blond with a british accent.

My .02

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even though prices have risen dramatically over the last couple of years, a grand a day willstill get you luxury accomodations, all you can eat and drink, three or four different chicas and you will still have change leftover.

If you like twentyfour hour a day companionship, even at inflated DelRey prices you can have the company of a 9/10 for no more than 3-400 per day.

If you are feeling more adventurous you can go further south into South America where the rates are even lower and the women are believe or not even more beautiful.

For hobbying info might I suggest InternationalSexGuide.com, it will give you hobbying information on virtually every country in the world

Re: ***Please Help!!***Guys And Gals I Need Your Help!! Many Thanks!

Forget taking someone.  If you don't get along, you are stuck.

Go to Amsterdam!  Playboy quality women, if you know where to go (a few square block area near the church). European women from all over Europe. Blonds, brunettes, red heads, all shapes and sizes. 50 Euros, suck and fuck. No negotiation. Have a Heineken, relax, go back in!

Costa Rica is good too, but only one type of women: South American.

"Ouch!" is the first reaction that came to mind upon reading this post.

As a provider who prefers to spend extended quality time with her suitors, I am fully confident that I would never disappoint the gentleman I am spending time with.

1)  Separate bathrooms, yes.  Separate rooms....WTF and why???  I am in this for the intimacy.  If my date is not, he will surely not follow through with me.

2)  The destination altering the allowance I'm gifted?
No.  Never.  I can afford any trip on my own, so why should I adjust my gift request according to location?  

Best wishes!!