I've had plenty of very nice BJs, but I can't think of more than a few that rank as "hottest or longest." On the other hand, I can quickly recall in vivid detail at least twice as many great DATY sessions. Here's the Cliff's Notes version of just a few:
I was with a FBSM provider who I had seen numerous times. Up until now, she was always strictly massage. I had expressed my desire to explore more, but she always said no. Well it was the Christmas season, so I booked a little longer session and arrived with a gift, card, and champagne. Her eyes lit up with gratitude. Once the massage started, she climbed up on the table more quickly than usual and laid next to me. As I rolled over, she gently guided my head down between her legs. It was glorious. I'm not sure if I had ever felt a woman orgasm so intensely.
On the other end of the spectrum, I was with an Eastern European provider who's English was not the best and she had just arrived in town, so seemed unsettled. Although she was pleasant, we just weren't clicking and we were basically going through the motions. After a little kissing and BBBJ, we switched to 69. I must have hit the right spot, because she lost all interest in pleasuring me and gave my face a RCG ride for the ages. After she O'd, her jet lag and our language barrier were a thing of the past.
I could go on...the yoga instructor who O'd xxxxx times, the college GF who was so wet that....., but just writing this makes we need to go pound one out.
Nice threAD by the way.
Which do you love more, giving or receiving oral? What was the hottest and longest session you remember either giving or receiving?
As much as I love receiving, I enjoy giving hands down. It gives me a natural high watching my playmate's facial expressions intensify then turn into a smile. It is so rewarding for me. The way the body reacts to every move I passionately make is absolutely thrilling. Christmas is not the only season to celebrate giving to others 
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Well I’m a longer duration guy I like to receive but for me it needs to be a sloppy and loud blowjob or else I just can’t cum just by stimulation alone ( I know I sound like I’m lying, but I’m jealous of you guys gettin off in just minutes 😩) but I prefer to please the woman first as that kind of gets me off, just the real moans, body reactions is actually my huge turn on, I can kind of tell if she is faking it by intercourse which is a huge TURN OFF, I don’t just eat but I caress, kiss the whole body starting from the inner thighs workin my way up to the ears softly kissing and whispering, that To me I think of as giving, not just DATY but investing my energy into her pleasure
When the juice is sweet, and I can get her off in just a few minutes, that is a great thrill.
On the other hand, some gals oral technique is so fine that I have to confess to loving that, especially if they'll take me all the way and then some.
That's like asking me if I like redheads more than blondes... or brunettes more than raven haired beauties... they are all great in their own way and each a pleasure to be savored... I see no need to rank them. 
and it also reminds me that I too am conflicted on this issue. I think the only honest way for me to answer it is to say the hotter the woman, the more likely it is that I would rather give than to receive, knowing full well that I am going to get a reward for a job well done, said reward coming in the form of a wet juicy pussy and a very revved up woman for my pleasure when we get to the main course.
OTOH, if the woman is just kind of meh, in that case I can lay back, close my eyes and fantasize that it's some real hottie sucking my dick.
I think I need to do more research before I can form a coherent opinion.
OMG... Your picture you posted has properly distracted me. We have similar taste in women. Can we enjoy her together?
......... when one woman is sitting on my face, yum, and the other one is BBBJ. So good!
I do enjoy giving long and slow oral pleasure to a woman. No time limits. Pleasure shouldn't have limits.
I once had a wonderful session with a salacious pixie who edged me for a good 90 minutes with her mouth and hands. It was wonderful.
Wow! How dreamy to have a fantasy pixie who generously gives. You have been a good boy to receive such a treat.
I love giving DATY. I kind of pride myself on my talent in this sex act category and have won numerous awards for it. Okay......that last part's not true but I've had many partners in and out of hobby life tell me that if such awards were given I'd win top honors. Nothing turns me on more than making her come with my mouth.
We can all sit here and say as providers we just LOVE giving more because it sounds alot better lol..Let's be honest it all depends. I love giving when my play partner is clean, receptive and appreciative and doesn't just lay there like a log. In that case I rather just smother you and sit on your face. I love receiving bc I don't get tons of oral stimulation so if someone wants to I am more than for it. Mutually oral sessions are the best to me. I think I love oral more than sex, depending on who it is. Lol.
Hottest sessions are ones where the guy loves to be smothered, spend unrushed time pleasing me or a guy who loves sloppy bjs. Lol what can I say just being honest lol.
Maddy
... without mutual DATY would be lacking and disappointing.
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I've had plenty of very nice BJs, but I can't think of more than a few that rank as "hottest or longest." On the other hand, I can quickly recall in vivid detail at least twice as many great DATY sessions. Here's the Cliff's Notes version of just a few:
I was with a FBSM provider who I had seen numerous times. Up until now, she was always strictly massage. I had expressed my desire to explore more, but she always said no. Well it was the Christmas season, so I booked a little longer session and arrived with a gift, card, and champagne. Her eyes lit up with gratitude. Once the massage started, she climbed up on the table more quickly than usual and laid next to me. As I rolled over, she gently guided my head down between her legs. It was glorious. I'm not sure if I had ever felt a woman orgasm so intensely.
On the other end of the spectrum, I was with an Eastern European provider who's English was not the best and she had just arrived in town, so seemed unsettled. Although she was pleasant, we just weren't clicking and we were basically going through the motions. After a little kissing and BBBJ, we switched to 69. I must have hit the right spot, because she lost all interest in pleasuring me and gave my face a RCG ride for the ages. After she O'd, her jet lag and our language barrier were a thing of the past.
I could go on...the yoga instructor who O'd xxxxx times, the college GF who was so wet that....., but just writing this makes we need to go pound one out.
Nice threAD by the way.
Thanks for painting those sexy encounters for me. It's hard not to a bit hot after imagining all this.
Especially if you are with a lsdy that is multiorgasmic. The smile on their face when we are done is priceless.
That's the beauty of choosing whom we see and how we play -- we get to do what we want (assuming a willing and, hopefully, enthusiastic partner).
ALL of my fave experiences involve a LOT of oral play, both giving and receiving -- 3BJ for me, DATY for her, DATO for both of us (again, the willing and enthusiastic partner) -- and then all of the other great interplay as well.
Her moans, groans and shouts of "Oh yeah! RIGHT THERE!!" as she shudders and climaxes again -- yeah, keeps me hard and is a great reinforcer that I'm doing what she wants. Especially when she bucks up against my tongue, mashes my head down into her pussy and shakes uncontrollably. Makes me want to give her that experience again -- and usually about 45 minutes later, we do just that!
It's all about the energy exchange for me -- two people giving each other what they want and receiving back in turn.
...when meeting a date who is also very insistent on the focus of the date being on me for the bulk of our playtime (even though he/she is the one paying). It's a nice problem to have though lol.
Hugs and Kisses
I have given for over an hour many times. One time I got a cramp in my tongue!!!! Gotten for 45 minutes from an outstanding lady.
Unfortunately, only one 'well-known' NYC provider has been able to elevate me to a state of sensorial ecstasy with her masterful oral skills (but still no finish - in fact, have never been able to finish this way).
Perhaps TMI, but with this particular provider, she sucked so hard that my urinary meatus was distorted for about a week, and I could swear I had grown a few centimeters. For the next ~3 weeks, just thinking about her oral skills would be an immediate turn-on.
So, obviously her skills are phenomenal, but I've concluded that if I she couldn't bring me to a finish, it probably isn't happening any time soon.
Sounds like someone I must meet. Sounds like she can suck a tennis ball through a straw or the chrome off a trailer hitch. My kind of girl.
Care to share?
Certainly! Are you based in NYC? And are you into Korean providers?
Her name begins with a "K" if that rings any bells?!
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"I'm starting to get some feeling back in my jaw now."
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(See previous discussion: http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-12/sex-with-you-is-really-a-kafkaesque-experience-935079?frmSearch=1#935079 )
I am one who use to enjoy Daty. But in my experience while I like it, those receiving where less interested. Might be my technique. Seeing how so many guys are happy to write a review where they know giving daty got the the provider off, BS. If they told you the truth it would shatter your fragile ego.
I’m not saying providers don’t get off or are don’t care to get daty. But my experience over 20 years they only want you to think ur a god, and they are still good.
Now for my receiving, I refrain most of the time from extended bbbjs. Because most of the time it just doesn’t work for me. Usually after no more than 10mins I stop. I don’t care if in 10mins more effort they could, sorry ladies.
I’ve set challenges on a few occasions, non have been successful. To bring me to finish from a Bbbj it takes to long, that’s just me.but please not stop from accepting the challenge.
Some reviews go on to say the bbbbj lasted more than 30 minutes, ok that might work, but omg I think about how uncomfortable they feel after shoving my dick in their mouth that long.
So while I’ll try and entertain them with daty, I know I’m not good. It’s best to go on from there not waste time and finish otherwise. A older guy from work once told me, why would I, she pees, and gave birth to my kids down there.
The pride that providers state about seeing or making us finish, that too I understand. They feel inadequate if the one simple task is to make a guys have an orgasms can’t be completed what’s the point trying. As for giving and receiving I think they only say they like giving us the most awesome Bbbj for marketing. I mean who wants to chock gag or have there mouths filled for an extended period of time. Tell me as a guy there are occasions or something that you would like this, seriously.
For those who on either side can get 2 out of each other in 1 hr, I salute you.
For someone who thinks the can get me off by a bbbj, contact me, I’ll give you 2 times ur hourly, now for those who in any way think they can finish me 2 times I’ll give again double.
But, here is the best challenge, if you can get me off 3 times in 1hr, I’ll give u 3 times ur gift LoL
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... I don't have favorites for everything.
and receiving is my favorite.
My favorite is always giving. Just the fact that I can do that and make them at a all time high is what get's me going. I would agree to what you had said it's very rewarding to me as well. Just total sexual pleasure.
If I was with you, and only had the option of giving or receiving, I would be down on you in a flash.
I’ve had several occasions where a woman’s orally induced orgasm and/or squirting has caused me to orgasm simultaneously without physical stimulation. Once with a college girl-friend who had a back arching, bed shaking climax, the other with a FBSM Provider who gushed into my mouth from the 69 position.
Final was a young Russian dominatrix who was tease/denying me as I was strapped onto a bed. I had no idea a golden shower was coming, but as she commanded me to open my mouth, and the stream began to shoot out onto my face, I lunges forward, clamped my mouth on her pussy, and proceed to ejaculate as her gold poured down my throat.
As long as he is open to me giving him directions on how to make me cum and I can cum! Feeling him grow hard in my mouth and hearing the noises as he enjoys it then completes is very hot and arousing. Also feeling a tongue go over my nether regions and the sensations that they create.... Oh I love them both, truly I do!!!
...i love giving...there's nothing i crave more that the sliding of my tongue in a tight/wet pussy
Nothing better than an enthusiastic giver
I Love to Please!
I love to please but when i am on the clock and it's my dime please, please me.
I enjoy a good BBBJ, but there is nothing like going down on a sweet tasting pussy and working my magic till I feel her come. Yes, many providers will fake it. If I feel that I am not doing it for her, I will stop and let her do the work.
But if she is enjoying it, I will know. You can't easily fake the spasms and especially that special wetness that I can taste when a woman is coming under my mouth.
I love the way, when it is over, she will usually just pull my on top and be horny and too sensitive to touch at the same time.
Who wouldn’t enjoy a little reciprocity?
I absolutely love a good BBBJ, who doesn't? But I also love to DATY. I like to be able to concenrate on the sights smells and sounds of pleasure. If I am getting my dick sucked at the same time I can't perfom as well I think.