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Any dude who is offended by this joke has self-esteem issues
cks175 44 Reviews 74 reads
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I mean, really?!?!  Unless the OP knows that he’s the guy who downrated her on appearance, and that OP somehow identifies with the picture, there’s no personal attack.  But if she actually is referring to the author of this post...  dude, she just through you some serious shade. And in the world of social media, the worst reply to shade is whining about it.

Another thing to keep in mind is that SM allows providers to interact with followers. Was she fishing for sympathy and compliments? Yes. Just like every other IG model and even media star on Twitter.  

And the whole “I pay money, respect me!!!” demand? If the OP knew anything about respect, he would know it’s not bought, it’s earned.

Micktoz, just to be clear, my rant isn’t directed to you, it’s the OP who got me going! 😂😂😂

We all know photos aren't always accurate and sometimes who shows up just isn't what you are expecting.  But to think that you are all that and trash guys who would criticize shows how much lack of respect you have for the paying client to being with.

Most clients are good people who have sucked it up even if she turned up ugly and not represented properly by her photos

souls_harbor52 reads

Well, not a provider, a potential sugar baby (actually a middle age woman) over on Seeking Arrangments.  She requested my photos, which I keep private, but release on request.   She told me I had weird stuff going on with my teeth (actually I do have an over-bite.)  She also said I was lo-IQ and reported me for mentioning PPM (which got me kicked off the site.)

So we do get "reviews."   Some of them are not so good. ha ha

...she saved you some money which you can spend on someone who is more appreciative of her clientele.

So far, I haven't caught any of the providers that I know making fun of me, to make them feel good about themselves.  
It's difficult for some women and men to remember where the line of good marketing for their livelihood starts and their personal social media starts.  

Just humans being inconsiderate humans, I guess.  

Libertine_Proust61 reads

Not really sure that posting her tweet was the most mature/ appropriate thing to do...

The fact is that quite a few of these girls are super model quality, and I can only assume she has come across hobbyist that are no better than average in the looks department. So, in some ways, her tweet may be an accurate assessment.  

Also, do you really think these women should respect you simply because you're a "paying customer"? Didn't realize respect was granted so easily.

some pretty clear specifics. She's clearly relating this meme to her experience as a (I'm assuming here, but cut me some slack) beautiful, fit women who probably goes out of her way to maintain that and despite her best efforts, gets cut down by harsh reviewers who put no effort into their physical well-being but are quick to criticize.  

Yes, yes, paying customers, but handing over cash doesn't give you the right to be overly critical. If you meet someone and you don't dig them physically and it's through no fault of their own (they've presented themselves truthfully, they just aren't your flavor), why bash them? Doesn't really make sense, but it happens every single day. We women are living in a world where everyday we encounter people who feel it's their place to belittle or criticize us and our appearance. We offer ourselves intimately knowing that you're going to be analyzing and potentially criticizing our every move and word, can't we hope for a little kindness in talking about our flaws?

xo

souls_harbor59 reads

It's a false equivance though. A restaurant reviewer doesn't compare against his own cooking skills, nor does the movie critic compare against his own acting or directing skills. The comparison is always against peers.

...I guess I focused on the part where she said anything less than a perfect score was an insult. So, just like there are overly critical reviewers, there are gals who go ballistic if they get anything less than a 10/10.  

IMHO, both of these extremes are the minority and most of us operate more in the middle.  

Solo dos mis centavos

...... It glosses over that being mean back is childish, high-school bullying and she is trying to get her followers to make fun too.
I followed the thread and it was condescending to all TER members  at the least.

I mean, really?!?!  Unless the OP knows that he’s the guy who downrated her on appearance, and that OP somehow identifies with the picture, there’s no personal attack.  But if she actually is referring to the author of this post...  dude, she just through you some serious shade. And in the world of social media, the worst reply to shade is whining about it.

Another thing to keep in mind is that SM allows providers to interact with followers. Was she fishing for sympathy and compliments? Yes. Just like every other IG model and even media star on Twitter.  

And the whole “I pay money, respect me!!!” demand? If the OP knew anything about respect, he would know it’s not bought, it’s earned.

Micktoz, just to be clear, my rant isn’t directed to you, it’s the OP who got me going! 😂😂😂

John_Laroche51 reads

Maybe because I'm not a fat slob with manboobs and a bad haircut. maybe because her body alone is worth a 12, or maybe because her "I hate you" is just funny at face value.  

 
I suggest that if you're really offended, book a session with her and give her a solid 7 in looks, but be sure to rave about how hot her face is in her review, just a little too thin for your taste and with the fake chest you can't rate any higher.

 
Everyone really needs to just lighten up.

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It's super interesting to note that she is only generally speaking of SOME TER reviewers and y'all are up in arms at the idea. Can you imagine what it's like to have someone nitpicking you on a public forum that's attached to your working persona and an extension of yourself. It's no wonder people lose their shit if you guys can't even handle the idea that someone would call out harsh reviewers...

Just saying.

It's not really a big deal. She was just making fun of a client with a meme. The OP seems to have taken it personally.  
I don't like the idea of making fun of clients in any industry. Actually, I'm not much for making fun of  people for their looks at all. But I do see the irony that she was pointing out.
It's a lot more interesting to read the whole thread on twatter. It would be interesting to read the review.

Take a chill pill sweetheart, I think uh, you're taking things all so very personally, doncha think?

Three women are visible in the photo ( the 4th doesn’t count IMHO), none are asian...

As someone else mentioned, lighten up. There is a joke somewhere here...

I was of all things, mixing her a drink and talking about my day, happened to turn and caught her mimicking me. I asked her about it as we headed out for dinner. Her response: "yes, no, maybe".  My response: "I'll take it out on you later". And I did  ( - :  

MfSD>>>>

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As a provider, i couldn’t agree more. When a provider bad mouths clients, especially on her social media, it is a reflection on her. I always try and put myself in their shoes. Would i appreciate someone trash talking about me? The answer is no, I’d run like hell. I’ve learned a lot in my 3 years escorting.  That is, try and be yourself. Men like women of all shapes , sizes, ages and appearances. Be honest with your photos. If you aren’t who you depict yourself to be, clients will feel tricked , deceited. And no one likes to be tricked.  

Better luck sweetie:-))  

Xoxo 💋

Posted By: cowgirlrides

We all know photos aren't always accurate and sometimes who shows up just isn't what you are expecting.  But to think that you are all that and trash guys who would criticize shows how much lack of respect you have for the paying client to being with.  
   
 Most clients are good people who have sucked it up even if she turned up ugly and not represented properly by her photos

but I guess after reading other post by some of these guys it seems to me that anyone who is willing to give them pussy gets a 10/10 regardless

Sorry guys just because she is willing to have sex with you don't make her a 10 or even a 7 in looks considering she is a escort and that is what she is suppose to do.

Looks like she views her clients as ugly fools and she deserves a 10 regardless just because she can fuck you.

No the only person who has low self-esteem is you when you let people put you down just so you can get laid and to top it off you are paying her to boot.  Nope the low self-esteem is you not the one who actually voice themselves.

Why are you taking this so personally? Unless you just saw her and reviewed her less than perfect, I don't see why it matters to you so much. Just put her on a bitch list and move on.  Plenty of ladies who appreciate their clients. No point in glorifying the ones that don't.

Not sure what you actually intended to communicate, but the message you posted read like you took this really personally.

She posted a meme. Maybe it’s generational, but to millenials and Gen Y, the “meme” in and of itself a genre of communication that has certain characteristics. Over the top comparisons, brash statements of self-confidence. Even corporations marketing departments have recognized this and incorporated it into their social media (See Moon Pie, Domino’s, Yumms et al).  Hence my, “Dude, get over it” reaction.

I also find it ironic that hobbyists readily acknowledge that that beautiful hour or two of “reunited long lost lovers “ or “like a college gf” (two of the most common lines found in thousands of reviews) is a fantasy, but some just about apoplecticlly lose their shit when they see an indication that a provider merely acknowledges “yep, it’s a fantasy” via a meme or posting a thread on a forum about a less than desirable experience with a client.

Maybe it’s not a self esteem issue.  Maybe it’s an entitlement issue. Either way, the post read like it was dripping with both.  In any case, please don’t be so naive as to believe you’re going to post on this forum criticizing a well reviewed provider without getting some reciprocal criticism in return...

and perhaps she was speaking about the guys (not all but some) who get over critical. For every guy who inflates scores, there is at least another that deflates them and finds anything to complain about.  

I don't feel the need to trash customers nor even tweet about any annoyance in my life I come across. Majority of the time, I have a great time and appreciate the guys I see.  

I actually had a few dms on twatter asking why I don't complain about the guys like some do. My annoyances are with those I never met (those who contact me & I decide to not meet them). So for me, what's the point in bringing it up if it doesn't have to do with those I meet. Even (as happens time to time) if a regular irks me, It's just him, not the other guys. No point in me looking negative & for guys I've met (or may meet in the future) of thinking I am a complainer over what a specific guy does.

People read into things as how they want to & I know damn well some guys will take it personally, even if it isn't about them. Plus some will assume you don't like your job or are too picky (even if not being picky).

So for me, there is nothing to gain by posting on social media about stuff such as this because it doesn't paint a broad stroke of who I see. I can easily say whatever my grievance is directly to the offender. I am pretty good at having patience & not letting things ruin my day.

It's a business. It is why most gals read the guy's reviews before seeing him. If he seems fair, then cool. If he always gives 5's but it reads out like a 9, now why in the world would I want to see someone who shows he can't be pleased to his liking. I want to appreciate my guys & for them to appreciate me. It works lovely for me.

I found it kinda funny.  It made me chuckle and I’m no Adonis.

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